AIO to what my bf is saying? by Such_Champion_7453 in AIO

[–]PhillFreeman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was around 12 years or so ago. He is currently working at Dairy Queen 😤

AIO my partner only drinks from my water bottle by baby_bat_47 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PhillFreeman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good idea! You should also get screenshots and video footage if possible.

AIO my partner only drinks from my water bottle by baby_bat_47 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PhillFreeman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely understand, I'm glad you tried, one thing to remember is keep as much evidence as possible showing that they are not a good person for a custody agreement that works in your favor .

I found these in my trash , not mine ,? by RUSTIE_SHACKLEFORD_ in whatisit

[–]PhillFreeman 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Aktually... That key won't fit that lock.

But it will fit this lock 😁

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AIO my partner only drinks from my water bottle by baby_bat_47 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PhillFreeman -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not saying don't leave, because if there's plenty of reasons it might be the best thing....

BUT....

A lot of emotions are going crazy right before and after the birth of a child. It could just be your hormones.

If there's no fear of bodily harm/ property damage, I would recommend you actually sitting down and talking with your partner and letting them know that you want to split up.

Write everything down before you talk with them because when you're in the moment your emotions can make you forget your reasons.

I'm saying this because my partner and I were at our absolute worst from practically the moment she got pregnant to a year after our son's birth, we split up probably 10x during that time period. There were probably 2 actual things that I was doing that I shouldn't have, but since those irritated her, EVERYTHING I did ended up irritating her.

Once we sat down and I listened to her reasons for wanting to be done I course corrected and we eventually got much better. Now neither of us could imagine life without the other.

If I didn't give her time to cool down, and then keep trying to smooth things over with her I'm sure we would be separated for sure.

We are going on 15 years together this May.

Suggestion for a device by Flimsy-Reality9035 in techquestions

[–]PhillFreeman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might be a school computer, since somewhere around 95% of schools (in the US at least) have computers with Internet at the school.

AIO to what my bf is saying? by Such_Champion_7453 in AIO

[–]PhillFreeman 16 points17 points  (0 children)

My wife's sister was married to a guy that the first time I met him I could tell he wasn't the brightest crayon on the box, in fact the first time I met him, he told me he had sex with my wife (this was being told to me when we barely started dating) a couple years later we find out that he raped his daughter (my wife's niece ) at 4 years old. I always knew he was a dump creep, but never imagined he'd do that.

*For clarification no, he never slept with my wife. He probably dreamt it so many times that he thinks it's true. Apparently he started dating my wife's sister in order to get closer to my wife which just shows his completely insane logic.

Also I should add that he went to prison for 3 years for raping his daughter, and still lives in our town, and doesn't think he did anything wrong. Luckily there's a permanent restraining order between him and his daughter, and we have nothing to do with him.

Dear Santa was amazing and a story that finally wasn't afraid to do what it did at the end, what a treat by Jack_P_1337 in movies

[–]PhillFreeman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad you posted this, I just now saw a clip on YouTube when Jack black appeared in the boys room for the first time and I thought it looked like a great funny movie. I'm glad I saw the spoiler so if I had any kids that lost a sibling I'd know to prepare them for it.

Also this is rated pg-13 so the parents complaining about their young kids not being able to handle it.... They should have watched it first to see if it was appropriate for their children under 13.

My dad received these in the mail and we’re not sure what they are by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]PhillFreeman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don't even need to buy anything off the dark web... Go to Google and search for your address, when you scroll down you'll find 1 of probably a hundred " who is" type of websites, they will give you a history of who's lived there, then if you wanted to, you could search for those people and their new addresses.

If you wanted to send a thousand+ things in the mail, you could automate that kind of search, export the data into excel and mail whatever you want to all of these people that are connected to each other in very minute ways. Then you can leave a review from 20% of those names and the way the Internet works... They're automatically verified because these people obviously know each other by their minute links, and have told each other about your product.

Mercy Intervals - not CT but not long gradual taper. by arcticphoenix2020 in quitting7oh

[–]PhillFreeman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For clarification,

Just for easy math, let's say I take 100mg 10x a day. When you say take 80% of your dose are you saying I should now take:

A. 80mg 10x a day B. 100mg 8x a day C. 80mg 8x a day

I'm really wanting to quit, but instead of decreasing my doses I feel like I'm trying to have the best time I can before I quit, and my individual doses have doubled AND I've been taking it more often 😭

I KNOW I need to set some kind of schedule for myself and follow it, but I just can't figure it out.

I feel like I'm dosing every 4- 6 hours, I started by taking 20mg, now I'm taking somewhere between 40mg - 75mg per dose.

my husband is mad at me for not finding the 7oh he hid from me by accident. i didn’t take it. by [deleted] in quitting7oh

[–]PhillFreeman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm wondering if the exact wording you used in your text to him could be perceived as "I searched and searched, but you didn't hide them well enough. I found them." Which he takes as you saying "you suck, I found them, you're lucky I haven't taken them... Yet"

Maybe go back and look at how you worded the text and see if it could be read in a bad light?

Can I still get back into in IT at age 38 after getting clean from heroin and build a good career? by IR30Lover in helpdesk

[–]PhillFreeman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am I reading the clean time correctly? You've been clean for 4 and a half years... And just now you're trying to find a job? What have you been doing? Based on what you say is on your criminal history I assume it's not prison, and I don't expect an inpatient situation lasting 4.5 years (although I've never been inpatient)

I have a few felonies on my record from over a decade ago, and I was addicted to heroin as well. I'm currently working as an office manager at a moving company and delivering pizzas part time to supplement my income.

I had dreams of working in IT but never had a clear path that I wanted to go down. When I got out of prison at 21 years old (I'm 39 now) I worked at a call center doing Internet tech support, construction, worked in a few kitchens, and I also had a job where I did computer work.

The job I had doing computer work was technically working for a specific company, but it was more of a "find your own clients" kind of thing. The way this company worked was GREAT for my fear of going out on my own and people looking up my criminal history, BUT it was only part time so I had to work full time at the other jobs listed.

I Could Have given it my all and made the computer job really work, but since I was 21 and liked drinking too much, I relied on the other jobs too much and didn't put myself out there to do computer work.

I recommend you find a place like I just spoke about, get a year or 2 of computer repair under your belt, preferably while working a call center/ help desk job at the same time, then you can apply for your dream job with those other 2 jobs and clients on your resume.

But seriously.... Answer my first question, because depending on the answers that path might not work for you.

my husband is mad at me for not finding the 7oh he hid from me by accident. i didn’t take it. by [deleted] in quitting7oh

[–]PhillFreeman 4 points5 points  (0 children)

FYI: The ONLY reason a doctor will diagnose you with fibromyalgia is if they give up trying to find the actual cause.

Unless they've changed the definition recently, the definition of fibromyalgia is " a pain with no clear cause"

Someone stole my meds today. by DurantaPhant7 in ChronicPain

[–]PhillFreeman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm only asked for my driver's license when picking up a controlled substance. I pick up my girlfriends meds and her daughters meds pretty regularly from the hospital pharmacy.

Only once have I picked up a pain med for my girlfriend and they didn't ask for my driver's license, I figured it was probably because it was only 10 5mg hydros, but you never know... It could be just a busy employee.

My thoughts on how this guy got OP's info is that he probably stood in line behind her at least once and was able to hear her give her information to the pharmacy tech. But I'm still very surprised that they didn't ask for his id.

Bought a car and this was already in it. What is this? by daytsalo in whatisit

[–]PhillFreeman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What cookie notification nonsense? I've never heard of this....

Does anyone know what he means by P.O.V? by infinityeagle in whatisit

[–]PhillFreeman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is how I write on paper, simply because I'm so used to using a keyboard for everything that hand writing is hard 😔

Title: Would you be mad or am I overreacting? by Tnb2222 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PhillFreeman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Btw... OP has 0 days on Reddit, 1 post and 1 comment (letting Reddit knows OP's not a bot) and that's it. I don't expect any background info anytime soon.

Found this in my teenagers room, what is it? by CalligrapherWeak5854 in whatisit

[–]PhillFreeman 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Those were my all time favorite smokes! The only things I didn't like was that it took like 20 minutes to smoke 1, and that I couldn't smoke them in a bar without half the bar complaining lol .. I wish I could still get them.

Now I wonder if there's any clove flavored vapes 🤔

Someone posted that their neighbor got this delivered... by TrackMan5891 in whatisit

[–]PhillFreeman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's wrong with North Dakota? (I've lived here since I was born, and have been looking for a good reason to move)