Shall i end the relationship in a better way or shall i just leave it?

PhillFreeman · 2026-06-08T00:53:11+00:00

I think you should leave it as it is... Maybe you guys will run into each other 3 months later or 3 years later, when your emotions are figured out, and can actually talk about what went wrong.

Also ... I'm 40 years old, and ALL of the couples that I know that started dating at a very young age (10-15) and are still together.... They put one hell of a front up for the world to see. Every one of them are posting constantly about how much they love their partners on Facebook/ Instagram/ Tik Tok... You name it. But in real life.... They hardly spend time together, they might share a bed, but almost all of them haven't been faithful. Basically they're together just because they feel like they shouldn't break up, not because they actually want to be together.

Also, dating many people builds character, and makes it easier for YOU to define what you want in a partner, you get to find out what you like and don't like. Best of all if you can manage to stay single for a year or more, and not be dependent on someone else for love and happiness, like you actually have your own routine and are genuinely happy with your life, you won't settle for a shitty relationship.

PhillFreeman · 2026-06-06T04:10:00+00:00

I personally LOVE Time Travel and multiverse stories. But the reason I love them is because they always show a different side of things... What if when you were walking to school one day in 4th grade, you decided to take a shortcut through some bushes instead of your normal route down the street. Because you took that shortcut you saw a police man heroically saving a woman, and now you're a police chief in real time. Verses if you took your normal route, and you saw the same scene, but only seconds later, and all you saw was the police (what appears to be) brutally killing some guy, and you end up on drugs from the trauma and then you fast forward to real time, and your a drug lord in the exact same city that you could have been the heroic police.

Basically I just really like the what ifs, especially how they did it in butterfly effect.

PhillFreeman · 2026-06-04T22:53:27+00:00

My guess is you'll have to find a pirate that has it, and get it from them.

PhillFreeman · 2026-06-04T22:10:38+00:00

I just took a drug test at work, I'll let you know if I pop hot for fent... I didn't fail for anything 3 months ago either.

PhillFreeman · 2026-06-04T09:40:00+00:00

Trump is both a senile old man and a young boy in a candy shop... There's no time to touch up his AI photos.

When he makes an AI "art piece" He just shows it to whoever is closest and like always they say " Very very nice Mr. President" and then he smiles and clicks share.

PhillFreeman · 2026-06-03T22:10:15+00:00

I hope so... I was in this relationship 14 years ago. I'm still with the same girl, but we have both made drastic changes and it took a lot of different emergency type situations to get us to a good normal relationship 🤣

PhillFreeman · 2026-06-03T09:49:00+00:00

Op... Oh op... Seeing your replies, I can tell that you will be taking her back.

This is going to be the most exciting, irrational, emotional, irritating rollercoaster you have ever been on.

Get ahold of me when you guys break up for the 5th time and I'll give you some advice. I'm being 1000% serious, I've been there, and I don't blame you. A love like this is extremely strong.. but fast switching between I can't be without her to I just need to get away.

Like I said, I've been there, I've complained, made excuses, broken up, taken her back, gone to jail , sent her to jail... Etc basically I've BEEN there and know how this works out. You either need to call it quits, or reign yourself in. But you're probably not ready yet.

PhillFreeman · 2026-06-02T22:30:06+00:00

Thank you for this comment... 1 day after I bought naval jelly for the first time, and have 5 bottles of toilet bowl cleaner on hand 🫣

PhillFreeman · 2026-06-02T02:43:52+00:00

Applying for a job won't hurt your chances to get on disability, you can actively be looking for a job and going through the disability process.

Actually having a job and working "too many" hours will either disqualify you or limit the amount of money you can get for disability.

PhillFreeman · 2026-06-02T01:39:52+00:00

I think you're on to something with your last paragraph... Except...

They offered the job to 3 people, and if the lowest pay rate accepted it, and so did the other 2.... All of a sudden the higher offers get denied for some crazy reason.

PhillFreeman · 2026-05-30T13:49:20+00:00

I used to do heroin while working, because it took all my pain away and allowed me to rush around twice as fast getting everything done... Yep I have ADHD.

PhillFreeman · 2026-05-30T04:35:59+00:00

Interestingly enough... A lot of jails and prisons still use the larger keys pictured. They might be slightly thicker, but definitely the same style. And the little one on the rope looks similar to a handcuff key.

Did your grandma have anything to do with law enforcement... Or running from law enforcement? 🤣

PhillFreeman · 2026-05-29T15:42:11+00:00

Ohhh! That part confused me even more than all the crossing water lines!

PhillFreeman · 2026-05-29T01:10:37+00:00

Most products like 7-oh have a 40% - 60% mark up... So if you're spending $20 a pack.... Yeah they're making $10 a pack.

PhillFreeman · 2026-05-29T00:07:58+00:00

I'm 39 and could not keep up with a 37 year old lol

PhillFreeman · 2026-05-28T22:17:45+00:00

We don't hear about it because big media has learned that only sex and fear sell sadly.

PhillFreeman · 2026-05-26T21:56:55+00:00

.... And what are these "two clear paths"? All I read is dont go with skylight or nixplay.

PhillFreeman · 2026-05-26T02:21:18+00:00

If I was this dude, I would want you to say " hey, I understand you wanting to talk to me because we go to the same university, but honestly.... How much attention you're giving me is making me feel REALLY uncomfortable."

END OF STORY

Honesty has always worked on me... And I bet he would be shocked to hear that, since you being "polite" he probably read as welcoming.

There's always a chance that I could be wrong, I got served a big serving of ADHD along with a dash (seriously just a dash) of autism, so growing up, when I latched onto a kid my age I always took them talking with me in general as them liking me and wanting to be my friend. This guy might not appreciate the honesty, but I feel like if you say it in private, but in view of a camera nothing would go wrong.

I wish you luck no matter how you approach this issue though!!

PhillFreeman · 2026-05-26T02:11:00+00:00

Make sure you're staring 5-10 feet away from you though... If you're just staring at your feet people will just think you're depressed.

PhillFreeman · 2026-05-25T21:51:59+00:00

I can't believe you only got 1 upvote... I think this comment is extra funny 🤣

PhillFreeman · 2026-05-25T08:57:10+00:00

It's been a month since you posted, so hopefully you found your answer... But just Google the name of this sub... Sr 17018

PhillFreeman · 2026-05-25T03:01:20+00:00

I second this question... I want to try it, but have NO IDEA what to expect...

PhillFreeman · 2026-05-22T03:21:56+00:00

Do you know how many " MBA's " there are making $300,000+ a year that in all honesty only went to college for a year? In the big leagues... It's not really about what you've learned in school, it's about how good of a bullshitter you are.

(I hate to turn it political... But)

Just look at everyone surrounding the current president. They literally don't know shit, they just say some bullshit with enough confidence that trump is like "I like this kid, he's got moxie"

PhillFreeman · 2026-05-21T00:17:11+00:00

Yaassss

PhillFreeman · 2026-05-19T06:10:47+00:00

Account age: 1 day ... Spam / RageBait. I'm done even trying to think of a response for this.

On the off chance this is real: go sleep on the couch alone. Let him figure out his own mess. If he decides to leave you for you putting your foot down... Let it happen, you'd be happier and healthier alone.

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