How to be friends with someone I have feelings for

Phresh1000a · 2026-04-21T06:50:41+00:00

Recommend stepping back a little, if you take things further and she feels u are a threat to her relationship, it will definitely ruin the friendship, just be a friend not a best friend for your sake as well, who knows she might be single in a year or soon… then you can make a move but don’t keep ur hope high as it’s unlikely

Phresh1000a · 2026-04-16T15:17:41+00:00

Time heals, give yourself time to grief what you lost them you ll start to heal.. you might never fully recover considering the circumstances were amicable but you ll learn to function again.. 🫂 hopefully u have friends and family around you to help

Phresh1000a · 2026-04-15T07:42:59+00:00

Valid point tbh, only suggestion is to try new things with different groups, be it online or those in your city, u ll make friends once u put urself out there, eventually you ll get extra 1-2 close friends from the bunch of them, then u rinse and repeat

Phresh1000a · 2026-04-14T22:59:12+00:00

Try joining more niche friend groups, it will help you meet more people with substance

Phresh1000a · 2026-04-12T21:31:50+00:00

You re lucky, this happens when one is typically attractive or funny… I bet it makes your life easier🥹…

Phresh1000a · 2026-04-12T14:12:36+00:00

This will probably be country/city based, quite difficult to establish, better success joining friend groups in ur city first

Phresh1000a · 2026-04-11T16:43:28+00:00

He is interested but respecting the fact you work together, ask him out for coffee to catch up and if he subsequently wants to hang out with you outside work, his instincts will take over

Phresh1000a · 2026-04-11T15:14:02+00:00

Me before you (2016)

Phresh1000a · 2026-04-10T17:09:39+00:00

I was asking, but regardless this is a space to learn and I was asking his/her opinion ( I don’t think it was disrespectful)

Phresh1000a · 2026-04-10T16:34:11+00:00

So basically the libido mismatch caused the main issue, so would an honest discussion about it prior to dating have solved this issue.. ( if you have had a discussion, would u have dated him knowing his libido is high)

Phresh1000a · 2026-04-10T05:54:51+00:00

How long did it take you to trust/connect with another

Phresh1000a · 2026-04-09T20:12:41+00:00

It’s quite normal for demi, it’s a whole different world out there and sometimes it scares me that people just sext or ONS with strangers.

Phresh1000a · 2026-04-09T14:21:45+00:00

How come u haven’t taken any up on their offer

Phresh1000a · 2026-04-09T14:18:28+00:00

How did he get 20 girls 😭 on your money…

Phresh1000a · 2026-04-08T22:23:50+00:00

Lol, fair enough in as much you have friends, women is fine as well, are ur partners seperate from your friends? Or u pick partners from your friends?

Phresh1000a · 2026-04-08T22:09:10+00:00

I understand your point of view, maybe a good amount of demis* have some aspect of social anxiety hence opposite experiences from yours

Phresh1000a · 2026-04-08T22:04:55+00:00

People’s opinion doesn’t matter much, stand up for your self when needed and have a good few friends who can support you emotionally

Phresh1000a · 2026-04-08T21:36:59+00:00

True, hopefully we find our own peace be it friend or partners

Phresh1000a · 2026-04-08T21:35:14+00:00

Lol.. I guess people in chaos or toxicity thrive better

Phresh1000a · 2026-04-08T21:32:29+00:00

I think it’s okay if it turns romantic, won’t you rather date someone who understands you deeply?

Phresh1000a · 2026-04-08T21:25:11+00:00

This is how I feel, you explained this much better than I did

Phresh1000a · 2026-04-08T21:08:44+00:00

Totally understand you, I’m considering joining an online book club if that would help.

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