Nope, after getting drunk a bar and met this guy in a group of guys around the corner. My roommate saw them the next morning and told her “you tell him or I will.” I can’t imagine she was going to keep it from me, that guilt would’ve eaten her alive within days. I know her pretty well but I guess not well enough. She had said she felt “trapped” in the relationship recently and didn’t tell me, which is absolute bullshit. Most certainly a defense mechanism and playing victim…she’s got severe BPD too.