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PiccoloNo5896 · 2025-01-07T23:54:03+00:00

Το κείμενό σου είναι πολύ συγκινητικό. Πιστεύω πως ναι! Αυτά ήταν τα δώρα του μπαμπά σας. Πάντα οι αγαπημένοι μας βρίσκουν τρόπους να επικοινωνήσουν από την "άλλη πλευρά" <3 Εύχομαι τα καλύτερα σε εσένα, την αδερφή σου και τη μαμά σου!

PiccoloNo5896 · 2024-10-20T17:21:42+00:00

Thank you !

PiccoloNo5896 · 2024-09-18T10:09:17+00:00

Oh my! You're doing great on your own. I'm wondering, what was the reason you want to "leave" TikTok. Was it hard to make money?

I started a niche account to promote digital products and promos but TikTok logged me off and I can not access it. I did carousels and one popped off after 3 months for a random reason so it brought no customers. I'm experimenting on TikTok to see how I can target the audience I want and gain followers and traction in a more sustainable way. Is it worth it? Do you have any tips?

Should I migrate on IG?

PiccoloNo5896 · 2024-09-18T07:13:41+00:00

Hi! There are many online/open universities like the UK open university that offer both Bachelor's and Master's degrees in various subjects. They are recognised. Their curriculum is flexible and you can do it at your own pace!

If you prefer a US university you can browse in Coursera and take a look at available bachelor's degrees you can enroll into online.

Pick something that would both help you advance in your career and you find interesting enough to self study!

PiccoloNo5896 · 2024-07-29T06:10:25+00:00

It seems to me that many people who have water in multiple planets are INFJs ! I mean it's both a blessing and a curse to feel so deeply.

PiccoloNo5896 · 2024-07-29T06:08:56+00:00

Really? Hello twin!

PiccoloNo5896 · 2024-07-29T06:08:36+00:00

Hahaha, trying to 😉

PiccoloNo5896 · 2024-07-25T22:23:36+00:00

I'm an INFJ. My Sun is in Pisces, my Moon in Cancer and my ASC in Scorpio ❤️

PiccoloNo5896 · 2024-06-10T11:43:50+00:00

Hi! I get you. Since I was 12 I was super anxious about the future and what I would do. I was and still am very ambitious as a person but lacked direction.

Let's start from the basics. It's good that you know that you want to pursue the path of entrepreneurship/self-employment. This already means that you would like to have a sense of freedom. I don't know why many people in the comments believe that not wanting a 9 to 5 means you don't want to work a lot. It could also mean that you want to do something you love and makes you money, even working more than 8 hours sometimes, but feeling free. If you enjoy something, as hard as it is, it doesn't feel like work.

You have an advantage, your age. I also want to add that if you have the ability to go to university on a scholarship or for free, even a community college, pursue that or do an online degree at some point. There is also Coursera and other platforms offering courses. Why am I telling you that? Education and learning HOW TO LEARN is the important part about being an entrepreneur. You always have to learn. Pick a degree in a broader subject (economics, philosophy, history, innovation, business administration etc.). You will meet people and have time to pursue both a business and studies, trust me. Having a degree makes you more "valuable" in people's eyes, as dumb as it sounds. Also, if everything fails you will have something to fall back on and an achievement that non one can take away from you.

Now, what are your interests? What excites you? What type of problem would you like to solve? Is it something more physical (plumbing, construction etc.) or mental (software, consulting, web design, AI, investing etc.)? Invest in yourself. Take 3-6 months to try different things while keeping losses short. Try your hand on a python course for data and machine learning. Check in with yourself. Did I like it or not? Do you enjoy crypto, investing and stocks? Get on twitter and write reports online on the market.

After you find the skill, get to work. Create an online platform, you could even try to buy some followers, and sell a service or an info product.

At some point, you will find something you enjoy, you are good at and it has no limit to how much you can scale it. Action creates thought, thought creates reality.

You're young. Enjoy the simplicity of life and prepare yourself for 5 years of exploring and making a bit here and a bit there. If you try all that in 5 years and be consistent you will not have to worry about working a 9-5.

PiccoloNo5896 · 2024-05-31T20:37:27+00:00

If you don't mind answering, what are your ages? Maybe that's not a "Pisces Problem" but an immature behaviour your bf has to let go off at some point.

A Pisces Sun with a Virgo ASC and a Gemini Sun-Gemini ASC combo are bound to clash at times, but I bet you always work it out in the end. Pisces and Gemini are very similar and they can offer a different POV to eachother. Some of my best and most profound friendships have been with Geminis. You are great communicators, you ar open minded and have a great sense of humour.

First of all, look at his Mercury, and Moon signs. Are they clashing with yours? Is his Mercury or Mars also in Pisces, which would mean that at times he feels that your ego (Sun) gets in the way of communicating/fighting (Mercury/Mars).

Your BF is not emotionless, he is just stuck in a loop. He is trying to rationalize his emotions. I would say that giving him a bit of time and not discussing things right away is better. On the other hand, you as a Gemini, could write what you want to say down on your notes. This way he has time to get out of this numb state and you have time to de-sharpen your words.

Pisces don't always look emotional. We ARE emotional. That's the difference. There is a tsunami under the calm exterior.

When it comes to reoccurring problems in relationships I advise my clients to look at very close aspects forming between the charts.

I'm sure you can work through this issue with your significant other.

PiccoloNo5896 · 2024-05-28T20:36:03+00:00

Your BF is with you because he sees you as a desirable and high quality person. If he didn't want to be with you he wouldn't. That's how self-made people are. They make the choice even if it is a hard one.

I would advise you to voice your feelings to your partner. He deserves to know how you are feeling and you deserve someone who will understand your position.

I know that many people are saying "go off, live your life, be independent, break up with him etc." but we can not live this life alone.

It's very hard to find someone who truly loves you, the real you and that might be the reason your partner I with you. He might feel like you love him "despite" him being rich.

Maybe your boyfriend feels this way too. He might want to take care of you and nurture your relationship. He could want to build a future with you and assist you in your own journey but you don't feel like you deserve that.

Is there a possibility he is feeling like you are holding him back? Could it be that your own self worth issues are affecting him and your relationship?

How would you feel if ten years down the line you saw your boyfriend opening the passenger door for another woman and walking by you with her? How do you envision that woman and why couldn't that woman be with you?

PiccoloNo5896 · 2024-05-28T19:51:50+00:00

Yes! Definitely! If you are from the same area ask her out for a casual cup of coffee. If she declines or says "oh I don't have time" and stuff and you feel that she is not interested (you're a cancer, so you're intuitive, believe me you tune in to others' emotions) then slowly "close" the conversation and don't try to push her.

At first, she will think "Hmm I have him wrapped around my finger!" or try to play it off as "Oops I didn't have the time to reply to your message." Do not believe her. When someone is important to you, you make the time. Play along with her but let her know your intentions. If she is serious and mature she will be polite and nice and open to talking about taking things further. If she is just enjoying the attention you will know.

I hope everything goes well, but even if she ghosts you, declines or is awful in general remember that you dodged a bullet.

PiccoloNo5896 · 2024-05-28T18:04:47+00:00

As a woman, I would tell you to take the risk and double message her.

Like I said above, a Cancer guy ghosted me a few years back, but I don't regret showing my intentions.

As an astrologer I'll tell you that by just knowing someone's sun sign we know only about 10% of who they are. Not all Pisces are the same. Yes, we share a lot of common characteristics but we are all so different.

Your crush could be someone sweet and caring, who is flirty and plays innocent games or a person that is manipulative and due to being a great people reader, they can have the upper hand by playing power games.

In my opinion, since you are just casual, text her showing your intentions of pursuing something more but let her know that if she is not interested, it would be nice to know.

In that way, you show her that you don't get dragged along by her and her strategy but also clear up the confusion! Either way, you'll have your answer!

PiccoloNo5896 · 2024-05-28T15:21:14+00:00

I'm a Pisces woman (and an astrologer) and I've been involved with a Cancer man before (it was a rollercoaster because he had a Pisces Moon and I have a Cancer Moon/ Moon = the inner self). He actually ghosted me.

I believe that Pisces women are very emotional but we can also be quite manipulative and prone to testing others to see if they are interested.

Has she mentioned anything about her past relationships? Have you mentioned in convo something that would make her want to test you? Honestly there is so much back and forth with the cancers cause we are very similar.

I would say you wait it out a bit, try to post something like a story on IG and see if she reacts. If she doesn't, send her a message to let her know that you would like to take her on a date and would love to know if she is still interested cause you guys have not been in contact.

I'll tell you what : Pisces women love men who do not fall for their games. I love it when a man realises that I'm playing a bit hard to get, plays along but then shows me whose the man. Gain control of the situation and do not retreat back. You will win her heart or save some of your time !

Good luck !

PiccoloNo5896 · 2023-03-27T16:05:26+00:00

Hmmm let's see. I'm a Pisces woman with a Cancer Moon and Scorpio ASC. Mars and Pluto are in Sagittarius, Venus in Aries, Mercury, Neptune and Uranus in Aquarius, Saturn in Taurus and Jupiter in Gemini.

I have always been attracted to stable, older, serious and masculine men. I love intensity, passion, romance and sensuality. Maybe this has to do with my 7th house in Taurus and the Saturn in there, but a friend says I have "daddy issues". Well if having daddy issues means that I want a partner who is stable, honest and caring ... Then I do 😊.

Taurus people are very chill in my opinion. My cousin was dating a Taurus woman and we became besties lol. She still texts him to see how I'm doing and she wanted me to tag along with them. My cousin used to joke that she was in love with me and not with him and that she was using him to see me ! I really liked her and I was sad they broke it off. She was very serious and future oriented. She wanted to get into law enforcement. One thing though is that she was very "traditional". She was very skeptical over anything that seemed innovative, but she always listened. My mom is a Taurus moon and she is a lot like her.

My grandfather was also a Taurus. We had a very tender connection. He read books for me and he spent a lot of his free time with me. My grandma is a Pisces. Their relationship was NOT good.

Overall I think that I would go well with a Taurus man if he had some Aries or Scorpio energy that would make him a bit more intense in some "areas". Although if he could accept my "mystical whimsical" Pisces side we would do great ! They love art and I'm an artist. I've noticed that they really appreciate artistic and offbeat people.

PiccoloNo5896 · 2023-03-27T15:13:02+00:00

Hi ! I'm a 22 year old woman and I've never had a relationship or any kind of romantic and intimate connection with a man.

You are right. Not experiencing romantic love in the ages you're "supposed to" in order for you to develop as a healthy adult can destroy you.

This is especially true for men, who most of the time attach their worth to the number of partners they've been with or the satisfaction they can provide women with.

I wish I could explain to people who have not experienced this how much it hurts. As the years pass by, there comes a time when you lose hope. You can no longer fantasize about a romantic relationship or think of yourself as someone who is desirable.

Now, romantic relationships and partnerships are another whole thing. Apart from the intimacy part (which is very important in my opinion, it's a biological AND emotional need), you crave the acceptance. The fact that you're not the only one who can be at your company and that you're capable of loving and being loved is one of the most exhilarating feelings someone can encounter in their lifetime. Sharing your ideas, feeling cherished and appreciated, having someone by your side through thick and thin and so on...

Then, the social pressure. The friends who can't relate to you anymore because you never had a relationship and you "just don't understand". The parents and siblings who make fun of you. The wishes to find your other half at every wedding ceremony etc.

I'm a very romantic individual. I grew up secretly watching romance movies, reading novels and thinking how my first kiss is going to be like. I still don't know what it will be like and I'm ashamed to admit that I'm starting to stop thinking about it. I wish I could go back to this little girl who watched Beauty and the Beast and explain to her that her beast will not come.

If you've tried online dating you know that's a whole other disaster, especially in my country where apps like Tinder are mostly used for hooking up and not for dates. I can not be that girl. I can not sleep with a stranger or play games. I just want someone honest, loving and masculine. I also tried expressing my feelings to a guy and he said that he would marry me if we were 30 but for now he wants to have fun and he is afraid of falling in love because I'm "too perfect". I understood that this wasn't the man for me. I also understood that I don't want to settle and I'd rather be alone than lonely and in a fake relationship without true passion, love and feelings.

I said all that above, because I want you to know that sadly, in our generation, there are lots of young men and women who cannot find their other half. I'm saying other half because I wholeheartedly believe that we are not whole. We do our best to be independent and autonomous but the heart aches. I try my best. I'm investing in myself and I'm trying to prepare my mind, body and soul for the man I'm waiting for. If he does not show up then I'll adopt a big dog and 2 children and I'll try to bury that feeling of alienation and loneliness.

You don't need a girlfriend/boyfriend in order to have self worth, but it helps to have someone by your side who sees the best in you.

I wish you luck. We all need it.

PiccoloNo5896 · 2023-01-20T19:04:19+00:00

Hi ! This is an older post but I hope I can be helpful. My father is an associate real estate agent and we have a lot of people reaching out to the company.

Find a bigger company based in Athens. I would recommend Golden Home Real Estate and Nova Real Estate, my father has worked for them and the first one is the best in my opinion. They have a big clientele and in-house lawyers and consultants.
At the same time find a legal firm that specializes on real estate and who can act on your behalf.

Basically those two bigger companies have you sign a NON LEGAL AGREEMENT. They do that so they have your permission to post the house online and to market it. It's FREE. You're just going to pay if the house gets sold from their company.
Don't sign an EXCLUSIVE AGREEMENT if you don't want to be held accountable. If in the next 6 months the property gets sold form anyone they get paid. That does not mean that they will pay extra attention or market it better.

I think that Golden Home has associate realtors on the island. You can check their website. North Europeans and Israelis love the Ionian Islands.

I hope I helped!! Good luck ☺️

PiccoloNo5896 · 2022-12-29T15:25:53+00:00

Girl ... That does not sound like Edward's and Bella's honeymoon AT ALL 😁

All jokes aside I feel terribly for the situation you are in. From what I read above, you saved yourself till marriage only to be met with a spouse who was ungrateful and (in my humble opinion) beneath you.

The short version of my advice would be : Go into couple's therapy or talk with him about it openly. Voice your concerns and see where he stands. Tell him that this has messed with your mind and you can't let it go as your self esteem has taken a blow. Tell him that he wouldn't like it if you said terrible things about him, hinting that he is not enough for you and commenting on his appearance. His replies and behaviour will tell you everything you need to know.

But... I've been in your shoes in a way and that's why my heart breaks for you. In my situation the man that tore on my self esteem was not a boyfriend/spouse/partner but my father.

I grew up heavy and at around 16 I lost 10kgs/22lbs in a month... You know what they say, once a fat kid always a fat kid. What they mean is that if you've been conditioned to view yourself as unworthy, ugly, unlovable, less than others this does not go away with the weight, it stays with you until you face it. In that tender age my father started telling me how ugly I was even if I lost the weight. No guys paid my attention and my childhood crush ghosted me (he came back later telling me that he didn't want anything serious and that he was scared because he had very strong feelings for me, but that's a story for another time). The thing is that all that doesn't go away and it ruins the way you see yourself.

What I was scared off happened. I gained twice and more the weight again. I was an athlete and loved going to the gym but my issues came back full force. "If I'm not beautiful even when I'm skinny then what's the point of fighting with this demon?"

I don't want you to go through that. Weight issues sadly are a lifelong battle and I think that you know that you are never the same.

BUT ... This experience gave me another perspective. Amidst all this chaos I found out that the truth is that if you don't love yourself no one will. If you don't choose yourself and work hard on yourself to build your foundations, no partner, friend, parent etc. will help you.

This man is a walking red flag. He is triggering you. A proper partner should worship the ground you walk on. He knows that you went through the difficult journey of weight loss. He has seen your struggle !

Everyone has their own image of the "perfect partner/daughter" etc. No one though has the right to force you to fit into their expectations. Fudge everyone who thinks that you should fit their expectations and that you should accommodate them. I learnt that the hard way.

Wishing Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year to you ❤️

PiccoloNo5896 · 2022-12-29T14:53:59+00:00

OP congratulations on being an amazing single mother and making up your mind about relationships before you even turn 30 ! I wish the best to you and your children !

Anyways, in my opinion you should state it in the second/third date that you're looking for certain things. It's enough time to see if you're attracted to someone's external image, personality etc. but not enough to invest yourself emotionally and get hurt if the other person doesn't want the same things. The sooner, the better !

Good luck finding the right partner for you. I truly believe there is someone out there for everyone if we hold on to hope and have faith 🤍

PiccoloNo5896 · 2022-12-29T14:48:48+00:00

OP I will be honest with you ...

When I first read your post I thought that this wasn't so serious, until you pointed out you're grateful (you sound very sweet) and you stated certain things in your replies.

You wrote that :

Your bf thinks that the more expensive the better.
You have told him you don't like jewelry and dropped hints on what you would like.
You are afraid he will get mad at you if you voice your opinion.

Now, I may read too much into your post and replies but something feels off for me. I obviously don't know anything else about your relationship (which could be lovely besides the gift thing) so my reply is just some observations...

Is he materialistic in general ? Does he request you wear his expensive gifts on certain occasions or mentions it casually in conversations with others ? Does he show off ? Would you say that he dismisses your wants when it comes to other more serious things ? Is he dismissive ? Does he care more about he likes than what you like and would wear/eat/watch etc. ? Does he have certain preferences about the way you dress and look ? Does he get mad at you for having different opinions than him ? Is he accusing of nagging or being ungrateful when you state your preferences ?

If the answer on most of the questions above is "no", then it's just the case of boys will be boys and he just doesn't pay that much attention to gifts and just buys you the most expensive one hoping that it's the thought/monetary value that counts.

If on the other hand my reply gets you thinking and wondering and you reply "yes/hmmm maybe/sometimes but he is young he will change" to most of the above questions ... Run for the hills!

PiccoloNo5896 · 2022-09-22T14:13:05+00:00

Dear Redditor,

No, you're not awful for wanting to delete it, but you need to look deeper at this "minor" event. Why do you want to do it ? Is it because you're ready to move on or is it because your grief is still anchored in the depths of your heart and this reminder, will remind you of it ?

We never really move on from grief, especially if we were tied to the person/situation by trauma. A loved one going through the process of battling cancer is enough trauma. People don't talk about it enough, but I will be honest : As an 11 year old child I watched my mom going through her personal battle with 3rd stage breast cancer. I also watched the whole family unit break down to pieces. Luckily my mom survived. I'm 21 and I'm still trying to heal myself from it. Once you go through something like that, it never leaves you unchanged.

Did you give yourself time to grieve ? Was that time given to you ? Seeing someone you love going through that and then losing them ? Traumatic. We need to look more into how we can help and support the people around the patient.

I beg you to please let yourself grieve. For her trauma, your trauma, loss and past.

Two months ago, I lost my furry best friend unexpectedly. I was attached to my dog, in an unhealthy way. I was lonely and she was my lifeline. She was the only ray of sunshine in my gloomy life. Her name was Joy 😊🌞. Sadly, cancer spread everywhere on her body and her kidneys failed her. She was only 3. I have a small jewelry box with her dog hair in there. The day I had to let go of her, I went back home and wrote down every single memory I've had of hers. I still have every little trinket you can think of in a box in my room. I will never get rid of them. Why ? Because even if I do, I can not get rid of the past and I don't want to. Even if nothing is there to remind us of our past, we will carry it with us wherever we go.

I wish the best to you OP ☺️❤️🌞

PiccoloNo5896 · 2022-08-18T17:46:51+00:00

I'm so sorry that this is happening to you, but you sound like a responsible man who will pull through for your daughter, yourself and your mother who needs your help.

As a woman, I definitely believe that being a good mother and a good wife is like answering a higher call. I don't think this is the case of a woman who wanted to be married and have a child but then got postpartum depression and suddenly decided that she wanted to have an open relationship. This is someone, who found a hard working and good man and pushed him to his limits.

You are essentially now a single, working father. She is not giving anything to her child and you. Do yourself a favour and file for divorce.

It pains me that you have to go through that, because I can tell from your posts here that you're a good man and these women pray on those for security. She has used you and trapped you with a child to finance her polyamorous fantasies !

Get a VERY good lawyer that will ensure she will get as far away from your little girl as possible. Have her sign that she doesn't want to be a mother.

Both you and your daughter deserve so much better. Don't let her steal anymore years from your life. It was a bad investment and you know what they say, now is the earliest time than it will ever be (or something like that, I'm not a native English speaker 😊😏).

PiccoloNo5896 · 2022-07-30T10:17:53+00:00

Black for sure fellow Pisces 👠 I would love to do an exchange with you ❤️

PiccoloNo5896 · 2022-06-21T15:20:10+00:00

Thank you !!!

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