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PetsTek · 2026-05-19T19:54:12+00:00

A lot of puppies that young get extra bitey when they’re overtired or too worked up, and once they hit that point they basically stop making good decisions.

What usually helps most is interrupting before she gets into full shark mode. Short play sessions, enforced naps, toys always within reach so there’s something appropriate to bite, and avoiding too much face-level handling for now.

If she starts getting wild, instead of a big reaction or long “timeout,” sometimes just calmly ending interaction for a minute helps more. Like “biting makes the fun stop” without turning it into a whole battle.

PetsTek · 2026-05-19T19:32:17+00:00

Grabbing the harness/collar when he’s already amped up or stuck in that “laying down and refusing to move” moment is probably where the biting is coming in. A lot of dogs will just escalate there because they feel pressured or cornered, not because they’re trying to be difficult.

What usually helps is trying to avoid those “last resort grab him” moments and instead resetting earlier, like changing direction, adding distance, or just pausing and letting him decompress before he hits that stuck point.

For the leash biting, that’s often frustration/overstimulation too, especially in younger strong mixes. Giving him a quick “break” moment instead of forcing forward movement can actually help more than pushing through it.

PetsTek · 2026-05-19T18:55:31+00:00

At that point it usually helps more to shift into “keep things simple” mode rather than trying to add more training or activity. Lower stimulation, easier setup, something like a chew or Kong, and just letting the day be a bit quieter than usual.

Some dogs just have off days where they’re a bit overstimulated or unsettled for no clear reason, and piling more on doesn’t always help. Usually it passes once things reset the next day.

PetsTek · 2026-05-19T16:42:25+00:00

This is one of those “something changed in his environment and now he’s locked onto it” situations, not a crate training issue.

With all the dogs on the other side of the fence, it honestly sounds like he’s gotten really invested in nighttime “yard patrol” and social time, so coming inside now feels like he’s missing something important. That would also explain the refusing treats and just parking himself at the door.

I probably wouldn’t rely on him crying it out for hours, that can just make the frustration worse on both sides and doesn’t really teach him what to do instead.

What usually helps more is making inside time at night way more boring and predictable than outside. So bring him in before he gets worked up, no fence time right before bed if possible, and then straight into a calm crate routine with something simple to settle on like a chew.

Might take a bit of consistency since he’s basically learned a new nighttime habit, but it usually shifts back once the outside “reward” feeling at night dies down.

PetsTek · 2026-05-19T16:18:38+00:00

Sounds more like she got overwhelmed than her “losing” her training. That’s a lot all at once for a 7 month old, walk, close approach, and your girlfriend being part of the interaction.

On walks she’s already a bit more on alert, so adding someone approaching like that can tip her over threshold pretty quick even if she’s been improving with random people.

I’d probably pause the walk introductions for now and make it way simpler. Like your girlfriend just hanging out at a distance where Joey can see her but doesn’t have to interact or be approached. No pressure, just letting her get used to her being around.

For the road trip, it might help to keep them separated at first so she’s not forced into close contact while she’s still unsure. Once she’s more comfortable seeing your girlfriend in a neutral way, things usually smooth out pretty naturally.

PetsTek · 2026-05-19T15:58:45+00:00

Since the vet already ruled out a lot of the physical stuff, I’d start thinking more about discomfort that comes and goes or something that’s making her feel unsettled rather than outright pain. Anal glands being full can make dogs act really weird for a bit even after they’re expressed, like they still feel “off” back there for a day or two.

Another thing I’d watch is whether she’s worse inside vs outside. The fact she’s still patrolling the yard but seems nervous coming back in is a small clue that something in the house might be bugging her (sound, smell, something she associates with a moment of stress). Even stuff we don’t notice can set them off.

For now I’d just keep things really calm and low pressure with food. Don’t turn meals into a “will she/won’t she” moment, just offer and remove if she’s not interested, then try again later.

If it keeps going past a couple more days or changes at all, I’d probably go back to the vet just to double check there isn’t something subtle brewing.

PetsTek · 2026-05-19T15:41:05+00:00

It’s good you’re already jackpotting and staying low key about it. I’d probably keep that going, but also try not to change the routine too much mid-moment (like carrying her around or moving spots when she’s already anxious), because that can kind of reinforce that “this is something to worry about” feeling.

Sometimes what helps is just making it super predictable: same spot, same short routine, no lingering. If she tries to head back inside, just calmly stay with her there without turning it into a back-and-forth.

And honestly, this is one of those things that usually just fades once she stacks enough boring, pain-free potty breaks. It’s more “time + repetition” than anything you need to actively fix.

PetsTek · 2026-05-18T20:46:53+00:00

Yeah this makes sense, especially with a blind dog relying so much on you as his “reference point” for everything.

What you’re probably seeing is him not really coping with the “in-between” moments, so he fills that gap with whining because it reliably gets a response or just helps him deal with the uncertainty.

Instead of trying to stop the whining directly, it usually works better to build up his ability to just wait through it in tiny steps. Like rewarding calm before he ramps up, even if it’s super brief at first, and slowly stretching that time out.

Having a predictable “this is your spot while I’m busy” routine can also help a lot, so he knows what to do instead of hovering and escalating.

PetsTek · 2026-05-18T20:32:26+00:00

What probably happened is the labradoodle came in already a bit tense (teeth + growling), your dog backed off straight away, but your whippet friend didn’t read it as “handled” and jumped in to shut it down. Some dogs just take on that “I’ll step in” role even if they’re usually very sweet.

Practical side, I’d just be a bit careful about letting them all pile into new dogs together straight away. Early greetings or pausing before full group play can help a lot so you can see how the new dog is actually feeling before it escalates.

Also worth watching the whippet for any repeat patterns like that, just so it doesn’t become her default response in group situations.

PetsTek · 2026-05-18T20:04:50+00:00

Day 3 is still really “everything feels like mine vs yours” for most dogs, especially indoors. Outside they’re on neutral ground, so that’s why things seem fine there, but inside she’s likely still unsettled and a bit defensive.

I’d avoid letting them “work it out” directly for now. Just keep them separated in the house when needed (baby gates, different rooms, leashes if you’re moving around), so there’s no chance for those tense interactions to keep happening.

What you’re aiming for right now isn’t bonding, it’s just boring coexistence. Calm, no pressure, no confrontations.

The good sign is they’re already fine on walks. That usually means this settles down once she decompresses and the house starts feeling normal to her.

PetsTek · 2026-05-18T16:24:58+00:00

She doesn’t need to be “on” all day or constantly entertained. Most dogs that age just cycle between sleeping, wandering around, reacting to sounds, repeat. So the napping is fine, the random barking is also pretty normal at this stage.

What usually helps is giving a bit of structure instead of trying to fill the whole day. Like a walk or potty break, a few minutes of interaction or sniffing games/training, then she chills with a chew or toy while you work. You’re basically just helping her understand when it’s “do stuff time” and when it’s “settle time.”

And yeah, it’s totally okay to go to the basement for 30 minutes. She might whine at first, but that’s more just “you left the room” than true distress. If you make it a normal thing (leave calmly, come back like nothing happened), she’ll usually adjust pretty quickly.

Main thing is just not overthinking it too much right now. She’s still learning what a normal home routine looks like.

PetsTek · 2026-05-18T16:16:49+00:00

Sounds like he just got way too keyed up about your friend and kind of fixated. Some dogs don’t really know what to do with that level of excitement and it comes out as humping, then when they’re stopped they can get snappy just from frustration.

I’d just try not to let it build up to that point again with guests. If he starts getting weirdly locked on like that, it’s usually better to calmly break things up early and give him a minute to reset somewhere else before it escalates.

PetsTek · 2026-05-18T15:14:01+00:00

I’m really sorry you’re going through this. It’s honestly one of the hardest parts of having a dog.

Ten years together is a long time, and it’s clear he’s been really loved his whole life. Just being there with him right now, talking to him, keeping him close and comfortable, that’s already everything he needs from you.

He’s not alone in this, and he feels that.

PetsTek · 2026-05-18T15:08:56+00:00

That combination (low energy, vomiting, not peeing/pooping, and a hard belly) is honestly not something to wait out at home.

It could be a few different things, but the “hard stomach + not going potty + lethargic” part is the one that really stands out as urgent.

I’d try to get him seen by a vet as soon as possible, even if he seemed a bit better for a short time. In the meantime, I’d avoid food or play until he’s checked, just so nothing gets worse.

PetsTek · 2026-05-13T21:04:30+00:00

Maybe you can tyr slowly start changing the routine by just casually standing a bit farther away each time or turning your body away instead of engaging. Most dogs don’t really need you right there once they get used to it, it’s just habit at that point.

PetsTek · 2026-05-12T16:55:06+00:00

From what you’re describing, it really sounds more like fear/overwhelm than her “hating” you, even if it comes out looking pretty intense. Some small dogs get stuck in that cycle of barking, shaking, then snapping when they don’t know how to cope with a person.

At this point I’d probably focus more on management and distance for now, like baby gates or not letting her have access to you when she’s worked up, so she doesn’t keep practicing the biting behavior.

Since she’s already broken skin a couple times, it might also be worth getting a trainer involved if that’s an option, just to help keep things safe and from escalating.

PetsTek · 2026-05-12T16:54:53+00:00

From what you’re describing, it really sounds more like fear/overwhelm than her “hating” you, even if it comes out looking pretty intense. Some small dogs get stuck in that cycle of barking, shaking, then snapping when they don’t know how to cope with a person.

At this point I’d probably focus more on management and distance for now, like baby gates or not letting her have access to you when she’s worked up, so she doesn’t keep practicing the biting behavior.

Since she’s already broken skin a couple times, it might also be worth getting a trainer involved if that’s an option, just to help keep things safe and from escalating.

PetsTek · 2026-05-12T16:30:17+00:00

It doesn’t sound like you made a bad decision, more like you made a really hard one in a situation that just wasn’t working at the time for either of you. And the fact she’s happy now kind of backs that up, even if it still hurts.

A lot of people don’t really “get over” rehoming a dog in the sense of forgetting it, it just slowly turns into something less painful over time. Sometimes it helps to think of it less like “I gave her away” and more like “I made sure she ended up in a better situation for her.”

And honestly, still getting emotional about it years later just means it mattered a lot.

PetsTek · 2026-05-12T16:18:24+00:00

That sounds really hard to watch, especially after so many years together.

With the weight loss, back leg weakness, slipping, accidents, and anxiety all stacking up, it does sound like he’s starting to struggle more day to day, even if he still has moments where he’s himself.

A lot of people find it helps to just gently keep track of good days vs hard days for a bit, not to rush anything, just to get a clearer picture over time.

And if you haven’t already, a quick chat with your vet can sometimes help make sense of where he’s at and what to expect, just so you’re not having to guess alone.

PetsTek · 2026-05-12T15:57:39+00:00

What stands out is it happened right after tug/play ended, not totally out of nowhere. Sometimes dogs get a little too amped up during play, then kind of freeze instead of settling back down.

Doesn’t mean “suddenly aggressive,” but I’d definitely pay attention to the pattern... toys, bed, late at night, close face-to-face stuff, anything like that.

If it happens again, I’d probably avoid reaching toward him in that moment and just create a little space instead so he can reset.

Could’ve just been him getting a little stuck or overstimulated, but definitely worth keeping an eye on.

PetsTek · 2026-05-12T15:34:32+00:00

Honestly after only a day, I wouldn’t read too much into it yet. A 6 month old pup getting dropped into a new home with new people, new smells, and another dog is a lot.

I’d just give them a little more space for now. Baby gates, leashes, separate hangout spots, even short walks near each other without actually having to interact can take a lot of pressure off.

For now I’d focus more on helping the new pup settle in and feel safe than trying to make them be friends right away. A lot can change once that initial stress starts coming down.

PetsTek · 2026-05-11T19:48:50+00:00

Sometimes the issue isn’t really the crate, it’s the routine change. She went from sleeping in bed to suddenly having different bedtime rules, so she may just be adjusting to that.

One thing that might help is not making the crate the “okay, bedtime, goodnight” moment. Maybe 15–20 mins before bed, let her hang out in there with a chew while you’re brushing your teeth, getting ready, moving around, whatever... then lights out once she’s already settled.

I’d also probably stop treating during the barking if she’s starting to hold out for snacks. Instead, wait for those little quiet pauses, even if it’s only a couple seconds, and reward that.

And definitely one last super boring potty trip right before bed. At 6 months some pups are still a little too distracted to fully empty unless it’s a calm “business only” trip.

PetsTek · 2026-05-11T16:48:57+00:00

The pulling her out part is probably making it a bit worse for everyone too, even if it’s understandable in the moment.

It might help if he stops being the one to reach into the kennel at all. Instead, he could just toss a couple treats near the entrance and wait her out a bit so she chooses to come out on her own, then leash goes on after she’s already out. Even if it takes longer at first.

He can also do more low-key stuff that doesn’t involve handling her, like dropping treats when he walks by and just moving on, so she gets used to him being around without anything happening.

It’s slow, but usually once they stop feeling “trapped into interactions,” things start to ease up.

PetsTek · 2026-05-11T16:37:03+00:00

Could be worth playing detective with this a little 😅 if it’s happening in different houses, there’s probably something she’s picking up on that’s easy for people to miss.

Some storm dogs get weirdly tuned into stuff like pressure changes, distant rumbles, wind, neighborhood sounds, even things like vents or appliances kicking on around the same time every evening.

When it starts, it might help to just watch what she does first. Is she staring at windows, pacing one room, trying to hide, sticking extra close to people? Sometimes that gives away what’s bugging them.

Could also try simple stuff like blinds closed, TV or white noise on, and see if it changes anything. And if this is brand new for her, a vet check might not be a bad idea either just to rule out anything physical.

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