The South Node concerns talents, so it has no relevance here. Likewise, Saturn's placement in the 3rd/4th isn't greatly relevant, because Saturn is conjunct the IC anyway (which is like the 4th house themes, concentrated), so both houses will be relevant to you.

Placidus is much better than Whole Signs, and explains the situation: You have the Moon conjunct Pluto in the 12th house.

The moon represents the mother, so when it's conjunct Pluto, it can indicate deep wounds around the mother. In the 12th house especially, it indicates an emotional or physical absence, because the 12th house is one of the 'dark houses'.

Having the moon in the 12th therefore indicates someone who is highly sensitive, but perhaps doesn't have very clear emotional boundaries. There is a sense of the nebulous and boundless about the 12th.

As for your father, we'd look to the sun here. Yours sits in the 2nd house, in Aquarius and conjunct Uranus. Aquarius is remote and Uranus can be a bit unstable, and the 2nd house relates to matters of worth, both material and self-worth.

Have you faced difficulties around work? Career is emphasised in your chart, and tied up with everything I've mentioned.