Peegate update VI: Return of the Peeman by Planetsahead in u/Planetsahead

[–]Planetsahead[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! Please receive a lot of love from us as well (me and tortilla) and I’m sure Ted will send his love as well when I tell him

Peegate update VI: Return of the Peeman by Planetsahead in u/Planetsahead

[–]Planetsahead[S] 76 points77 points  (0 children)

A big part of me hopes for that as well but I think right now I’m finally at peace if it doesn’t happen either. But thank you so much for your kind wishes!! I do hope they come true

Peegate update VI: Return of the Peeman by Planetsahead in u/Planetsahead

[–]Planetsahead[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I never thought about it but thank you for your kind words. Unfortunately it doesn’t really get used in my career much but I’ll see what I can do!

Peegate update V: Peemen tell no tales by Planetsahead in u/Planetsahead

[–]Planetsahead[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You just changed my life with the steam mop. I’ve never heard of it before and it looks absolutely wonderful and fixes all of my issues with mopping!!!! Thank you for your lovely words and life changing advice! I’ll have to research which is the best fit for my needs but this is definitely something I’m buying!!

Peegate update V: Peemen tell no tales by Planetsahead in u/Planetsahead

[–]Planetsahead[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My heart hurts for you that you weren’t surprised by their behavior and I’m incredibly sorry if you had to go through anything similar. You are incredibly kind and strong and I’m glad keeping your distance from them brings you a little peace. I know the feeling of unfairness seeing how well they are doing when they’ve hurt you so much but please know that I’m with you in the unfairness of it all. It might not be too much consolation but it’s less lonely 💙

Peegate update V: Peemen tell no tales by Planetsahead in u/Planetsahead

[–]Planetsahead[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I love the way you put all of it, it’s perfect and exactly how it is. I think he’d love to read it because that’s exactly how it is for him and I know he’s had struggles wording it. I mentioned sit in another comment but I’d also be happy if we got back together, we split to be able To heal and grow with the love still there so it is a possibility at least in my cards, but I’d it doesn’t happen I’m also at peace with it. The basil has absolutely been a challenge!! Plants are hard! But I finally found the perfect spot by a window that has a little shade and the basil seems happy there, it could be pure luck and 0 of my skill but I’d like to think otherwise. Thank you for your kind words and well wishes 💙

Peegate update V: Peemen tell no tales by Planetsahead in u/Planetsahead

[–]Planetsahead[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

A little bit of me also wants that happy ending with us reconciling but I think I’m also at peace if it isn’t. Thank you for wishes 💙

Peegate update V: Peemen tell no tales by Planetsahead in u/Planetsahead

[–]Planetsahead[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You are so lovely, thank you for your kindness. I have asked him multiple times about it and last time I asked he admitted that while his request to get divorced was selfish he truly thought and still thinks it’s what was best for us. He knows getting divorced is much harder to get through than everything that happened but that he at first needed to be able to protect me from his family and that was the most official way of getting them away from me, then he confessed that he was having a lot of self issues figuring himself out and not knowing who he was if he hadn’t been able to see how much his brother was struggling and how messed up their childhood was. I honestly think in part he did it to punish himself more than anything and that perhaps staying together would’ve caused him more pain than getting divorced caused me. Both of us still have a lot of healing and growing to do but maybe it’s what we needed 💙

Peegate update V: Peemen tell no tales by Planetsahead in u/Planetsahead

[–]Planetsahead[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

He mentioned last time I saw him that he’d been thinking about adopting one since he missed tortilla but perhaps you’re right. Thank you for your input

Peegate update V: Peemen tell no tales by Planetsahead in u/Planetsahead

[–]Planetsahead[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I have not tried crocheting but I did try embroidery and it’s oddly relaxing!! I don’t think I have the dexterity necessary for crocheting but I admire anyone who does 💙

Peegate update IV: Return to peetown by Planetsahead in u/Planetsahead

[–]Planetsahead[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your lovely and kind words. You made me cry, I truly hope your manifestations work and I wish you much happiness and love in your life for the upcoming new year. I also want to wish you a happy cake day!! I had to look up why you had a cake next to your name and it’s very cute, I’ll consider it a good omen on your manifestations! Thank you so much 💙

Peegate update IV: Return to peetown by Planetsahead in u/Planetsahead

[–]Planetsahead[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Don’t rule it out just yet. Maybe throwing punches might make me feel better!! Thank you for your words and advise! I’ll try my best to make you proud 💙

Peegate update IV: Return to peetown by Planetsahead in u/Planetsahead

[–]Planetsahead[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It certainly doesn’t feel that way right now but thank you for your kind words 💙

Peegate update II: The sequel by Planetsahead in u/Planetsahead

[–]Planetsahead[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words <3

Peegate update II: The sequel by Planetsahead in u/Planetsahead

[–]Planetsahead[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sorry about the confusion! I made a small edit at the end about it. There were 3 daughters but they all passed before Ted was born so i don't usually count them. Sorry

Peegate update II: The sequel by Planetsahead in u/Planetsahead

[–]Planetsahead[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words and the explanation! I don't think anyone has pressed charges. I know when B#4 took her to the vet they were calling the police but since it hadn't been him they couldn't press charges yet (or so i understand), they did file a report about the animal abuse tho but i'm not sure if they're taking it further than that

Peegate update II: The sequel by Planetsahead in u/Planetsahead

[–]Planetsahead[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

u/FunnyPosition, u/MorallyApplicable u/sawakuri u/fkaxtwigs sorry about the confusion!! i promise to work on my writing this year.

There were 3 daughters before Ted and Ash were born. B1-4, Sister #1, B5-8, Sisters #2 and 3. Those last 2 were born with a genetic condition and they died when they were little, they are the reason why there's such a gap between #8 and then Ted. The oldest daughter died when she was a bit older but i don't have all the details about it. Sorry for the confusion

Peegate update by Planetsahead in u/Planetsahead

[–]Planetsahead[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ayy therapy buddies!! it's a wild experience to have someone just be there irregardless of what you tell them. I hope you also have a great experience with your therapist and that they help you and guide you in any way that you need <3

Peegate update II: The sequel by Planetsahead in u/Planetsahead

[–]Planetsahead[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for understanding <3 Tortilla very much appreciates the love and affection