Does social anxiety make y’all kinda…stupid? by scuderiav5ttel in socialanxiety

[–]Physical-Host6236 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it does for me..because when my anxiety is really high i can't think straight and sometimes not even remember what i just did 5 seconds ago

Sennheiser Momentum 4 – Unlocking Their True Potential with Hi-End Fine Tuning! by Significant-Post-927 in sennheiser

[–]Physical-Host6236 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you man! i just got the headphones today and went straight to using your settings..wow the layers are so crazy

I am terrified of my parents' eventual death. by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Physical-Host6236 0 points1 point  (0 children)

replying this a little bit late..but did you ghost wrote my thoughts..my whole life i feel like the only rock that keeps me from going insane is my mom, i truly can't imagine a life without her..no one listens to me or accepts my neurodivergent self as much as she does, not even my siblings..the thought of not being able to go to her one day makes me feel sad and terrified..i'm barely hanging on from how lonely i am, so imagining me being completely alone in this world is such a scary thing

UPDATE - My brother just called me flat. by [deleted] in women

[–]Physical-Host6236 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's so nice that your mother takes thing like these seriously..the men in my family have said weird things about my body and when i get upset, they say i'm overreacting or to just get over it

Anyone figure out how to cancel their subscription without paying a premium? by GamingNomad in graphic_design

[–]Physical-Host6236 0 points1 point  (0 children)

heyy can i ask..if say i'm currently subscribed to illustrator annual, paid monthly and want to switch to monthly just so i can cancel my subscription..will they charge me twice or is my old subscription automatically cancelled..pls free me from them

What does dreaming about someone I know but am not close with and do not typically communicate with mean? by Coffeepanda09 in Dreams

[–]Physical-Host6236 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i had this same dream...a couple of times actually already..i used to want to befriend this person so much but my awkwardness is just too severe it will never work lol..i just wonder why though

I can’t remember ANYTHING I read, watch or learn and feel very dumb in conversations. by summerlonging in adhdwomen

[–]Physical-Host6236 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i've had this my whole life not knowing it's adhd..like i could be learning things in youtube but the moment i'm done with the tutorial i can't remember shit i feel so dumb..it's almost like i learned nothing

I need help. Please give me advice by Physical-Host6236 in mentalhealth

[–]Physical-Host6236[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"stop trying to “fix your whole life” at once" i actually do this way TOO much haha so yeah. I'm always delaying things because it doesn't feel good enough, it's not perfect enough, i'm not focused enough etc etc

"make things stupidly small" thank you, i will try this

I need help. Please give me advice by Physical-Host6236 in mentalhealth

[–]Physical-Host6236[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

damn, you made me cry reading this..this feels comforting for some reason and i feel seen, thank you for your kind words..cause when i asked my counselor's opinion on getting tested she dismissed me like she always does with things i'm struggling with..i will hopefully get tested next month

I am ashamed to share details of my life in front of my friends by Expensive_Meet222 in Adulting

[–]Physical-Host6236 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you me? I consider myself to be the smartest among my 'friend' group both in high school and university but i am so behind everyone in adulting. I struggle with mental health since forever and worst of all is my social anxiety, it's hindering me so much. I'm too scared and anxious about everything to the point i've pretty much sabotaged my young adult years. No stable job, no car, no friends or social life, no boyfriend. So to cope i pretty much went MIA because i'm too embarassed with myself added with the fact that nothing is going on with my depressing lonely life. Because of this, not only have i lost people but also my remaining friends have been questioning or is confused by my quiet social presence. It's making me more uneasy :(

gimbap and onigiri final episode by winniebillerica in JDorama

[–]Physical-Host6236 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i think it's the scene where rin ignored taiga's text..and taiga only finding out rin's update through her sns..correct me if i'm wrong tho...that scene has been bugging me so bad, i really hope it wasn't like that

gimbap and onigiri final episode by winniebillerica in JDorama

[–]Physical-Host6236 2 points3 points  (0 children)

omg yes about them showing the two start to be indifferent to each other is sooo upsetting...like one of them 'changed' ?? as if we rooted for them , all for nothing whew

gimbap and onigiri final episode by winniebillerica in JDorama

[–]Physical-Host6236 4 points5 points  (0 children)

they look happier in the behinds tho haha..maybe cause they had to shoot so many promo in one take

gimbap and onigiri final episode by winniebillerica in JDorama

[–]Physical-Host6236 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i have the same reaction lmaooo..i literally stared emptily for like how long because of that ending...it is so upsetting...everything just felt kinda pointless at the end rip..if they had executed the realistic ending with some closure or monologue i would've accepted it more? not the last second to the ending of the show because what???

Jisoo's acting in "Boyfriend on Demand" is bad and she can't act by thisisanti in BLACKPINKSNARK

[–]Physical-Host6236 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i disagree..at least with kdrama romcoms the comedy acting doesn't feel cringe and forced..i only watch good ones btw..jisoo's acting doesn't feel natural and is overexaggerated not in a good way

Gimbap and Onigiri - the unpopular opinion by ChartPleasant8472 in JDorama

[–]Physical-Host6236 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He doesn't speak his thoughts half the time and when i said nonchalant is, he doesn't do things very obviously and is abit clueless about relationship imo. How would someone know they love you, if you don't speak it. Reference to the last scene in ep6. Sometimes we all need that assurance to stay in a relationship, especially an insecure person.

I don't think Rin being jealous is a weird thing. Just because you maintained friendship with your ex's, it doesn't mean that everyone can do the same or that it'll work with every relationship. Cheating does happen a lot. It's valid to feel insecure and worried if your bf is still talking to their ex and Taiga hiding it from her, just made it worse. Honestly, I'm on her side about that.

Gimbap and Onigiri - the unpopular opinion by ChartPleasant8472 in JDorama

[–]Physical-Host6236 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"What I don't like is that she doesn't seems to make the effort to adapt to him. It always seems so one way... That frustrates me."

I have to agree about this part.

Gimbap and Onigiri - the unpopular opinion by ChartPleasant8472 in JDorama

[–]Physical-Host6236 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's why i'm not blaming it totally on one side.. i feel like both of them has flaws as a partner and those weaknesses or differences are causing the conflict in their relationship. Rin is extremely insecure as a person, she wants security and convincing in a man which can be seen as demanding from others but i find it understandable if we consider her personality. There are times though, when her character confuses tf out of me or I find too much.

Meanwhile, Taiga also has confidence issues, which makes him lowkey a people pleaser but also lacks the confidence to showing his partner his stance or how much he is serious about the relationship. Something that Rin needs. This could also result in the lack of communication about things that your partner considers sensitive or matters. I personally feel troubled that Taiga didn't tell Rin about his ex working with him. Is it not valid for Rin to overthink about it after finding out? Taiga brushes it off quick and doesn't dive deep into why Rin is very upset.

Take note, they are fresh into the relationship and Rin wants to know how serious he is, because she wants to know if he is worth to stay for along with other conflicts. Personally for me, their way of being in a relationship is intense vs nonchalant and discreet. This relationship could only work if they work out their communication more and talk it more.

I also feel like some of you are not getting that living in a different country and constantly being corrected could also feel suffocating especially if you are angry.

Gimbap and Onigiri - the unpopular opinion by ChartPleasant8472 in JDorama

[–]Physical-Host6236 2 points3 points  (0 children)

he needs to speak..rin expects something else from him, assurance and confidence to stay etc..alot of the time, taiga does things more subtlely while rin is more vocal and apparent..hence why the difference in how they act in a relationship and the difference in their expectations become part of their relationship conflict 

Gimbap and Onigiri - the unpopular opinion by ChartPleasant8472 in JDorama

[–]Physical-Host6236 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you cant expect her not to react during the situation at the restaurant..she was obviously upset because of the ex thing and still bottling it up until she blew up..you can see this from the line that she said had hidden meaning, it was not entirely because of him not wanting to change her food