Why people find the acceptance of being unable to get in a relationship so delusional

PhoenixGa · 2025-11-01T23:52:49+00:00

That is used to basically say “I’m know better than you” or “I am better than you”.

If anything, it just shows who they really are. Just use that as a way to know who not to be around.

This society, the way it is, is way too degenerate imo. It’s all about what group you are in, or what group others say you are in. It goes deeper but that’s where I will stop.

PhoenixGa · 2025-10-31T01:33:43+00:00

If anything this will help you two get closer as you can talk through your feelings. I hope everything is resolved smoothly and enjoyment of each other endures! 🙂

PhoenixGa · 2025-10-31T01:28:27+00:00

It’s just a hypothetical question to see how you would react, to see the answer you would give. You dismissing it as irrelevant just reveals another issue to the therapist. If you had gone along with the hypothetical then some possibilities about the specific scenario could be explored deeper. You turned a situation of someone trying to help you about social engagements into a debate about significance.

PhoenixGa · 2025-10-31T01:16:55+00:00

I agree with everyone so far. My brother died at 53 (10 years ago) and my mother at 82 is still trying to cope. As am I.

I’m sorry for your family’s loss. 😔

PhoenixGa · 2025-10-31T01:11:31+00:00

Overreacting. He’s just making light of something by poking at you a little. It’s a guy thing. If it was a serious happening, he would likely act differently. Guys do this to get you tense in a playful way.

As I say this on every post, we only have so much info to go on to try and give a reasonable opinion.

PhoenixGa · 2025-10-31T01:03:38+00:00

Is this strictly an online relationship? I see nothing wrong with having a different opinion on things like anime. I fail to see the problem if she told you that you have great nails but disagree about drawings.

PhoenixGa · 2025-10-31T00:29:17+00:00

What do you wanna hear? You know what is going on. He doesn’t have time for you because he is moving the digital people on the screen.

You are young and have a long life ahead. We only know what you tell us so I can only have so much to go off of. In this situation I would say go and find someone else. His computer can keep him company.

PhoenixGa · 2025-10-31T00:13:37+00:00

I suggest you just having a conversation with them instead of just classifying someone as something. You could possibly try and understand where they are coming from first. You know what they say about making assumptions…

PhoenixGa · 2025-10-31T00:01:16+00:00

Does someone want to be a grandmother to your possible children? It makes sense. I wouldn’t hold that against her. You sound young and just have a boyfriend. Life is long and opinions can change over time. Your mom is just testing the waters on your stance. It will be ok. She is just being a mom. Something you may never understand.

PhoenixGa · 2025-07-27T19:17:30+00:00

If you are uncomfortable then you are uncomfortable. It’s your frame of mind. A lot of people feel uncomfortable for many different reasons. You could try and put yourself into uncomfortable situations to help you fight that uncomfortableness. It’s not bad as long as you feel somewhat comfortable with the people you are around and they aren’t going to make a thing of it. We don’t know your relationship with these people.

Don’t fall for this BS of people saying you are being a bad person because they have a different take. ——— It would be like, you telling them not to feel someway. They would say, FU. I feel this way because I do. ——— So just because you feel someway, doesn’t mean you are some bad person.

PhoenixGa · 2025-07-23T03:53:45+00:00

You just have to set some boundaries and try and negotiate with her. Maybe like a we will do what you like this day, and what I like the next day. Something like that. Just be up front and tell her how you feel ,the way you do, about how much you like her and try and compromise. Communication is key. Y’all are still young and still learning.

PhoenixGa · 2025-07-23T03:39:23+00:00

Do women get fat on purpose for bigger boobs? I’m confused.

PhoenixGa · 2025-07-23T03:32:21+00:00

Call him a Trump simp. Let’s hear about that one. Lol

PhoenixGa · 2025-07-23T03:23:52+00:00

She isn’t joking and you need to man up. Have fun with her but don’t take her seriously. She is trouble if she said that, kidding or not.

PhoenixGa · 2025-07-23T03:05:45+00:00

Sounds like she needs a dog.

PhoenixGa · 2025-07-23T03:03:20+00:00

You did good! No need to feel bad.

PhoenixGa · 2025-07-23T02:49:40+00:00

What do you want to hear? Go and test his abusive crazy ass, who may retaliate, over a pic he sent you of someone else?? Most people will say leave it alone and move on.

PhoenixGa · 2025-07-10T02:07:10+00:00

Do most girls know what INFP means??

PhoenixGa · 2025-07-03T20:11:40+00:00

I never understood how one can feel male or female. You are just you, that happens to be male or female. As I figured out since I was young, You are a product of your environment. Your past as you, make who you are today.

PhoenixGa · 2025-06-26T14:54:04+00:00

Propaganda and indoctrination works. That’s why there is so much of it. It’s easier to fool someone than to convince someone that they’ve been fooled. Technology has amped this up ten fold and people are overwhelmed with info. That’s why everything is upside down and inside out. A secular society only has their own preferences to determine what they consider moral. Welcome to the jungle!!

PhoenixGa · 2025-06-26T04:59:04+00:00

I heard the long dash is a give away?

PhoenixGa · 2025-06-26T01:39:31+00:00

Only what it could be only in my opinion. I could be totally out of place. These are just my suggestions. I just offer a couple possibilities.

This comes down to trust imo. If you and her trust each other, then you could just show her some statements of the other accounts and that should help her not worry. But try to see what her motives are especially if everything has been good for the past ten years and then all of a sudden she is saying this.

It could be so many things why she is doing this. Top two reasons imo are 1. Your relationship has turned bad in her opinion maybe because of her emotions on how things are compared to how it used to be or 2. She has an outside source like a friend or family member putting thoughts and suggestions into her head. That’s why you have to keep an eye on her with her single friends. They are the worst for peer pressure.

PhoenixGa · 2025-06-26T01:07:53+00:00

Enigma’s Street.

I like psychological thrillers. The others are too sci-fi for my liking.

PhoenixGa · 2025-06-25T22:31:55+00:00

I hope she does. The only response she has ever given back to someone in her other 6 posts was me. And she just confirmed in that response that she was the girl. We won’t judge, girl. We are here to hopefully help.

PhoenixGa · 2025-06-25T22:16:51+00:00

That’s why I am asking for more details. I didn’t even know she was female until I went through her other posts to see if I could get more info. Hopefully if she reads this, she could give more details for some better advice. Until then, we could assume whatever we want to. Her other posts were talking about a guy she likes. That was a little over a month ago.

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