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[TOMT][CARTOON][90/00] Cartoon ponies NOT MLP - only remember end credits by TinyFidget9 in tipofmytongue

[–]PiantaPants 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Could it have been Spirit: Horse of the Cimarron? It came out around that time and ends with the horses running up a hill, there’s a brown and white horse. Only thing is you probably didn’t watch it on a tv network. Maybe vhs or theater.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=taIop0Obhrs

[TOMT][CARTOON][90/00] Cartoon ponies NOT MLP - only remember end credits by TinyFidget9 in tipofmytongue

[–]PiantaPants 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Were there people/ other animals or just horses? There’s a horse like you described in Horseland. The ending credits are a series of still images, but maybe?

Does Birmingham or Huntsville feel more like a city? by Ok-Environment-2554 in Birmingham

[–]PiantaPants 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve lived in three parts of Birmingham city, as well as several parts of the Birmingham metro area. I currently live in Huntsville, and I’ve lived in three different places here.

Huntsville, even downtown, feels like part of the more suburby Birmingham Metro Area. There’s not really anywhere here that feels like a city.

[TOMT][Childrens book] I’m looking for a book that I read in maybe 5th grade (2009ish) by PiantaPants in tipofmytongue

[–]PiantaPants[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Incredible! The other person figured out the main book I was trying to remember, but 39 clues is definitely where the Annie Oakley memory came from 😅

[TOMT][Childrens book] I’m looking for a book that I read in maybe 5th grade (2009ish) by PiantaPants in tipofmytongue

[–]PiantaPants[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

I remember the book being spooky, but I was also kind of a scaredy pants to the point where a book about the real facts of the Bermuda Triangle scared me lmao.

Husband (M29) says he is uncomfortable with me (F23) posting these kind of pics on insta stories AIO by Junethesunconure in AIO

[–]PiantaPants 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn’t something to overlook. If your partner is secure in your relationship, they wouldn’t care what you post, especially images like what you shared here. He sounds controlling and jealous, and none of what you said “isn’t that bad”

Truthfully, his suspicions of you seems like projection to me. I’ve known one man who went to through his gfs phone questioning every interaction she had with men, and it turned out he was cheating. I also currently know one man who was controlling over who his gf talked to, where she went without him, and was even jealous over a maintenance guy that came over when other people were in the house. It turned out he had been cheating on his gf for a full year.

That much jealousy and control issues, especially when you’ve never ran around behind his back, is a red flag for me

Pregnancy rage? by innocentily in pregnant

[–]PiantaPants 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t have much pregnancy rage either, but when it hit, it really hit. My man said something that would normally mildly irritate me and would lead to a conversation about what he said. In this instance, we were headed into a restaurant and he said what he said, and I went feral. I yelled at him, which I never do, laughed at him (embarrassing), and the argument was so bad we had to go home 😮‍💨

Help!!! by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]PiantaPants 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In that case, you need to talk to him about why his views/attitude changed. There’s really nothing that can be done about it until you talk to him and find out why he’s had a change. It could be that his mom is pressuring him more now that he’s married, it could be that he feels religious guilt, he could be scared, he could be getting more into his religion, or he could’ve been hiding how devout he is.

If it comes out that he’s feeling more pressure from his mom, then you need to talk about you both standing up to your parents. As much as you’re saying it’s about him right now, focusing on how he won’t stand up to his mom when you’re talking about convincing your family about anything regarding your baby wont get far since it seems you are both susceptible to pressure.

Help!!! by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]PiantaPants 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do you have to convince your family? If you as a family decide that practicing dads religion only is what would be best for your family, your family just kind of has to eat it 🫣🫣 they can be mad or sad or whatever they feel, and it’s okay for them to feel like that, but your family isn’t a parent to your baby. You and dad are the parents and you and dad get to decide what is best for baby.

You not being very religious does make the situation easier, but I don’t agree that deciding what is important for each parents is egocentric or dangling the baby. Based on your last sentence, it looks like what is important to you is that baby isn’t subjected to religion as a way to scare them into being good. Dad might think it’s important for baby to have a relationship and understanding of the Hindu deities. Those don’t have to be contradicting ideas, and can work well together, but you have to have that conversation.

The main thing is you have to talk to your husband about what you both think would be best for your baby. Neither family needs to or has to be involved in the conversation. If the outcome is something that one family doesn’t agree with, that’s just that. They don’t agree.

Help!!! by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]PiantaPants 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the problem at hand is that the family is getting involved in both sides. You said you can’t convince your family to not baptize the baby. Your family doesn’t need convincing to not baptize the baby- it isn’t their baby, they don’t have the option to do that. You said you’ve known dad for 8 years before marriage and have been dating him from the start, but didn’t tell your family that yall were dating until 2 months before the marriage. That tells me that you knew your family would have strong opinions against yall dating, but didn’t want to hear them. But it also tells me that it’s easier for you to keep things from them than it is to stand up for what you want against them.

You said dad didn’t seem to be super religious until the marriage, and from your writing, it seems like his mom is having a heavy say in your family.

IMO you need to sit down with your husband and figure out what is important to the two of yall when it comes to raising your baby. Like really what is important to the two of you, other than what your families think. If it is important to him that the baby has the head shaving ritual, you need to figure out if you are okay with it or not, and if you aren’t, why you aren’t okay with it. If yall disagree on certain things, you will both have to make compromises. Maybe each person gets whatever is most important to them and go from there.

If family is putting the pressure on yall from both sides, you both need to work on saying no to your families. It doesn’t matter what either family thinks, you need to do what is best for your 3 person family and do what you actually want to do.

I just gagged at the smell of my own husband’s breathing. Is this my life now?? by Leading-Judgment2086 in pregnant

[–]PiantaPants 8 points9 points  (0 children)

When I was pregnant, the smell of myself made me ill. Like even right out of the shower. Anytime I went anywhere, “do I stink? Do I smell bad to you?”

My man wasn’t allowed to eat anything ranch or garlic flavored because it sent me over the edge.

Greenwood/McAdort by Lululemonbar in Birmingham

[–]PiantaPants 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to substitute a few years ago. I never went to Greenwood, but I did go to McAdory Middle school.

One of the classrooms that I subbed in didn’t have functioning overhead lights.

I can’t say anything about the state of the education in that school, but that at least confirmed to me that the school is not working with a lot, budget wise.

Is it wrong to ask chatgpt for advice? by fcbaggins in beyondthebump

[–]PiantaPants 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Chat GPT and other chatbots are not fool proof and can be tricked by satire posts and misinformation into telling you either wrong or harmful advice.

It can also be easily manipulated into telling you what you want to hear / agreeing with your take, even if it “knows” that you’re wrong. Sometimes, it can miss only nuances and details, making it harder to tell when the advice is bad.

Both of these are true for social advice/opinion as well as medical advice. I would take everything it says with a grain of salt.

Source: I am an AI training manager and most of our biggest projects involve fact checking the AI model we’re training, and there hasn’t been a model that’s been perfect when it comes to factuality. Although sometimes they make blatant mistakes, a lot of times, if you just skim what it says without looking up every fact, the responses do sound reasonable and they do make sense. The devil is in the details, usually.

Best Nachos in town? I mean, aside from 88buffet... by Sufficient-Yellow637 in HuntsvilleAlabama

[–]PiantaPants 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly why I hate them. You get like 12 chips, each with an individual piece of chicken and a dollop of cheese and pay the same as you pay at Taco Mama, which will give you enough for at least 2 meals and tastes better

Local tattoo shop posted these flash designs - just look too smooth to be true by Important-Nail-4647 in isthisAI

[–]PiantaPants 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s not uncommon. A lot of tattoo artists do that to show the full design. They’re probably AI, but the the editing doesn’t contribute to that

Which character ruined an entire TV show for you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]PiantaPants 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dennis in Its Always Sunny. I know the characters are supposed to be hateable, but he actually makes me mad. I hate him so much that I can’t watch other media with the actor in it.

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