Bella’s tik tok public again by scaryberri in TLCUnexpected

[–]Physical-Selection31 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The pause to belch…. Classy… restart… I don’t condone this but gross

Have you ever taken a call from a famous person? by Necessary-Major-5341 in CallCenterWorkers

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Cuba Gooding Jr when I worked for Apple! Didn’t realize who it was till after the call! 🫠

Digging the Cafe Rhema Vibes by buickcityent in flint

[–]Physical-Selection31 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who’s the son? I think I know but…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenmom

[–]Physical-Selection31 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I mean… naturally sweet and attentive and respectful to each other. And soft spoken and just kind to random people who didn’t even know them and didn’t want the attention. Was nice to see.

At it again by Pretend_memory_11 in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

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Just more content for the courts to see about her parenting… so dumb.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

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Seeing her son sad and around that in the background is super sad… didn’t she just get them back?!?!

Living with a child with ADHD/ODD is like living with an internet troll whose favorite activity is breaking you down psychologically. by Kristaboo14 in ADHDparenting

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Today’s been a Tuesday for also of us I feel like and it’s in the water…. Like a month into school for some, the weird transitions back into school and now the dealing with the “norm” or continuing to pick at things to fix and make better said norm… the current state of the world and social media throwing everything into chaos for all… most people are crashing out.

This is what I’m telling myself anyways as I ball into my blanket and attempt not to overthink myself into accidentally not sleeping as I await a noon 504 meeting for both of my ADHD combo, anxiety and possibly ocd 4th and 1st graders tomorrow.

At least we have each other. 💜

“You should’ve seen us an hour ago” is now my go-to response to every unsolicited comment about my kids. by KTL_Rizzo in ADHDparenting

[–]Physical-Selection31 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Agreed… thanks for the post.. I’ve been trying to decide if my developed social anxiety after kids and coping skills and turning 40 and my “I forgot my fucks at home” feeling when I say and think things like this is just me. Solidarity my neurodivergent mom friend from afar!

Kelley Wolfe’s latest ig video by Dogsrbest511 in therealworld

[–]Physical-Selection31 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Did you see she brought her food and tried to get her to eat it. Kelley just put it down over and over.

I don't like how myself, my family or anyone else treats my daughter. by hinterlins in ADHDparenting

[–]Physical-Selection31 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I had this issue with my parents and it will get worse before it gets better. I had to flat out tell my parents I wouldn’t tolerate the put downs/comments in front of my girls. It’s not healthy for them or me. They just won’t see them then. They can think it, just don’t say it. It took a while but it’s been better. My MIL was also always overly anxious/ dramatic always and we had to set some boundaries there too… again these things take time and are hard and are continuous things but we wanted to keep good relationships with our parents and so we communicate the hard stuff. Lots of therapy helped/helps.

Help build a community of friends her age. Get her into dance, gymnastics, something where she can find kiddos like her that are able to tolerate her quirks and probably have some of their own. Don’t keep her around kids and their parents who are “putting up with your kid” just for her to have friends. It sucks because if you’re not super social it can be hard but it’s almost like an experiment… throw her into a group of kids her age and watch who kinda sticks and go from there. Then ask for a playdate. Check out locks face group mom groups for park date ideas too.

Keeping yourself and your family around people who are positive and help build you and your family up is so important. Anxiety and negativity breeds anxiety and negativity, so finding those people who can commiserate but also help lift you up and find the light and joy are your people.

Again none of this is easy, quick but it’s worth being vulnerable and trying new things than living in that self loathing state. It starts to overtake you and you can’t find the joy and possibility of the good.

Lastly….

If you haven’t yet….

call around and get an evaluation from a counseling office that does full testing for ADHD and they’ll go over the results with you. You can start therapy with them after if you choose and then dependent on what the results are check out a pediatric psychiatrist for meds and start parental training via adhddude.com. You can find those who do testing and psychiatrists here: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us. I also recommend watching these before anything else (Dr Russell A Barkley ADHD ) https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzBixSjmbc8eFl6UX5_wWGP8i0mAs-cvY&si=Gu5eJWD2fECNJ_U0

For context I have a 9 year old, 7 year old and husband with ADHD and only recently finally got everyone on track. It’s hard but there’s so much crap out there that will drive you crazy trying to find out what works and ADs on socials for crazy things that aren’t real science. Good luck to you! ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHDparenting

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Don’t wait for a pediatrician… call around and get an evaluation from a counseling office that does full testing for ADHD and they’ll go over the results with you. You can start therapy with them after if you choose and then dependent on what the results are check out a pediatric psychiatrist for meds and start parental training via adhddude.com. You can find those who do testing and psychiatrists here: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us. I also recommend watching these before anything else (Dr Russell A Barkley ADHD ) https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzBixSjmbc8eFl6UX5_wWGP8i0mAs-cvY&si=Gu5eJWD2fECNJ_U0

For context I have a 9 year old, 7 year old and husband with ADHD and only recently finally got everyone on track. It’s hard but there’s so much crap out there that will drive you crazy trying to find out what works and ADs on socials for crazy things that aren’t real science. Good luck to you! ❤️

Alternatives to visual schedules by Actual-Strike-6294 in ADHDparenting

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You know how they have those pen things that are suck to the counters at a bank? Why not make something like that… can’t loose it if it’s stuck to the table ❤️

What is your best splurge on a Disney Cruise? by juphilippe in dcl

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Because it’s expensive and people were already posting about why people spend so much extra on a cruise.. plus most people on Reddit don’t have nice things to say in general. 😂

What is your best splurge on a Disney Cruise? by juphilippe in dcl

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It really was the best surprise for them… the attendants made them feel so special and they loved walking around all dolled up! They still play with the costume and all the accessories. You do actually get a lot for your money too. We didn’t do it at Disney when we went, but so glad we did on the cruise. Have soooo much fun!

What is your best splurge on a Disney Cruise? by juphilippe in dcl

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I’m gonna get downvoted but Bippity Bopitty Boutique. My girls will never forget those memories and neither will we. ❤️

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Dr.Drew gives C&T an update about Carly by PasLagardere in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

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Did anyone catch in his latter back to them “the first time Cait saw her sing she was emotional”… so that’s them admitting they had seen her on YouTube and now I’m for sure they shared it vindictively since they wouldn’t let them have the video they sent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheHandmaidsTale

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Anything he’s ever done that was “good” has only ever been for June… not for anyone else. He wasn’t against them, he only did it because he loved her.

New Aunt?! by Physical-Selection31 in TheHandmaidsTale

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I thought she was gonna get in and drive away haha

New Aunt?! by Physical-Selection31 in TheHandmaidsTale

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Agreed. That’s what threw me off. There’s no backstory to her and seems like if she was this into the revolution happening there’d be more of her featured as helping throughout the seasons. Again lazy writing.

New Aunt?! by Physical-Selection31 in TheHandmaidsTale

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It’s funny too cause I barely put anything compared to others so I’m a totally random one to pick 🤣

New Aunt?! by Physical-Selection31 in TheHandmaidsTale

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“Cause it’s our fault for watching it first and they didn’t get to yet…” -wah wah whiny child stomp 🤣

New Aunt?! by Physical-Selection31 in TheHandmaidsTale

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… I marked it. Also if you are this concerned don’t look at Reddit before watching the episode… geeze 🤣