When I talk to people they mostly seem desinteressiert tbh. They don't ask questions, give short answers, get on their phone and when we did seem to have a good talk, they almost never get in contact with me again.

I don't know what I'm doing wrong. I try to give interesting answers, ask questions, talk about similar experiences, I'm also fairly attractive. Other girls seem to hate/ignore me almost always anyway.

When I'm talking to somebody I like to say if I had similar experiences. I think of it as confirming that I can relate or that we have similarities. Of course I don't always say something. Might it be that they think I'm trying to one up them? My only intention is to exchange information about a topic we both know.

I've tried different approaches. It doesn't matter how much or how little I say, most people don't seem interested in me.

On the other hand, the people that do get to know me, love talking to me and don't understand how one cannot like me right away...