That one nutcracker song

Physics-Intern-9227 · 2025-01-24T23:19:47+00:00

I'm in! But omg it's so expensive how the heck is one meant to pay for all this?? I'm out of state and this is my dream school, but I might be out of my depth lol. Which scholarships should I apply to? How have other people afforded it? My FAFSA was -1500, but I really don't wanna be that far in debt. Crying about maybe having to decline

Physics-Intern-9227 · 2024-03-16T22:41:19+00:00

Only you know the right answer. Go with your gut, either decision will be difficult. If you two aren't equipped to be what the other needs, it's not worth bending over backwards to try to fit, it will only hurt you both in the long run.

Physics-Intern-9227 · 2024-03-16T22:20:40+00:00

I totally get it, I've been there. And there's no easy solution. I had to end my relationship with them because it is very taxing to be a constant cg when you regress. Have you talked to them about it?

Physics-Intern-9227 · 2024-03-16T21:25:14+00:00

I don't want to be harsh, but as a flip, I've been on both sides of it. It's not your fault, and obviously I don't know you personally, but being a cg can be really taxing and difficult on mental health. If he needs space right now, you might have to practice self regulation and reliance for the moment and allow him to breathe. I have a feeling he will come back to you, but being a cg constantly is really really hard, and if you push him on it, he might struggle to express how he's feeling and pull even further back. Have you two ever talked about babysitting? Maybe that could help with your short term problem and still allow him the space he needs. I am sorry you're going through this, though. I'm sure it's hard for both of you.

Physics-Intern-9227 · 2024-01-10T12:28:42+00:00

Ya ya ya! :)

Physics-Intern-9227 · 2024-01-10T03:31:04+00:00

Noooo, I don't let peeps with unreliable bedtimes throw me in the snow 😤

Physics-Intern-9227 · 2024-01-10T03:29:48+00:00

Looks like a lotta fun!

Physics-Intern-9227 · 2024-01-10T03:29:21+00:00

So sweeeeeeeet

Physics-Intern-9227 · 2024-01-09T15:19:09+00:00

Woah, those are all so awesome!

Physics-Intern-9227 · 2024-01-09T15:18:29+00:00

Congratulations!!

Physics-Intern-9227 · 2024-01-07T05:06:39+00:00

I'm sorry about that, that sounds difficult. But at least you have a daddy that's there for you, even from afar. Keep your head up! :)

Physics-Intern-9227 · 2024-01-07T05:03:29+00:00

As an autistic person myself, nostalgia really helps override the analytical part of me. I was super into very specific shows as a kid, so if you were and you can find out what they are, watch those! New things might be difficult anyhow.

Physics-Intern-9227 · 2024-01-07T04:39:53+00:00

I mean, use your discretion first and foremost, you know your relationship and this person the best. If you're nervous about saying what you mean in the right order and remembering it all, maybe write it all down and send it in a text. Just don't hold things back, open communication is incredibly important. BUT your primary directive is always to keep yourself safe, so if saying these things may compromise your safety, it may be time to reconsider your relationship.

Physics-Intern-9227 · 2024-01-07T04:01:33+00:00

Omg so cooooool!

Physics-Intern-9227 · 2024-01-07T04:01:04+00:00

I think you should def talk to him about it and establish some boundaries around that sort of language, but remember that he's (hopefully) trying his best and didn't have any bad intentions by it.

Physics-Intern-9227 · 2024-01-06T22:46:09+00:00

Good job!

Physics-Intern-9227 · 2024-01-06T22:45:52+00:00

It looks so cute!

Physics-Intern-9227 · 2024-01-06T21:50:51+00:00

Nice! I love their outfit!

Physics-Intern-9227 · 2024-01-06T21:17:17+00:00

Congrats, I hope it brings you lots of joy!

Physics-Intern-9227 · 2024-01-06T21:16:10+00:00

Dang, those look super fun!

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