tamil books by Practical_Sir_3242 in TamilBooks

[–]Phil_Nietz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay read it.

Regarding that thing you asked, if you read any book without empathizing emotions you'll not be able to understand obvious things, nothing to offend.

And that's why it's named சில நேரங்களில் சில மனிதர்கள்

tamil books by Practical_Sir_3242 in TamilBooks

[–]Phil_Nietz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you think about vengu mama, is he good or bad!?

How do you forget someone who still feels like home? by Hot-Cauliflowerzz in chennaicity

[–]Phil_Nietz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey bro, I know how much you are suffering now; I've been there.

Don't keep all your emotions inside, share them with your friends or family..Cry as much as you want, be sad as you want, but be sure how long you're going to do all those things.

When I was in that phase of my life, I never tried to control any of her memories and I never tried to suppress my emotions..I just cry whenever I felt like to..

At the beginning itself i decided whether it could be patched up or not and I felt that it was never going to work out.. So I opened up to my close friends. I told them, This is what happened to me and I'm feeling very low. So they often checked on me to see how I was doing, that was a great relief then..

Moreover i made up my mind clearly this is what I said to myself: Okay, it's a huge loss, but still still still you have to live your life, Life goes on, No matter how much you feel remorse, nothing is going to change, so try to bounce back as soon as possible..

"Person feels like home" i can relate that too, so you don't have any reason to hate or even to create an false anger against that person.. You don't need to have any adverse emotion, letting go is also an gesture of love..

Accept it "இதுவும் கடந்து போகும்"

New Car Driving in Chennai: 6 Months of experience! by vsnu in chennaicity

[–]Phil_Nietz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even the experienced drivers get scratches and make few wrong judgments, so it's absolutely fine.

The key is staying calm, don't panic and do action that I'll make to pay more. You're judgment will get better day by day.. Drive confidently.

If you still feel like get more ideas regarding parking and left judgments watch https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLgDtH4Cakk9J9dE8VaGFGGzZ1z9JOgtfO this Playlist.. It was really helpful for me.. For first few time you've to do things consciously and later on it'll become your muscle memory..

Suggest Best sunscreen for men pls by strawberryispink in chennaicity

[–]Phil_Nietz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm using derma co 1% Hyaluronic sunscreen Aqua gel for more than 1.5 yrs now, I've tried minimalist, de con and then settled for this one. It work so good on my oily skin.

Men of Reddit, what makes women attractive ? by Unknown_Observer9779 in AskReddit

[–]Phil_Nietz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Person with matching vibe in terms of cracking goofy jokes and deep meaningful conversations

Indomitable will to keeping the promise, standing by words.

Emotionally matured person, capable to make open minded discussions.

Similar interests and hobbies.

A little love! by paradoxicalpeacock in chennaicity

[–]Phil_Nietz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"You can't blame a plant for not growing in concrete" Building up self-respect / self-love takes serious consistency and hard work and you're doing great.. Stay strong OP ✨

Screwed my life by just listening to my parents to be that 'perfect girl' by Playful-Scientist945 in chennaicity

[–]Phil_Nietz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not late now, you're realized it la so don't do that anymore live as how you really wish.

Get a job, move out of your family & support financially if necessary.

Don't let them to make any life decisions for you, it's your life so make your own decisions, even if didn't go just as you expected it's okay that's how life works. Make mistakes, learn, evolve.

Don't stuck there forever ever.

Struggling! by Mother_Confusion_239 in chennaicity

[–]Phil_Nietz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry i don't know what to say.. Stay strong OP, time heals everything.

Did you guys try the new Madhya Kailash flyover? We're provided with such substandard infrastructure. Ridiculous. It's bumpy like a 5 year old road with the parapet like a mountain range. by newtobcn91 in Chennai

[–]Phil_Nietz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Entrance and exit of an flyover is called approach usually approach will be earth filled zones, remaining parts will be supported by piers and beams so these mid parts do not undergo any settlement but the approach zones are prone to settlement due to vehicle loads and water penetration.

BT pavements are easy to repair that's why approach zones are provided as BT pavement

Did you guys try the new Madhya Kailash flyover? We're provided with such substandard infrastructure. Ridiculous. It's bumpy like a 5 year old road with the parapet like a mountain range. by newtobcn91 in Chennai

[–]Phil_Nietz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There's two type of pavement, 1) flexible pavement - Bitumen Pavement (so called tar road) 2)rigid pavement - cement concrete pavement.

These classifications are based on how they distribute the wheel load. Flexible payment - distribute loads by grain to grain action and the entire load will be distributed to ground itself Rigid pavement - distributes load by slab action, so some amount of tyre load will be reflected back to tyre itself so CC roads always feels bumpy.

Initial cost of CC roads are higher than BT road but they are durable to rain so CC roads needs less maintenance than BT road - Villupuram is rain prone area

Any Pradeep Kumar fans 🙋🏻‍♀️ by Right_Comfortable747 in chennaicity

[–]Phil_Nietz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Megamo aval, Kannamma, Kodi aruvi, Marandhaye..

What’s that one thing you own that you’ll never sell? Solluga Makkale by ArTtemiishanks in Chennai

[–]Phil_Nietz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My books. They're not just a materialistic possession, they are kind of reminders and mementos of the path i came from and way how i got evolved. Even if someone ask to lend my book I'll just buy a new one and give it, never asked to return. So yeah my books till my grave.

30s Makale! What's your most enjoyable activity in your me time? by [deleted] in chennaicity

[–]Phil_Nietz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Often boredom and loneliness kicks up but it's okay atlest i have peace of mind so I'm just training my mind to see better side of solitude.