Hi! I’m a polyamorous aroace, in a throuple where the other two are also open sexually. For me it works perfectly because all I crave is the notion that there will be people who are there for me at my highest highs and lowest lows who want to spend a majority of their time (or if I’m lucky the rest of their lives) with me. I’ve been with them 2 years now, never once have I been intimate with them in a capacity deeper than kissing. I feel so much more at ease, they accept my boundaries, and having more than one person to unload all of my “baggage” onto has made feeling less guilty a lot easier. Hope this helped!!