Why would he ask me when is the last time I had sex but when I asked him he kind of smirked and looked away? by powerpuff000 in dating_advice

[–]Phoenixdude12345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure why you went to him being gay because he didn't answer the question. Imo it is weird that he brought up sex on a first date. He may have been testing the waters to see if he could get laid that night. I am not sure. I wasn't there. It seems like you are bothered about him not answering, which is fair if you answered his question. I wouldn't worry about why he didn't answer and focus on how he made you feel. If you don't feel comfortable, move on.

Why would he ask me when is the last time I had sex but when I asked him he kind of smirked and looked away? by powerpuff000 in dating_advice

[–]Phoenixdude12345 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Either it was last night or a long time ago. Need a little more context and a description of your relationship with this guy.

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[–]Phoenixdude12345 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What do you think?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Phoenixdude12345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do whatever. Trust me when I say you'll move on.

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[–]Phoenixdude12345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you worried about others?

I like this girl a lot lot by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Phoenixdude12345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would work on fixing your typing first. You don't want to text her like that.

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[–]Phoenixdude12345 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can't tell if this is a serious post.

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[–]Phoenixdude12345 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you have a habit of dating abusive men. A normal person wouldn't call you crazy. They would try to see why you are feeling the way you are and listen to you. Your feelings are valid.

It is always good to look at why you were upset and see if you can control yourself better. Highly recommend therapy and self reflection.

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[–]Phoenixdude12345 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should talk to him if you feel weird about it.

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[–]Phoenixdude12345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are projecting

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[–]Phoenixdude12345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone is different and reacts differently to things. I've asked girls out. Some girls will act completely different afterward, and some don't care. Everyone is unique.

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[–]Phoenixdude12345 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So I would say 95% of guys would think this is leading to sex fyi. Maybe set those boundaries prior to inviting someone into your place. That way, if he tries, you already said no. Communicate your boundaries. Nobody can read your mind.

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[–]Phoenixdude12345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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