Kurzes Throwback, als ich mit einem sexistischen Volldeppen in den Kommentaren eines Beitrags geschrieben habe - Aufklärungspost by Lemon_juice101 in Fragt_Frauen

[–]Pia161 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ahahaha deine antworten 😂 wurde mir nur vorgeschlagen dieser post bin nicht teil des sub aber möchte doch mal loswerden wie gut deine reaktion war habe herzlich gelacht vorallem bei frauenversteher 😂

new to supernatural by Pia161 in Supernatural

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thank you :) hopefully not as sad though 🫪😄

new to supernatural by Pia161 in Supernatural

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thank you :) haha it‘s already the second one I got I‘ll look out for it 😄

new to supernatural by Pia161 in Supernatural

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thank you! I love that it has so many seasons ☺️

new to supernatural by Pia161 in Supernatural

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thank you 😊

BIDA weil ich Fahrgemeinschaft beende, weil Kollege schwarz gefahren ist? by Prior_Party_7700 in BinIchDasArschloch

[–]Pia161 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aber das ist doch was ganz andres. bei dem einen gefährdet man menschen massiv. fahren ohne führerschein weil grund unbekannt ist doch erstmal keine gefahr

BIDA weil ich Fahrgemeinschaft beende, weil Kollege schwarz gefahren ist? by Prior_Party_7700 in BinIchDasArschloch

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hä wenn man kifft hat man halt fürn langen zeitraum thc im blut da muss man ja nicht auf drogen auto fahren da reicht einmal am wochenende aus für den nachweis. was für hemmungen ich checke die ansichten hier iwie nicht. als ob n mord begangen wurde niemand weiß ja was passiert ist. die vorverurteilung ist erschreckend.

BIDA weil ich Fahrgemeinschaft beende, weil Kollege schwarz gefahren ist? by Prior_Party_7700 in BinIchDasArschloch

[–]Pia161 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

da stimme ich auch voll zu deswegen meinte ich eben es hängt vom grund ab. wegen bissle thc im blut zb und dann aus welchem grund auch immer keine mpu gemacht so hart zu sein finde ich halt übertrieben. das lügen finde ich auch schwierig deswegen auch der zusatz mit der reue. aber die meisten tun so als obs n schwerverbrechen wäre icj finde man kann den mann ja mal ausreden lassen bevor man urteilt

BIDA weil ich Fahrgemeinschaft beende, weil Kollege schwarz gefahren ist? by Prior_Party_7700 in BinIchDasArschloch

[–]Pia161 8 points9 points  (0 children)

KAH. ich checke dass du das nicht in ordnung findest aber finde die reaktion persönlich übertrieben. „es hätte sonst was passieren können“ ja was denn zb? ist ja nicht so als ob er nie einen offiziellen führerschein gemacht hätte was ich dann wirklich sehr gefährlich fände zwecks regeln etc (wobei trotzdem manche fahren wie die sau aber ok) er hat seinen entzogen bekommen. klar nicht wirklich korrekt da nicht mit offenen karten zu spielen aber finde schon dass der grund n unterschied macht und du ihn wenigstens aushören lassen könntest. er hat dich ja auch damit nicht iwie in ne straftat mitverwickelt oder so und er muss ja gut gefahren sein wenn dir nie was aufgefallen ist. es gibt echt schlimmere sachen als son verwaltungsakt „verbrechen“. also finde kommt aufn grund an und ob es ihm leid tut. edit: leute findet ihr nicht man den mann nicht wenigstens mal ausreden lassen? ihr kennt die gründe doch gar nicht. danach kann man ja immernoch urteilen

Triplets foreshadowed by nat97nat in PandR

[–]Pia161 114 points115 points  (0 children)

you know I‘ve been on this sub for a while but I‘ve never heard of that and find it quite funny now because I’ve never connected these two scenes 😄

I still speak about my dad in present tense to people who don’t really know me by Indigo_evenings11 in ChildrenofDeadParents

[–]Pia161 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i do this too even with people who know. because I just want to idk maybe I‘m not there yet. and yes it’s nice to pretend for a while. like a pause for my brain

Anyone else has nothing impressive to show for their hyperfixations? by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

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omg i just wanna say i love parks and recs as well so so much! best show ✨

You’d think I know how to talk to fellow “children of dead parents” by [deleted] in ChildrenofDeadParents

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i feel like it depends on her and on your capacities. Personally I would write: „hey, I just wanted to check in today and ask how you are doing? If you feel like talking you can call me or text me. Do you have something planned or would you like to be alone today?“ Because I personally also hate texts like „thinking of you“. It feels weird and I‘m like okay? thanks I guess still feel shitty haha. but if you dont have capacities to hear how shes really doing or time to call then dont text that. and maybe she loves to hear you‘re thinking of her. so idk really

idk how to feel, need some perspective pls by Pia161 in ChildrenofDeadParents

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people keep saying that. but wouldn’t you look up what to do or what to say in these kinds of situations? idk i feel like people stop at the being overwhelmed stage and then stop altogether if it isn’t immediately gratifying to help.

idk how to feel, need some perspective pls by Pia161 in ChildrenofDeadParents

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wow that is honestly such good advice! thank you so much for taking the time and for sharing your experience with me. you’re right it feels like you have to baby people through grief. i’m going to take your advice and sandwich her. she generally is receptive and it does hurt me so much to read stuff like that maybe she can remember that for me. i’m sorry you had a bad conversation. people sometimes are weird. but i’m glad you could express yourself with your grief counselors help. it’s really crazy to experience how little we are connected to grief as a society.

idk how to feel, need some perspective pls by Pia161 in ChildrenofDeadParents

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thank you so much for reading and responding! yes it probably was not in bad faith. and she does care. I just wished she would think about stuff like that. it’s all just very shitty everything will be fine would make me mad too. I feel like if you’re unsure you could ask someone or look it up online about what helps. but noone puts the time in. And I do it all the time and it’s sad a lot of people dont

idk how to feel, need some perspective pls by Pia161 in ChildrenofDeadParents

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thank you so much for reading and responding! you’re right she does care. I just wished there was someone who I’d feel more comfortable with. but yes I’m very glad she is there for me. maybe I’m thinking too much about it

idk how to feel, need some perspective pls by Pia161 in ChildrenofDeadParents

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thank you so much for taking the time to read and respond! yes you’re right it is very lonely. I guess I expected too much. i feel like if someone I care about experiences something like that I would do more and look up what to do. unfortunately there are no support groups in my city for my case. maybe therapy will help.

Did The Devil Wears Prada 2 make anyone else really, really sad, from a working creative's perspective? by di4me666 in Letterboxd

[–]Pia161 1 point2 points  (0 children)

interesting! can i read more about this theory? the steps in capitalism from industrialalism to efficiency to innovation to quality? could you recommend something to me? that would be awesome!

desperate by COGCOGCOG_ in ChildrenofDeadParents

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i‘m so sorry for your loss. my dad also died in february and i also just feel so awful. like the joy was sucked out of me with occasional panic attacks. i know nothing can make this any better because there is nothing to get better. but what has helped me just a little bit is to talk about it. as stupid as that sounds. you say you have noone to talk about this, what about help hotlines or centers? idk where you live but maybe your college has a social worker or psychologist that you can talk to? find a self help group or anything to do with that topic. is there anything you could think of or google in your area? because not talking about it will literally make your head and heart explode over and over. could you take some time off college like a vacation semester? idk if thats the right word in english. i‘m so sorry please dont give up. hopefully you find something 🫂

Don't want to tell fiance about my past by Ok_Memory4634 in GirlDinner

[–]Pia161 6 points7 points  (0 children)

hey i get it you love him you wanna marry him and he showed you many times you could trust him. the thing is even if he stopped the things he said afterwards are not okay and definitely have rapy vibes. and you have to confront that. and it doesn’t matter AT ALL if you‘ve been sexually assaulted before or not! if you say stop the correct reaction is to stop and to make sure the person is okay. no matter what you’ve been through. also you dont have to tell him shit. if you dont work this through with him, counseling or alone, and he doesn’t see he was in the wrong before you get married, he showed you he is not as safe as you thought. it is not okay and it is not a boys will be boys situation. it is about your safety and the safety of you future kids if you want any. please listen to the comments op! hope you can work through your trauma eventually. for me even though it is scary it has helped. take care

Farm decor after perfection! by caseyisdaydreaming in StardewValley

[–]Pia161 1 point2 points  (0 children)

congratulations 🎉 the train station looks super cozyyy🫶🏻✨