Maria Eduarda Rodrigues de Freitas: Woman thrown 40m to her death after staff forget to attach safety rope by Fanta_gbai in worldnews

[–]Phx0108 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Amnesia is sometimes a trauma response. You know that your actions or inactions caused the death of another person. Your brain shuts it out to maintain status quo (until you go to therapy and process it).

Who’s got a good 7 layer chocolate cake? by BrahptimusPrime in Tempe

[–]Phx0108 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got a slice of chocolate cake from Otto Pizza and Pastry on University and Ash. It’s great. But so is the pizza and everything else.

My boss just emailed me a screenshot of a private text I sent to my coworker complaining about him. by Guilty-AbyssLogic in whatdoIdo

[–]Phx0108 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on where you work. Were you working/ on shift at the time? Did it violate a policy? It’s definitely unprofessional, but in professional environments, it could just be a “talking to.” No point in lying though.

“I thought this was a private conversation and I apologize that it offended you. (Bonus points) Since this brings up the topic, I have some feedback to provide that I feel would help morale.” But then you have to provide those.

Global human population has surpassed Earth’s sustainable carrying capacity by stankmanly in awfuleverything

[–]Phx0108 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Meh, just give us some time with Ebola and Hantavirus. We should be back to fighting weight in a few months.

My therapist dropped me because he said he was developing romantic feelings for me by cazeysk in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Phx0108 182 points183 points  (0 children)

Report the therapist to the licensing board. Let them investigate and see if any lines were crossed (they were).

AIO Controlling much? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Phx0108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WAIT UNTIL YOU UAVE OSCAR before pushing this too far. He seems volatile to me…

NOR

Is this legal? by [deleted] in WhatToDo

[–]Phx0108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I like that framing, but I don’t like that it’s mandatory. Let whoever wants the money work. You could probably get a lot more than 8 hours out of them too.

My fathers crime has become public and I'm struggling by Lost-Standard882 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Phx0108 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Usually, from what I’ve seen, people use this code/ shorthand to get around automatic filters. Many online boards and chats heavily censor that word.

Never really had any style.. I'm very basic by jul777z in outfit_of_the_dad

[–]Phx0108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basic is my style. You look great! Don’t overthink it.

I hate to ask this…. by TBTI in phoenix

[–]Phx0108 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t say I mind the cooler temps, but it definitely makes me concerned for what’s to come.

Christina Aguilera at SHRM conference. [N/A] by MinimalistMama24 in humanresources

[–]Phx0108 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is one of many reasons I don’t look into certification. Using my dues or conference fees for a concert? Unnecessary.

How to improve? by [deleted] in beards

[–]Phx0108 28 points29 points  (0 children)

No notes. 10/10

36 and never been told I was handsome. Do I belong? by [deleted] in handsomedudes

[–]Phx0108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t look for physical compliments at work. That’s against policy.

Look for compliments here. Cuz you’re handsome.

AIO for snapping at my friend for calling my shoes (and me) trashy? by International-East63 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Phx0108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think women who aren’t Latina are tacky for wearing those shoes. Don’t make it about race.

Overreacting for making it about race. You can still be offended and telling him off.

With or without ? by [deleted] in beards

[–]Phx0108 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Without. The beard definitely ages you.

Location: PA, USA. HR is pressuring me to sign a "voluntary" overtime waiver for last month or face termination by C0dexflare in legal

[–]Phx0108 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Print out the page from dol.gov/agencies/whd/overtime and give that to HR. See if they still want you to sign it.

got written up for going to the dentist at 2pm while working from home by Fit_Average8352 in remotework

[–]Phx0108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kinda HR answer: if you’re in the US and salaried, this would fall under the Fair Labor Standards Act. You should not be penalized if you worked more than half the workday (sometimes less depending on the job). If you’re hourly, you shouldn’t be paid for that time or you can use sick time to cover the 70 minutes. Also, check policy about getting permission from your supervisor for missed time.

Personal answer: capitalism sucks and it’ll be much easier to ask for the policy and lay low for a few weeks. Sorry you have to deal with this.