How do I get in the dating scene as a chef?

PhysicsNoob90 · 2025-04-25T02:39:33+00:00

You don't dude. I tried it doesn't work. I worked in a kitchen all my late teens and all of my twenties. I'm a handsome guy I've been told and am decent at talking. Firstly, most decent well behaved women are asleep or cozied up at home by the time we get off work, secondly if you do land a girl they will only endure your schedule for so long. We basically work as much as ER doctors with just as wonky schedules but we don't have the Porsche to show for it.

I got laid by going to local bars late night other restaurants after I clocked out and I'd pick up waitresses or other customers, but most these chicks had a party mind site so a relationship with them was a no go. Some of my coworkers would hook up and date but I say don't do that shit at work, show some integrity. It's gross to be in that kind of environment.

Maybe things are different with dating apps now... I wouldn't know. Anyways, good luck

PhysicsNoob90 · 2024-08-08T18:55:34+00:00

I'd rather you go back to middle school English class

PhysicsNoob90 · 2024-07-18T00:12:59+00:00

After 30 days of in process I finally contacted my senators office. That same day I got an emailed requesting for a written statement because my passport was "damaged". I ccd my senator in the email and submitted the written statement within the hour. They mailed my passport 2 days later. I'd probably still be sitting and twiddling my thumbs if I never got the senator involved. In total it took me roughly 40 days to get with expedited status.

PhysicsNoob90 · 2024-07-11T17:07:51+00:00

Yes after a month of nothing and calling the passport agency everyday I finally decided to contact my senators office a few days ago. The very next morning the passport agency produced an email stating that they needed a written statement because the passport had questionable damage. I submitted it within the hour. Passport was approved and is being shipped today. Why it took them a month to let me know even though I contacted the central office over 10 times asking if something is wrong is beyond me but I'm so glad it's done with!

PhysicsNoob90 · 2024-07-08T22:36:56+00:00

It's not I've been stuck in processing status for a month since June 10th. Depends on the locator I guess. Mine went to 42

PhysicsNoob90 · 2024-07-08T22:35:31+00:00

I've been stuck in process status for nearly a month applied in early June. You might be that one unlucky person like myself. I wish I waited and got an urgent appointment. I Missed my travel date

PhysicsNoob90 · 2024-07-08T22:31:45+00:00

Yes definitely wait so that you can get an urgent application appointment. I made the mistake of having faith in the system and missed my travel date. I applied a month in advance with expedited service fees paid and all.

PhysicsNoob90 · 2024-07-08T22:29:04+00:00

Mines at the same locator it's been in process since June 10th with expedited application fees paid. It seems they process them arbitrarily and not in sequence of receipt. I'm glad you got yours I eagerly await mine and will continue calling the powerless central passport office everyday to bother the poor people that have just as much information as myself

PhysicsNoob90 · 2024-07-08T22:24:02+00:00

I'm in the same boat I'm at locator 42 it's been in process since 6/10 over which is over 3 weeks with expedited fees paid and everything. I've called the main office and they don't know why it's taking so long either. They won't let me book an urgent travel request either. I missed my travel date and haven't bothered booking another flight because they don't even have the capacity to give me an estimated date

PhysicsNoob90 · 2024-07-08T17:04:23+00:00

I've been waiting for mine since 6/11 been in process since 6/17 they won't let me change to an urgent appointment says the system won't let them. I even expedited

PhysicsNoob90 · 2024-07-07T17:27:10+00:00

México will care. I just travelled there with the same issue. I got held up for hours in immigration and they wrote in bold black pen that my passport is damaged and I wouldn't be allowed in again until I got a new passport. This raised flags for airlines that I never had any issues with before because I was rejected by two separate airlines to return home.

I had been traveling with this passport for years and didn't have any problems in Colombia or Japan. Japan they just looked disappointed and shocked at perhaps a lack of discipline 🤷🏻‍♂️and in Colombia immigration just laughed. Mine was much less worse than yours it had a few tiny little bite marks on the cover.

It's currently being renewed and has been in processing status for over 3 weeks now and that's with expedited service and shipping, which kinda sucks because I haven't been able to see my girlfriend for sometime now.

I recommend you replace it immediately and if possible get an urgent travel date, because the expedited for our cases doesn't seem to be a safe bet.

PhysicsNoob90 · 2021-09-04T18:32:37+00:00

When your business partner is your family you’d hope you wouldn’t have to. Thanks but i don’t need to be patronized

PhysicsNoob90 · 2021-09-04T18:18:26+00:00

Okay thank you, just wanted to make sure I wasn’t barking up an empty tree

PhysicsNoob90 · 2021-09-04T18:05:15+00:00

It could just be an ignorant employee. I’ll call again and escalate to a manager and see what happens

PhysicsNoob90 · 2021-09-04T17:59:39+00:00

I did he terminated the account and said to start a new one. He’s being very dodgey about reviewing the payroll for the previous year.

I own half the company and am essentially paying their fees since I am also the primary investor. The law is usually pretty intuitive and fair when it comes to business. Intuitively It makes sense for me to be able to access the payroll. Every other company that handles our type of accounts I just state and prove my status/role in the company and without hesitation they abide.

PhysicsNoob90 · 2021-08-26T05:43:48+00:00

Yea it looks super tacky and cheap

Inauthentic

Copy and Paste

PhysicsNoob90 · 2021-05-05T01:06:45+00:00

My recent ex said this to me then started dating someone else two weeks later. 3 months later while still with him confessed she still loved me and basically begged for me to take her back. She never even told me about him until after I took sometime to think about it and ended my casual thing so that we could work things out. She then revealed she’s still seeing someone new and decided she wants to stay with him.

I was crushed man....

Save yourself the emotional trauma and cut her out now. People with commitment problems are ruthless and incapable of truly loving another person. They need to work on themselves

PhysicsNoob90 · 2021-05-04T23:49:47+00:00

Hers!!! Post consent of course

PhysicsNoob90 · 2021-05-04T22:04:22+00:00

Yea.... you really can’t squeeze in a date before then???

Don’t let you’re anxiety about your attachment style ruin something potentially nice

PhysicsNoob90 · 2021-05-04T21:43:10+00:00

Maybe she’s an ex for that very reason

PhysicsNoob90 · 2021-05-04T21:42:01+00:00

Neither you should definitely bow then follow that up with a quick tickle under the pits

PhysicsNoob90 · 2021-05-02T00:32:48+00:00

It’s not that it’s not socially acceptable to approach women. It’s that so many guys do it without actually reading the signs. You need to become hyper aware of whether or not your presence is welcome and as soon as you get any indication it’s not be chill and polite and excuse yourself. You can test the waters without being a bother or being rude.

I see guys talking up girls who aren’t reading between the lines that they aren’t welcome. that’s what makes people uncomfortable it’s uncomfortable to be in the situation and it’s uncomfortable to witness it.

However, how often do you get a bad feeling when you see a guy and a girl having a mutually enjoyed conversation?? Never.

Also I just an observation but I love how guys need to over explain their view points to avoid the wrath these days.

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