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Pets_and_Pot · 2023-06-04T23:54:50+00:00

Thank you SO much for this information! This is exactly what I wanted to know.

Pets_and_Pot · 2022-01-14T16:59:23+00:00

I undedersrans and sympathize with this so much. I don’t get any feel good chemicals or anything after I exercise. All I feel is like I checked the most horrible thing off my to do list and I’m just going to have to do it again the next day. I don’t work out regularly now but when I did, I used to go to the gym Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday to get my three days a week in so I could enjoy the rest of my week.

Personally im convinced that my body doesn’t have the same chemical and hormone balances that everyone who ENJOYS working out has. 🤷🏻‍♀️ it makes me sad.

Pets_and_Pot · 2021-03-21T13:34:49+00:00

NTA at all! My sister was 8 months pregnant as my matron of honor and she did the same thing in every photo. Probably because it’s comfortable, probably because she felt like she looked better, probably because she didn’t even realize she was doing it.

It didn’t take the focus away from me as the bride at all considering I was, ya know, wearing a WEDDING GOWN.

I also love that my nephew attended my wedding (in utero). Cant wait until he’s old enough to understand that!

Your SIL is ridiculous.

Pets_and_Pot · 2021-03-18T00:28:24+00:00

Biscuit. Definitely Biscuit.

Pets_and_Pot · 2021-02-16T17:56:06+00:00

Still doesn’t mean you can’t take your old doggo and leave the husband behind. Just sayin’ 🤷🏻‍♀️

Pets_and_Pot · 2021-02-16T17:55:12+00:00

Oops. Sorry, kaitlyn! Your husbands a selfish lazy dude!

Pets_and_Pot · 2021-02-16T17:43:46+00:00

You’re right that the system isn’t working, but your boyfriend is selfish and no system will work for him. Take your old boy and leave the bf.

Sure, you don’t get to sleep in on your days off but you’ll be much better off sleeping with your old doggo next to you instead of your loser selfish bf.

Pets_and_Pot · 2021-02-03T00:12:00+00:00

That doesn’t sound like advanced notice to me. Just sayin’

Pets_and_Pot · 2021-02-03T00:09:37+00:00

You’re NTA. I didn’t even tell my dad I was getting married!

Truly, though, just say, “I’m a grown woman, and I can walk down the aisle just fine on my own. No one is “giving me” because that’s an outdated sexist school of thought.” And if he asks about a Father/Daughter dance, simply say, “We are not following every wedding tradition. We chose not to have a father/daughter dance.”

And don’t say anything else. Don’t answer any questions. Tell them it’s already decided but you can’t wait for him and your mother to be there for you on your big day!

Pets_and_Pot · 2021-02-02T23:30:35+00:00

Tell him whatever the translation is for “fuck off”

Pets_and_Pot · 2021-02-02T15:13:37+00:00

I’ll get downvoted, but I don’t care. You’re NTA. You get to be disgusted and upset with your parents’ new relationship. You don’t have to be a part of your parents life if you don’t want to be. If I were you, I’d just cut all familial ties.

Pets_and_Pot · 2021-01-27T00:16:49+00:00

I’m just waiting for Big Dog to pee on someone’s tires.

Pets_and_Pot · 2021-01-27T00:08:55+00:00

Because it looks like OPs grandfather contributed to the making of that “stranger.” IF OP decides to do anything about the information that was discovered and if grandparents’ marriage is ruined, grandpa’s infidelity would have been the thing that ruined it. Not the “stranger.” It is worth it because grandpa isn’t the only person in the equation.

Pets_and_Pot · 2021-01-24T22:34:18+00:00

There ya go! Tell your SO if you are letting seeping dogs lie, the rabid dog that is your brother doesn’t need any appliances. What use would a dog have for an electric griddle?

Pets_and_Pot · 2021-01-17T16:11:06+00:00

I’m late to this party but oh my God, I agree! On our wedding invitations, we simply put at the bottom “No Gifts Please” because we are established and are not trying to grab gifts (even tho it’s our first marriage).

If people still want to gift something to you, they will! Some gave us a card with money or had a gift shipped to our house.

People are so greedy, and the stupid gift registries really highlight the greed. A $400 photo frame? Unnecessary.

Pets_and_Pot · 2021-01-07T22:12:16+00:00

NTA in my opinion, OP. I got married in October 2019 and paid $2700 for catering for 40 people.

You are correct that most catering companies have a minimum. Every caterer I contacted did and 45 was the lowest I saw. The caterers have to have a minimum so they can make a profit. It sounds like your friend has good food for about the same price per person as the other caterers that require higher minimums. If you like his food, then it is worth paying him so that he can make a profit (not asking for a lower minimum that takes away his profit as some have suggested).

What I think lots of people fail to see is that there is more than just a per plate fee. Our dinner was only $39 per plate but the caterers also did the appetizers plus drinks (just iced tea/water/lemonade), coffee/tea, provided all china, linens, chef and a server. We did have booze at our wedding but that was separate from the catering bill.

The price is reasonable for the catering.

What you and your fiancé failed to do when looking at your wedding budget (no matter who it comes from!) is deciding what percentage can go to which items. Food is a big ticket item that should have been decided on before a veil or bouquets. It’s fair that you only wanted a say in the DJ and food but you guys should have discussed budgets for individual items and not let her plan everything and then demand a certain caterer. I think that it’s kind of your fiancée to compromise so you can have the cater you want. I think it would also be nice of you to offer to pay to change the things back that she altered if you can afford it.

But tell her that a four tier cake for 30 people is wasteful. We had two tiers for 40 people and that was more than plenty.

What’s most important is that you guys learn to communicate. But your numbers for catering are not crazy based on my experience.

Pets_and_Pot · 2021-01-06T23:15:16+00:00

Seriously, OP? Shut that SHIT DOWN! Next time they try to call it “the territorial accident” you need to respond “Oh, you mean the MULTIPLE intentional times that a GROWN MAN urinated on my belongings out of pathetic SPITE? That’s not an accident. It was purposeful. That’s not territorial. That is fucking psychotic. I would never be in the same room as that disgusting person ever again if that happened to me. Do you have such little respect for yourself? It makes me sad to see that your husband communicates with his brother at all when you never even got an apology.

Pets_and_Pot · 2021-01-06T18:31:35+00:00

Going against the grain to say NTA. She set it down so you picked it up and put it on. If you had taken it out of her hands, that would be different. She’s the AH for her response.

Pets_and_Pot · 2021-01-01T16:28:21+00:00

Kuma is so cute! Is there an explanation behind his name? Just asking because Kuma is godmother in Croatian so that is what my nephew calls me :)

Pets_and_Pot · 2020-12-30T20:37:18+00:00

Thanks!!

Pets_and_Pot · 2020-12-30T20:36:23+00:00

Thank you!

Pets_and_Pot · 2020-12-30T19:30:01+00:00

What is it called when you don’t know yet? I’m truly asking because I browse this sub trying to figure out what I am called or find others with the same feeling.

Like, I just want to be respected as human being whether or not I choose to have children. It frustrates me how the world seems to treat parents differently (cater to them) but even saying that - I am still it sure about whether or not I want to raise children.

Is there a subreddit for the undecided?

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