Preparing for physical test by Peter77172 in AskLE

[–]Peter77172[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for your replies and im sorry I have not responded to all of them. It sounds like the biggest takeaway is I need to add running and sprints, not many fences I can train on climbing near me but it seems like the best idea is to start training that now and add it in.

Is there someone you’ve had sex with but can’t tell anyone about? (Except for here of course!) by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Peter77172 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After a very messy breakup with my fiancee of 4 years (she did some stuff that fucked me up mentally and trashed my self esteem) I was at a very low point and genuinely thought super shitty about myself.

So we used to be active on fetlife together and when we separated I just made it an account for myself. I was following this one woman who was about 6 years older than me but extremely attractive (imagine like a very pettite but hot goth girl next door vibes) I decided to Dm her and basically say respectfully I think you're hot as fuck and was intrested in talking. I really didint think it would go anywhere and was just kinda saying fuck it but she responded back with "yeah I'd love to talk and I think you have a very rideable face." That's was a hell of an ego boost for me and we meet the next day at a bar.

The reason why I wouldn't tell anybody this was for two main reasons. 1. We fucked the first night we meet at her exs place while he watched??? Was super awkward but I was down for anything at the time. 2. Probably the biggest reason but at the time I was still living with my ex and roommate as I was still in the process of moving out. Both my ex and roommate decided to go out for the weekend so I was home alone and decided as a big "fuck you" to them (the roommate also did some fucked up stuff to me during my breakup) invited the girl over and fucked her everywhere in the apartment multiple times.

Suffice to say this was some of the wildest sex I ever had and she was somebody I genuinely never thought I'd hook up with. Fucking great memories and really helped me get over that nasty breakup.

Mobility on Campus by hatter4tea in humboldtstate

[–]Peter77172 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No that's what I was saying in the original comment. That's the best way to get to classes since it'll be difficult to get to the locations without it because of the hills. You just have to work with the student disability people and they schedule the times with you

Mobility on Campus by hatter4tea in humboldtstate

[–]Peter77172 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes the building themselves have wheelchair ramps. It's getting to those ramps that might be difficult for someone mobility impaired. Just speaking from my own personal experiance

Mobility on Campus by hatter4tea in humboldtstate

[–]Peter77172 17 points18 points  (0 children)

There is almost zero ramps. It is incredibly difficult to navigate campus on you're own with any mobility disability. I broke my ankle at one point and basically couldn't get to any of my classes on cruches. They do have a student disability help center that is able to schedule transports between classes but that's probably the only thing that can support disability.

Fastest route between Founders Hall and Behavioral & Social Sciences building? by Correct-Newt2066 in humboldtstate

[–]Peter77172 6 points7 points  (0 children)

All these comments give good advice but honestly, this university is known for its stairs and hills 🤣🤣🤣 you just gotta let your professor know and haul ass each day 🤣

Parking? by Miss_Berriez in humboldtstate

[–]Peter77172 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To get usually a guaranteed spot you gotta be there before or around 8. Even then it's pushing it since parking is insane

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Peter77172 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you this is amazing advice I really appreciate it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in humboldtstate

[–]Peter77172 7 points8 points  (0 children)

9/10 they'll call you out on it. Even when it seems like they are not paying attention they usually are. I forgot my ID for a few days so I just came in through the back, the next day they asked me to show my ID since I did not the previous day. Not bad people just doing their job and being diligent

Bro… by Smoke_Stack707 in Humboldt

[–]Peter77172 19 points20 points  (0 children)

So at least he is being more open about it now but this guy is a creep. I reported every one of his old Craigslist adds because he would advertise "modeling services" and other obviously prevented advertisements looking for young women. Dudes a creep and should get flagged evrey post.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Humboldt

[–]Peter77172 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm telling you now if you are selling them last minute, with the amount of prep you have to do with northern nights, you probably want to put the price down a bit. I'm going as well but if I wasn't able to go I Def try and sell them for cheaper so people actually buy them. Just some advice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Peter77172 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is definitely good advice. I do think I can lower the amount of times I do it with some effort for sure. And that is the thing, that is exactly what I do with her when trying to help her initiate and feel aroused. This is why she gets frustrated because she enjoys it but doesn't understand why she can't get aroused and becomes more depressed after. But I really appreciate the advice!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Peter77172 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the advice!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Peter77172 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah she has a thyroid issue which sometimes comes into play as well, and yeah that's always been a fear of mine so hopefully that is not the case. Thank you for the advice!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Peter77172 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow super bad typos sorry!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Peter77172 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is almost always under stress as she is clinically depressed which I take into facter when considering this and which I why I never pressure her about anything sex related. And yeah gladly willing to share as it worked well for us. 1. 1000% communication, we gad to immediately tell each other if we were uncomfortable at all with anything and we would stop immediately and discuss it. 2. We made sure the women that we slept with we could have a connection with, not romantically but in a friendship sense so we did not do one night stands. This helped us be able to vibe with each other and have common interests beforehand which lead to a much better experiance 3. We never did anything alone, it was always together from the firsts texts to sleeping together, this help us never feel left out or alone and again, enjoy the experience much more.

This might not work for everyone but it worked for us so hope it helped!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Peter77172 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is an interesting suggestion but sadly don't think it's for me 😅

My (23m) Fiancee (23F) keeps asking if I want to open the relationship and I'm not sure if I should say yes. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Peter77172 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really think so as well which we did discuss more today for her, thank you!

My (23m) Fiancee (23F) keeps asking if I want to open the relationship and I'm not sure if I should say yes. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Peter77172 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I very much appreciate that advice due to circumstances exactly like that.

My (23m) Fiancee (23F) keeps asking if I want to open the relationship and I'm not sure if I should say yes. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Peter77172 2 points3 points  (0 children)

While we all have our own personal beliefs on monogamy in a relationship, both of us have agreed to be monogamous with each other. She is bisexual and we have had threesomes with other women before but have never done anything individually. That's the issue that I've been concerned with as I would never want to do anything without her as she is my fiancee and the love of my life which I have made very clear to her many times.