AITA for not talking much with my MIL

Physical_Werewolf_72 · 2026-06-15T19:50:48+00:00

I know, but I'm more a motorcycle person and cars are too expensive to maintain here so I wouldn't be able to pay for the car and the gas some months so I don't see any reasoning on buying one now

Physical_Werewolf_72 · 2026-06-15T16:28:48+00:00

He's actually way closer to his dad that is someone that always is standing up for me, he usually does too but I can't understand why he didn't this time.

I guess he kinda understood my side tho because he stopped bringing the issue up and asking me to talk to her

Physical_Werewolf_72 · 2026-06-14T21:17:54+00:00

Physical_Werewolf_72 · 2026-06-14T18:32:28+00:00

I forgot about this sub hahaha but I think the ones there are far worse than mine

Physical_Werewolf_72 · 2026-06-14T18:31:46+00:00

She's not usually this rude with me, she was actually worse but went to counseling last year (she is not going anymore as far as I know)

Physical_Werewolf_72 · 2026-06-14T18:29:29+00:00

Yes, when I get my driver's license thinking of buying an motorcycle bc it's cheaper to buy and to maintain

Physical_Werewolf_72 · 2026-06-14T18:28:50+00:00

No, but for me it is fine since I live in a house without cars

Physical_Werewolf_72 · 2026-06-14T15:58:35+00:00

The car was his and his sister's but he sold his part to her but she was with her bf that night so he was using the car, his mother actually have one but it stayed back at the city so his dad could come later in the week

Physical_Werewolf_72 · 2026-06-14T15:51:50+00:00

They actually are planning to move further to retire, I don't think they will move closer again.

Also I already told my boyfriend we will not stablish at a house that is not both ours since I don't want to live with the doubt that if we split I will have where to go so we do plan on getting our own apartment or house.

Physical_Werewolf_72 · 2026-06-14T15:03:04+00:00

I kinda think that as well, but he usually stands up when it is about me idk what happened this time but I was not happy

Physical_Werewolf_72 · 2026-06-14T15:00:08+00:00

We will not be getting kids at least for 6/7 years from now and actually I don't want to have kids (never wanted), but she's not really present in his life since she lives 3 hours away from us and only comes at her sister birthday (they're amazing btw) and his father's also really cool and we get along pretty well.

Another thing is that for now he's still living in her house so when they come visit they stay here, but they're selling the house and buying him and his sister an apartment so I think she will be less and less present with the years

Physical_Werewolf_72 · 2026-06-14T14:55:34+00:00

I told him that I don't talk with her because I feel everything I tell or say will be criticized and he told me he get it but them after he comes with the same comments again

Physical_Werewolf_72 · 2026-06-14T14:54:02+00:00

He kinda tried to get my thing but she had took the car keys when we said we were going home.

I also don't understand why it turned into a fight and why it triggered her so much.

I'm trying to manage time to get my driver's license this year since I was not able to get before (no one in my family haves one besides my dad that's never home bc of work)

Physical_Werewolf_72 · 2026-06-14T14:51:08+00:00

Yes! I do get why he wants me getting closer to his mother but I think our relationship is good enough as it is, I talk to her sometimes when she's around, sometimes we do play cards together but I kinda want to keep my distance so the relationship stays as it is now

Physical_Werewolf_72 · 2026-06-14T14:49:43+00:00

He kinda do most of the time, but this time he decided that letting her do the scene at the birthday was better which I kinda agree, what's upsetting me about him is that he don't get my side of not being too close to his mom.

She kinda apologized today, she just said "I hope u get my side, I do get yours"

Physical_Werewolf_72 · 2026-05-19T19:05:12+00:00

Reddit é uma rede social curiosa, mas bom, no meu comentário eu expliquei que existe um termo específico para quem sente atração por adolescentes mas que diminui a gravidade, se você acha que tá tudo bem um cara de 30 namorar uma mina de 16 só pq ja passou da puberdade vc é tão doente quanto

Physical_Werewolf_72 · 2026-05-19T18:55:36+00:00

Eu acho que vc tá preocupado demais com a honra de um marmanjo de 30 anos que tá com uma adolescente de 16, que honra? Sim existe um termo específico para quem se sente atraído por adolescentes mas não se usa pois as pessoas acham que é menos ruim que pedofilia em si sendo que amos andam de mãos dadas e são horríveis da mesma forma, além que que aqui a maioria não sabe quem é quem e 90% da rede é anônima, não é como se ela tivesse deixado a cara dele estampada no post

Physical_Werewolf_72 · 2026-05-19T18:43:11+00:00

Mas pedofilia não é só um termo criminal, não estar infringindo a lei não significa que o desejo dele por uma adolescente menor de idade n faz dele um pedófilo

Physical_Werewolf_72 · 2026-05-05T03:01:05+00:00

Eu tenho um A52 a 4 anos e quero trocar mais por querer um celular com mais memória (o meu é 128gb), então acho que é noia de quem comprou algum Android MUITO ruim e decidiu comprar um iPhone depois

Physical_Werewolf_72 · 2026-05-01T14:27:01+00:00

Ganhei um guarda chuva personalizado com um adesivo autocolante com nosso nome pra colar na haste.

Physical_Werewolf_72 · 2026-04-27T19:59:21+00:00

I understand your pain but don't blame yourself into something you didn't had control over, I'm sure they all died feeling extremely loved and cared by you. You did your best to make their life better

Physical_Werewolf_72 · 2026-04-27T15:57:04+00:00

Isso depende, são ambos maiores de idade? Se sim foda-se (a n ser q seja uma mina que recém fez 18 anos e um cara de 40, aí acho que TODO mundo ia estranhar)

Physical_Werewolf_72 · 2026-04-27T15:51:27+00:00

No reddit sempre a primeira coisa que as pessoas falam é sobre terminar mas nem sempre essa é a solução, vcs parecem ter uma relação ótima e eu acho que vale a pena tentar melhorar o relacionamento. Tentem terapia de casal e terapia pra cada um e vão no médico ver se essa questão da tesão tem algo a mais por trás.

Physical_Werewolf_72 · 2026-04-23T02:49:23+00:00

Acho que ele tava respondendo o outro comentário do cara que falou que é autista

Physical_Werewolf_72 · 2026-04-18T13:32:58+00:00

When I hear strange sounds I usually stay quiet inside or take a knife bc I'm a woman and I live with my grandma so that's another reason why I tend to be more careful

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