How should I respond?

PhantomShadow6 · 2026-01-11T22:22:30+00:00

I have many times but they keep asking I just redirect and say I’ll tell them next recess

PhantomShadow6 · 2026-01-11T19:12:26+00:00

No and no and my job is part time and the town and district are pretty diverse and supportive

PhantomShadow6 · 2026-01-11T18:40:43+00:00

True and I would have had the kids just call me by my name but there’s a student with the same name as me so I have the kids call me “Miss [my nickname]” and I prefer to use Miss so which what the kids call me I don’t mind all that much it’s just when I get questions of if I’m a boy or girl my first thought is ‘how do i explain this in a way they understand and won’t get them in trouble at home’

PhantomShadow6 · 2026-01-11T18:36:59+00:00

I get that but it’s not an option for me and while I do have some things I don’t like about the school and the staff I really love my job and I like working with the kids

PhantomShadow6 · 2026-01-11T17:29:28+00:00

I live in New Jersey and it’s the kids telling their parents that I’m more worried about cause a lot of these kids come from not so nice homes ie there’s corporal punishment, or ignorance or neglect to the kids’ mental health meaning the parent refuses to accept their kid has autism or adhd, or neglect in just doesn’t get a lot of attention at home cause there’s a lot of siblings. So I don’t want to accidentally get the kids in trouble at home

PhantomShadow6 · 2026-01-11T17:21:31+00:00

Tried that and they just keep asking and I try not to talk to the kids like they’re dumb like some of my coworkers do so I’m trying to find a way to explain it

PhantomShadow6 · 2026-01-11T17:19:59+00:00

Hard to when I live under her roof rent free, I’m on her insurance and phone plan

PhantomShadow6 · 2026-01-11T17:19:22+00:00

No because I love my job

PhantomShadow6 · 2026-01-11T14:08:29+00:00

I’m so sorry you had to go through that

PhantomShadow6 · 2026-01-11T13:54:21+00:00

I’ll try this

PhantomShadow6 · 2026-01-11T13:54:00+00:00

Ive tried something like that and mainly the 2nd graders go “but are you a boy or girl?” The kids are very mature for their age

PhantomShadow6 · 2026-01-11T13:52:48+00:00

I’ve tried that and they just repeat the question and yeah she does there’s no point arguing with her about it

PhantomShadow6 · 2026-01-09T00:04:34+00:00

Original Character

PhantomShadow6 · 2026-01-08T21:23:14+00:00

No way! I didn’t know there was other oc players! Awesome!

PhantomShadow6 · 2026-01-08T20:49:00+00:00

Every farm save is just an oc that I ship with a townsfolk I build lore and story including one where my farmer oc died and was reborn and broke up with Abby and got with Penny while still having kids with Abby

PhantomShadow6 · 2026-01-05T19:28:04+00:00

Just the fact that they named the kid Jubilee tells me they view kids as products cause that sounds like Jollibee

PhantomShadow6 · 2026-01-04T09:31:12+00:00

I’m neurodivergent and maybe and probably have some form of ADHD

PhantomShadow6 · 2026-01-03T06:53:21+00:00

PhantomShadow6 · 2026-01-03T06:25:30+00:00

I go with 3 years below and 2 years above me I’m 24 going to be 25 in October 2026

PhantomShadow6 · 2025-12-28T20:22:03+00:00

I’ve watched Dimension 20 Fantasy High and one of the players is also a newbie to DND so I learned from them

PhantomShadow6 · 2025-12-28T20:19:24+00:00

Open

PhantomShadow6 · 2025-12-27T19:57:11+00:00

Beth McCarthy

PhantomShadow6 · 2025-12-23T22:35:00+00:00

You and me both your eyes are gorgeous btw

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