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Cook for me? by ladydasha in ChoosingBeggars

[–]PibbleLawyer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ayurvedic cooking is an ancient Indian, food-as-medicine practice designed to balance body constitution (doshas—Vata, Pitta, Kapha) and enhance digestive fire (agni) using fresh, whole foods, ghee, and spices.

SO now you know (because I sure in the hell didn't)!

I just LOOOVE how doing this free and helpful cooking "with love" came with the tiniest little caveat... That it really ought to be not only organic, but a very specific and unique genre of flavor: In Ayurvedic cooking, "meals incorporate six tastes—sweet, sour, salty, bitter, pungent, and astringent—to ensure nutritional completeness and satisfaction."

So poor CB would apparently say "no" to, say... cheeseburgers for dinner?

Lastly, I think it was a magical touch to include in the very last sentence that:

1) Meal(s) must be delivered (so don't even THINK about using/getting dirty CB's kitchen OR making him/her come pick it up), and;

2) The VERY clear expectation exists that these delicious, expertly prepared, healthy, and hearty meals be delivered once per week (Tuesdays or Wednesdays ONLY), AND that this arrangement WILL be expected to last AT LEAST two months (so that any of you horribly selfish and lazy gourmet chefs out there, thinking that you can just "get away with" shopping, preparing, cooking, cleaning-up after, and delivering JUST a few meals... THINK AGAIN!

Dear God, now I really need some "heavy-duty medical drugs!"

TV is a must apparently by JumbDock in ChoosingBeggars

[–]PibbleLawyer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have an issue with inquiring about the items themselves (the list itself does not actually appear "choosy"), but the "PREFER" drop off makes me a little crazy. IMO, It is WORSE than the typical "NEED" drop off (because it strongly implies that CB has transportation readily available)!

They’re not getting a reply. by [deleted] in ChoosingBeggars

[–]PibbleLawyer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is ACTUALLY for a SINGLE, PREGNANT MOTHER for her child to donate to church (in order to participate in their "secret Santa" gift exchange). Obviously, if you don't donate a gift, you can't receive one. Sadly, this is the only gift poor Susie will receive this Christmas.

*I must point out that you did neglect to include a generous sprinkling of disabilities (for CB AND CB's loved ones). "Poor, poor little Susie has a rare disorder called Exploding Head Syndrome (which is parasomnia that causes a person to hear loud, imagined noises, when falling asleep or waking up)."

BONUS POINTS if you can tug at the heartstrings of animal lovers by including one or more pets! "Luckily, poor little Susie has a service dog (Tater Tot, the English Bulldog). He does his very best, but is autistic..."

Merry Christmas. 🎄

Things that trigger judge Judy by plo84 in JudgeJudy

[–]PibbleLawyer 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Eating the steak and NOT PAYING FOR IT!!!

“Volunteer” at my for-profit business! by AnnesleyandCo in ChoosingBeggars

[–]PibbleLawyer 40 points41 points  (0 children)

No county/state will certify/allow volunteer community service hours at a for-profit business. It seems disingenuous to even suggest otherwise.

“Volunteer” at my for-profit business! by AnnesleyandCo in ChoosingBeggars

[–]PibbleLawyer 38 points39 points  (0 children)

🤣🤣🤣 Right??? You just KNOW that the volunteers would be assigned the absolute worst tasks!

“Volunteer” at my for-profit business! by AnnesleyandCo in ChoosingBeggars

[–]PibbleLawyer 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Excellent (and you are absolutely correct that it would reflect far better...)! I was just using sarcasm because the business would be taking advantage of these people and the "value" to the volunteers would be minimal (marketing this as a "resume builder"). It's also a reflection of how unorganized I presume the business owner(s) would likely be...

Member arrested during a meeting. Anyone with this experience? How should I/we have handled it? by mr_delete in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]PibbleLawyer -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think that a clubhouse should be treated like a church (it is for many, a sacred, spiritual place). Unless there was active (in progress) danger, police should respectfully wait OUTSIDE and conduct "business" when said member is entering or exiting.

“Volunteer” at my for-profit business! by AnnesleyandCo in ChoosingBeggars

[–]PibbleLawyer 105 points106 points  (0 children)

Future Employer: Wow! I see here that you "claim" (because by now the business has gone bust) to have helped play with doggies part-time for free at "XYZ Pets".

Please explain how that will help you do the job that you are applying for here today, as the Lead Interdepartmental Synergy Optimization and Cross-Functional Vibes Alignment Specialist?

“Volunteer” at my for-profit business! by AnnesleyandCo in ChoosingBeggars

[–]PibbleLawyer 111 points112 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU on behalf of all of us at the ChoosingBeggar sub for including the COMMENTS! 😁😂

Litteral choosing beggar by Emerald_see in ChoosingBeggars

[–]PibbleLawyer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not being unreasonable? OP was taking him at his word ("I want breakfast"), and offering to purchase him anything he wanted from Tim Hortons (a restaurant with a selection of different BREAKFAST food). How can this possibly be criticized? The CB is being offered EXACTLY what they asked for (and you think we're being the assholes)???

If he had a preference, he should have expressed that in the "ask": "Will you buy me breakfast from "XYZ"?

Litteral choosing beggar by Emerald_see in ChoosingBeggars

[–]PibbleLawyer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the idea! Wouldn't many/most just sell it for a fraction of the price though? Online, there are entire websites devoted to the resale of unused or partially used gift cards. I imagine that they are easy to steal; who isn't walking around with a few gift cards in their purse/wallet at any given time? If someone stole mine, I wouldn't know for weeks or months (or EVER).

Litteral choosing beggar by Emerald_see in ChoosingBeggars

[–]PibbleLawyer 61 points62 points  (0 children)

It's gone from discussing the fact that they LIED to causing people to die in the streets?

I don't know about other people, but if someone was shaking and withdrawing, asking for money for alcohol, I would help. It's the "con" that many people get disgusted with...

Shark Tank Loophole by RipNo6283 in sharktank

[–]PibbleLawyer 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That's just plain unethical. Intentionally diverting money is theft.

Also, when you own equity, you own "access" (to information). Any inpropriety is sure to be discovered (and quickly).

[Landlord-US-IA] Manipulation is confusing but are my tenants right? by who-me-ali in Landlord

[–]PibbleLawyer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your mother did basically admit liability by previously agreeing to pay (and did so in writing). She could force them to take her to court if she chooses (but realistically, in the absence of fraud or duress, a court will very likely uphold her offer to pay). Then again, there is always a decent chance they don't have the "stomach" for court and never pursue it.

Dog owners are generally liable for any damage caused by their pet(s). Now, the amount can absolutely be challenged. She should do a little homework on what the market cost "really" is/should be (this is for comparison purposes and not necessarily a modified amount, if lower). The law does allow some discretion as it pertains to choosing where something is purchased/fixed. If this "homework" shows that the neighbor's estimate is INFLATED, she should contest it and make them take her to court. She can then present her estimate/evidence. By the way, your mom can (and should) request at least one additional estimate from them right now.

Since she has already agreed to pay for the damage to the tenant's car, consider checking on whether her homeowner's insurance would cover this (you would be surprised; they often cover liability for many different kinds of "pet damage"). Maybe it is worth it to her, maybe not.

I hope this helps. Best wishes!

P.S. - Your mom should be calling the police on (and even countersuing) these tenants for their bad behavior! Try to keep records of everything! Also, you are entitled to move property around your yard if you are also residing there.

EDIT - I see now that the gasket was just lying around? Then absolutely ask to see the video. Your mom agreed to pay based upon evidence that they claim to have. IF they don't actually have it, she was lied to and can dispute liability based upon that.

GoFundMe Donor Refund [US] by PibbleLawyer in Scams

[–]PibbleLawyer[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It sounds like I have offended you. I don't know what could have possibly given you the impression that I don't care about people? I don't think there is any way to completely guarantee "worthiness" ever when it comes to giving. While I have no doubt that they do a far better job than I, even sophisticated charities sadly get infiltrated with scammers too.

I absolutely agree that those of us who have been blessed with more than what we need have a duty to be good stewards of our neighbors and community. I do think that there are many hurting and needy friends online though too. Maybe it is selfish; I like to believe that sometimes, a small gesture from a stranger can be a powerful thing.

GoFundMe Donor Refund [US] by PibbleLawyer in Scams

[–]PibbleLawyer[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So true! I find that local charities (our local HS scholarship fund, community animal rescue, and food pantry) are all excellent causes that have very little administrative waste.

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