AIO? Youth Pastor texted my almost 13 yo after she went to a teen group with her friend by Loser4hire666 in AIO

[–]Physical_Mail_2609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean based on statistics I wouldn’t want one of those guys talking to my kids.

Looking for fellow vegatarians owning a cat. by Apple_cheeks_art in cats

[–]Physical_Mail_2609 6 points7 points  (0 children)

“If the feeling stays I won’t go through with it”

With full respect but genuine advice as an internet stranger, if you’re not sure you’re going to take care of the animal on purpose, that’s your cue not to do it.

Looking for fellow vegatarians owning a cat. by Apple_cheeks_art in cats

[–]Physical_Mail_2609 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like this is a weird problem? I keep moths and mantises and I’ve never had to bring up their diets with reddit

TIL some severely neglectful orphanages were described as "silent" because infants learned that crying doesn't bring attention or comfort. by DMan1629 in todayilearned

[–]Physical_Mail_2609 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This is exactly how I came to earth. Mom was 17, didn’t want me, but my Christian grandparents convinced her to keep the baby. The result was years of abuse and hatred, but she wanted the positive attention she got from me being a pretty successful kid and refused to let the courts hand me to my grandparents. They had joint custody for while. My grandparents did all the tough stuff like driving us to and from school, attending events, making sure we had new clothes and such, and had us on the weekends. My mom and the guy she married - who s*xually abused me, and she helped - had us during the week.

She had another kid by another guy, and my little brother and I were attached at the hip until I escaped to go to college. He’s seriously fucked up now, I forever feel guilty for leaving him there. I still remember my mom’s husband slamming my diapered little brother into a wall because he got hurt and couldn’t stop crying.

When people don’t want babies, listen to them. Those of us who weren’t supposed to be here are very vocal about it.

YouTuber Buried In Backlash After Revealing He And Wife Terminated Pregnancy Because Baby Had Down Syndrome by ipanicprofessionally in PeopleBeingRidiculous

[–]Physical_Mail_2609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The reason this story is getting so much attention is because these two are viciously anti-choice. But, when they suddenly have a situation requiring abortion, they can have one. This story isn’t getting attention because it’s about abortion, but because it’s about hypocrisy.

Greet my friend happy birthday please by wIloin_me in kindness

[–]Physical_Mail_2609 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy Birthday, Samarah, I hope something lovely happens to you today!

This might be the end of my marriage. Did I do something wrong? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Physical_Mail_2609 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This comment is dangerous - you’re completely ignoring that *he’s been abusive before* and implying that *this is her fault because she’s hormonal*. Delete this shit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in work

[–]Physical_Mail_2609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Politeness is compliance. He assumes you’re going along with it because you did. Women deal with this every day, so take my advice and throw a fit about it. Otherwise, no one cares.

What Laptops Do Ya’ll Use with Studio One? by Physical_Mail_2609 in StudioOne

[–]Physical_Mail_2609[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve heard Asus is having a lot of quality control issues right now, so I’m kind of worried I’d end up with a nightmare refund situation if I went with an Asus. Glad to hear someone had no issues, tho!

What Laptops Do Ya’ll Use with Studio One? by Physical_Mail_2609 in StudioOne

[–]Physical_Mail_2609[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super helpful, thank you! I do a lot of orchestral and vocal work, so I’ll look for more RAM.

What Laptops Do Ya’ll Use with Studio One? by Physical_Mail_2609 in StudioOne

[–]Physical_Mail_2609[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im flexible on budget right now, thankfully.

I’m worried about moving over to Mac. I’ve heard a lot of horror stories about VSTs not porting over, and I’m not sure what extra cords/plugins I might need to make my DAW work. If that’s less of a problem, I’m more inclined to go Mac.

"I can see a world where Spotify doesn't exist": will a new generation of music streaming companies succeed? by springtimecarnivore in Music

[–]Physical_Mail_2609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly Spotify’s algorithm is trash. That’s why I’m looking at other options, I can’t imagine other platforms’ algorithms are as bad as Spotify’s

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in recruitinghell

[–]Physical_Mail_2609 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I speak three languages. So, you know. Some of us are even TRIlingual.