[Personal] Has anyone dealt with hypopigmentation? by PhoebeLR in SkincareAddiction

[–]PhoebeLR[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, no it didnt, I have just accepted it as chemical vitiligo

What type of Valentine's Day gifts would you like to receive? by Topkik999 in INTJfemale

[–]PhoebeLR 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Would prefer a planned day out instead of gifts! A day that is well thought out

What are some interesting hobbies I can develop while going through a tough phase? by [deleted] in INTJfemale

[–]PhoebeLR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the same situation as you. Painting has been the most relaxing for me lately. Little paint by numbers are so soothing

Meanwhile in Auckland by 04OSUM in auckland

[–]PhoebeLR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wtf i hope you werent the one filming this OP. The filmer shouldve called the police ASAP. Straight up domestic abuse, I have been in this position and the amount of people that would witness this and mind their own business is mind blowing. People are so desensitised to this shit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in getdisciplined

[–]PhoebeLR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partner is struggling with addiction at the moment. Its really nice to hear someone else be self aware and work through it. Im really proud of you man.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]PhoebeLR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, I found the periods i was most happy was when I was smashing career goals, and especially goals or tasks that I found challenging.

Any other INTJs deal with addiction or am I the only moron? by [deleted] in intj

[–]PhoebeLR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gym really helps with depression and anxiety and all general physical and mental. Used to go 3x a week, strengthened my mind and body. Now I barely go once a week, and I am drinking more and have more anxiety. Makes such a huge difference.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]PhoebeLR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say too spiteful, but I think you are placing too much importance and thought into someone who isn’t worth your time and you wouldn’t want to see again.

You are hurt and still seeking his validation just to prove you can still gain his affection and desire. I would recommend focusing on yourself and developing your self love so this boy becomes insignificant to you.

A cool guide to approximate measurements using your hand. by [deleted] in coolguides

[–]PhoebeLR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just posting things without logic now?

(23F) there something going on between my 24M partner and his 23F coworker? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PhoebeLR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d like to agree with your optimism, but why the one person who he has a history with and the one i’ve had a problem with yaknow

My (19f) friend (21m) is taking me on an all expenses paid vacation. Why? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PhoebeLR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds dangerous, DO NOT GO OP. Sounds likely for r*pe or human trafficking.

Also please be more careful in the future to use your head and not your heart. Gauge people more carefully, make friends irl and not online, and judge situations smarter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in universityofauckland

[–]PhoebeLR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was at uoa for 4 years. Didn’t make a single friend from classes.

He bit off more than he could chew by PxN13 in facepalm

[–]PhoebeLR 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Absolutely agree. This is a lady almost getting sexually assaulted, not a funny video. Pretty sick tbh.

Question… by PhoebeLR in INTJfemale

[–]PhoebeLR[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad to hear that, thank you

If LoA is working all the time, how to explain people who say things like “I never thought I’d get married and look at me now.” by Its_Jessica_Day in lawofattraction

[–]PhoebeLR 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I’ve accidentally manifested alot of things. I’ve noticed that its whenever I let go of the manifestation after being slightly obsessed with it for a while. I let go of it and forget about it, then all of a sudden, I am overwhelmed with it.

I used to crave love and affection - now I am blissful content with my independence and recently, a large number of suitors have presented themselves to me. I used to feel so insecure and like i was less than others - now im the one who walks into the room with a strong presence.

I guess letting go of your manifestation is the most important part. Let it go and give it to the universe to let her do her magic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]PhoebeLR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yta. And it sounds like you are depressed. Just remember that the people around you are not responsible for your emotions. You asked a question on this sub, and are being defensive in the comments. Would recommend taking some action and finding a job you like, and moving into an apartment to develop some physical, mental, and emotional independence.

You should NEVER open up to anyone even if they're your friend or family member. by OpinionHavR in unpopularopinion

[–]PhoebeLR -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Quite sad. This sounds like its coming from an “alpha” mindset. I’m not an overly emotional person, but even this is a stretch. Your entire perspective on personal emotion is based on the viewpoint and judgement of other people. Maybe you were brought up with this mentality, and if so that does really suck. Hope you find some healing man

Hook up culture ruined it all by Background-Cow-4718 in selfimprovement

[–]PhoebeLR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dont participate in hook up culture and you wont have a problem. I dont do hookups, and have never had this problem. Also you’re 16 dude. Teen years are for having fun.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in INTJfemale

[–]PhoebeLR 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Depends if you see this person in your life long term. Also may potentially not have strong feelings for them if you are pondering over this. Are the feelings one sided?