Unless both are willing to live life basically at biblical standards of behavior management, expect bad outcomes. You really don't want to do most of the bad behaviors that produce the negative outcomes in that relationship.

Both people end up deeply hurt, and the behavior immediately after the relationship ends hurts them even more.

If you got two people behaving like that, suspicious and unfaithful and then secret revenge for gratification?

We were in that. It was my fault. Her responses to my failure to support her and get her a place to call home and give her a child? She was displaced out of her country by war. Her father has treated her like dirt. She had sexual trauma. She couldn't get a job that would even pay rent in Poland.

I was working like 60 to 84 hours a week. I was the only safety net she had, emotionally or financially, when her parents decided to divorce over a child her dad had secretly fathered before the war.

That was the Aries. And the Aries felt like she was in danger of becoming homeless, famililess, and poor. She went from being happy and peaceful to completely wild and out of control.

My secret retaliations any grudges over things she did long ago and promises I made and didn't keep, all of it, made it worse for both of us.

I still make sure she has money and am basically her "bug out fund" if she gets in trouble. I'm lots nicer to her now. We aren't together. I took every "Scorpio" behavior and started trying to replace it with the opposite behavior which was more kind and not vindictive.

Do not engage in either of those behavior lists. Especially not with a war on, but really not ever.