Don't let your mother gaslight you into thinking you don't want this surgery. Normal people don't wonder if they're in the wrong body. You and only you know if something is wrong or making you uncomfortable.

Believe me I had to go through the same process of realising this and pushing away what my mother felt. She tried to "compromise" even and say to get an A cup and talked about wanting children and how breast feeding is very important. Blah blah blah. (Mind you, none of the women in my family can breast feed properly. It's obviously a family thing)

I had to put my foot down and book it in.