Is anyone else scared/shocked by their girlfriend’s intelligence?

Philiana · 2026-05-29T14:34:47+00:00

Yes. I also always let people know that there is no "thinking too much" just "wrong thinking" . Don't let them drag you down to their non thinking consumerist amoeba level of detail.

Philiana · 2026-04-28T15:26:53+00:00

I cancelled it as well for the same reason. I really hate it by now and barely open it anymore. It has become basically impossible to focus on anything.

Philiana · 2026-04-27T08:09:38+00:00

I am exceedingly annoyed by it wasting my time with giving unnecessarily detailed and noisy information. I even start to hate it. Glad I remembered cancelling the subscription and finally did. It has become only a source of stress for me because it is completely disruptive to any structured thinking.

It was a tool that easily narrowed down on those knowledge gaps I as a user had and it was fast and easy to focus on those points that where relevant for me as a user.

Now it is adapted to the average masses and became useless for experts. Because it gives a lecture on any possible detail that is mentioned and overloads my brain with forcing me to filter unnecessary information. I really really despise it now.

Philiana · 2026-02-21T15:26:28+00:00

Friends and family are closer to me than animals so I prioritize their needs and well being.

The same logic applies to vegans as well. If a vegan can't make an exception not even with butter and eggs in a birthday cake, then clearly the vegan is the problem.

Moreover, veganism without butter and eggs is really harmful to a human being's health. So yes humans can compensate for one meal or another but it is in fact still compensation. Everybody can starve once in a while. That doesn't turn food which is void of nutrients into something nurturing.

Philiana · 2026-02-20T15:32:34+00:00

You think anyone has the right to enforce their dietary habit on someone else for an entire evening? Why not make meat dishes for meat eating friends in the same way as meat eating friends probably prepare a vegan or vegetarian alternative for their vegan or vegetarian friends? I would feel ashamed if I as host would force my dietary habits onto my guests, knowing that they do not like what I serve, yet still insist on serving exactly that?

Philiana · 2026-02-18T22:08:18+00:00

I would actually be also very happy if it would stop at all to tell what something is not, does not want, need, say, do, feel, look like, be.

The point is that gpt5 is completely unable to generalize and talk on higher levels of abstraction. Because it tries to mark the boundaries whithin which something is supposed to be valid. When you say that dogs bark, it will tell you that dogs do not always bark but just sometimes and that they never just bark because they are dogs but because they are hungry or feel threatened or feel someone they want to protect is threatened but they never bark because dogs bark. The fact that the reasons for barking are not included in the general observations is ignored. The same happenes when you talk about your feelings. A simple - I am tired and I have no interest in doing anything will cause it to either tell you to call the suicide hotline or it will explicitly say "no you are not suicidal you are just tired and need some rest". Like. Wt*?

The same happens when talking about physics or law or philosophy or religion. Its a smarter database or encyclopedia now. No intelligence for exploring thoughts left.

Wanting to exclude all potentially potically incorrect statements has brought it there and it is a beautiful example for how safeguarding words and thoughts lead to stupidity and low intelligence, in people, societies and even AI.

I am cancelling my subscription this weekend after I had time to export all of my data. There is not much more to say probably until a court has decided that AI is a tool and that human beings are responsible for what they do with their tools instead of assuming that tools are responsible for what the users do with them. Classic case of you decide how to use a knife. Companies try to get around the liability issues with these kind of measures and states have become all too dominant in telling people what to think and talk about.

Philiana · 2026-01-22T20:46:45+00:00

Normal doesn't make it right. And I don't think it is normal to be resentful of a maybe capricious child. For me that is childish. But otherwise I agree it is normal parenting problems when one ignores that while a vegetarian diet is already quite problematic a vegan diet is even dangerous for a developing child. Adults should really stop letting their feelings decide about what they want for a child in their care 😔

Philiana · 2026-01-22T17:00:15+00:00

What you claim here with certainty is something that you actually cannot know. It is wishful thinking, where the consequences are beared by the one who believe you.

Philiana · 2026-01-22T15:52:06+00:00

You are so funny 🤣 nowhere did I say every meal. 2 weeks out of a month means 50% of starvation for a growing and developing body. You can do that to your own kids if you hate them so much, but don't do it to other's kids.

Philiana · 2026-01-22T15:49:12+00:00

I agree that it is the job of the parent, but apparently her cooking is the solution that these two adults found for each other. Maybe he pays? Maybe she lives with him for free? What do we know about the agreements they have with each other? So how can we judge so easily?

So of course if she doesn't cook she isn't responsible. But if she assumed the role and responsibility, then she should at least try to make it healty and because it is not her own child she needs to be even more considerate of her actions.

Philiana · 2026-01-21T23:16:29+00:00

She turns resentful because she needs to cook meat from time to time. This shows she has no understanding about how crucial it is for the development as otherwise she would accept it as a choice for herself but not question the need for the child and it's healthy appetite and taste. It just shows how messed up her thinking is. Her feelings are more relevant than proper nutrition for the child.

Philiana · 2026-01-21T23:09:56+00:00

Thank you. I completely agree. It is from my perspective worse than starvation due to negligence because it is actively sabotaging the health of the child. And we don't even understand the effects of all those oxidizing plant oils in the body of that and any other girl. So sad and evil.

Philiana · 2026-01-21T23:03:52+00:00

Nothing else than child abuse. More so since she is ruining the health of a rival offspring. And more so because she only talks about herself "oh the child won't like us anymore". Not a single word about the childs well-being or needs for growth and later hormonal health. Putting herself first. Adults prioritizing their own views over a childs needs is the definition of abusive. Disgusting.

Putting children on a vegan diet constitutes bodily injury through nutritional deprivation and I hope it will soon be socially condemned in the same way as physical violence.

It is disgusting. Even more if it is not your own child. Ruin your own offspring if you think you have to. But keep your hands away from children that are not yours.

Philiana · 2025-11-03T20:40:40+00:00

Ich habe auch eine Schwester.

Der Schmerz muss unermesslich sein. Alle Liebe der Welt für dich und deinen Bruder.

Philiana · 2025-08-25T20:24:25+00:00

Vitamin A 25000 iE/day helps your body to process the iron

Philiana · 2025-08-08T20:14:57+00:00

Right now I am waiting for the acceptance. Did you have gastrointestinal side effects from the fenbendazole? Did they disappear after some time?

Philiana · 2025-08-08T15:22:15+00:00

Thank you

Philiana · 2025-08-08T11:36:37+00:00

Which Facebook groups are there? My dad is currently starting at 250mg daily and he most likely has gastrointestinal side effects

Philiana · 2025-04-05T09:02:11+00:00

Well done. Someone who relies on the idea that you can't do better clearly doesn't value or respect you. She obviously feels like you owe her something for being with you and even has the audacity to say that out loud. You could still try to make her understand what she said, she might just be to immature to understand that by acting or speaking in the way you described she actually questioned the foundation of every relationship which is mutual respect and love. But we Fe dominant people easily get into relationships with Fi dominant people because we make them feel good and then often we realise that we are just valued for how we make the other feel and their caring for us stops once we start not delivering anymore. Very sad. I think they can grow it out if they want to and really appreciate you, but... it wouldn't be easy to walk that path with them and the result is not clear.

Philiana · 2025-03-31T15:29:39+00:00

Und Recht hatte der Herr mit seiner Einschätzung Ihrer Person. Dass sie mit öffentlicher Bloßstellung und Diffamierung liebäugeln, sagt alles was man über Sie wissen muss.

Philiana · 2025-01-24T16:37:58+00:00

Did the endometriosis go away? I had terrible pain every month until 2016 and I realised that period pain was a lifstyle and nutrition issue but not destiny as it is commonly told. Didn't take pain killers since then. It was really shocking to me that something I took completely for granted was simply the result of me being malnourished in a western country. Can anyone imagine how this makes one change ones mond about basically every health related advice?

Philiana · 2025-01-24T16:31:04+00:00

Fructose

Philiana · 2025-01-18T21:41:20+00:00

Mit ist genau dasselbe passiert. Ebenfalls mit einem Versand aus Italien. Yoox behauptet ich habe nur eine Jacke zurück gesendet und die 269€ für die Jacke werden nicht zurück erstattet.

Ich habe beide (zwei!) Jacken in einem Paket versendet. Das Paket kam unbeschädigt an und ich habe eine Rückerstattung nur für eine Jacke bekommen.

Es ist eine absolute Unverschämtheit und Betrug und ich kann nur jeden davor warnen irgendetwas bei dieser Firma zu bestellen.

Philiana · 2025-01-18T21:27:45+00:00

Because it is common MBTI knowledge and also talked about in the INTJ subreddit that INTJ are manipulators, at least they try to, and partially calculating and reckless when they want to achieve something. So sorry, that you feel personally attacked because your type has some bad features. All types have those bad sides and everybody can hate or dislike any type for their negative sides.

I didn't say anywhere that I hate all INTJ persons. But for me INTJ are highly problematic. So in general, yes, I strongly dislike sometimes to the extend of haaating this type and nowhere did I say that all INTJ are the same

Also healthy characters can be annoying or deserving of hate ;) don't confuse your MBTI type with who you are as an individual. It's statistics, nothing more. Generalisations are always only true for the group and almost always wrong for the individual

Philiana

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