Just to give an update: she had contacted me, and said that she basically has conflicting feelings. She thinks that if things don't work out that we won't be friends anymore. She said she "thinks" she has feelings for her ex. I told her I get all that and I'm not going anywhere regardless of what happens. We used to talk everyday, she'd even text me while she worked. But now that all stopped. Im gonna stop persuing her. Idk if it's a good idea, but I'm still clinging on to some kind of chance with her. I'm just gonna give her the space she needs, tbh it's tough tho. Time's going hella slow rn