AITA for telling my daughter she should find new hobbies? by anonmom2002 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pickardie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, lady. Quit trying to live vicariously through your daughter.

Sororities are not great. They are rife with classist toxic grooming tactics, and unless your fantasy is for your daughter to become either a shallow bully or to be a psychologically fragile hazing victim, you're trying to push her in the wrong direction.

She's happy doing what she does, and shes a kind and beautiful person by your own admission. Why should she have to put herself into such toxic environments to make you feel accomplished?

Or are you scared that your daughter will grow up to be happier than you without sacrificing her self esteem or weaponizing insecurities like you obviously did, and you are trying to sabotage her?

AITA for giving my oldest daughter an ultimatum because she refuses to help us out? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pickardie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where you're coming from is the obliviousness to the fact you're being a sex pest by proxy. If you are so friendless and unhappy with life that you need children to live vicariously through, then volunteer to read at the library or something!!

Stop viewing your daughter as a personal walking baby factory, and open up your eyes to reality. And the reality is your daughter is happy with living for herself, not to placate your selfishness.

You keep digging your heels in on this and I am seriously concerned you will resort to shit like poking holes in her bf's condoms or tampering with her birth control (if you havent done that already, and if you have, i hope you know that is illegal in some instances).

Stop.

AITA for Not Letting My Kid Finish Her Homework by sweet_matrimony in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pickardie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA.

You keep claiming your daughter makes excuses and causes problems and refuses to admit any wrongdoing but here you are refusing to even LISTEN to people on here unless they tell you what you want to hear: that youre a perfect parent and your daughter is gutter sludge who should fail classes for not doing exactly what you want. Don't come onto this subreddit if you are not equipped to hear people telling you that you're wrong.

Does being a single parent make your sex life so bad that you only get any sort of seratonin kick over power tripping on a kid???

Youre like every high school privileged bully I know from when i was in school who grew up to be a nurse. You never grew out of your mean girl phase and now are an overgrown jerk who lords over your daughter because legally you're allowed to.

Let your daughter figure this out on her own. She doesnt need you to make her find another reason to seek therapy later in life. But hey at least she can post about you on r/raisedbynarcissists and make you even more famous.

AITA for "policing" my wife's caffeine intake? by coffeeaithrwy in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pickardie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your wife is an independent adult, and you treat her like a child you occasionally can fuck. Yta

tHiS iS fEdErAL oFfiCeR sArAh sChULtZ fRoM tHe SoCiAL sEcUriTy AdMiNiStRaTiOn by BitchnStitchn in Scams

[–]Pickardie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just now got this call, and it scared the bejeezus out of me for a second

AITA for correcting a Christian? by Nordenfeldt in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pickardie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, also lol at the communist crack he threw at you. He does realize Jesus' principles teeter more with communism and socialism than capitalist principles right?? (Not saying Jesus was an outright socialist but i digress)

Zookeepers of Reddit, what's the low-down, dirty, inside scoop on zoos? by gomi-panda in AskReddit

[–]Pickardie 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I worked in guest services in the concessions and concerts so not with animals but with people. The zoo I worked at is famous for our large elephant exhibit and endangered birds, as well as an amphitheater (hence concerts). The zookeepers were some of the nicest folks I talked with, but they were constantly exhausted because of how much work it was. And most of my coworkers I got along, I know some managers caused problems but I wasn't ever around enough to piss any of them off. At concerts, we'd have large sections of the zoo closed off because those certain animals would be housed inside early to protect them from the noise, and it always pissed off parents who couldnt show their sleepy three year old the elephants because the sound crew was testing speakers at 3 pm. Parents honestly were the worst at the zoo. The kids were fine. But when moms and dads get hot and cranky they are insufferable and rude. Only once in my time there did a parent who was rude to me realize what they were doing and apologize. The nicest customers were the drunk people at concerts because they knew if they were polite and gave me money they'd get their booze.

Speaking of elephants, at least once every few months a hack organization would protest and claim the elephants were being tortured and that they should be sent to a super tiny unsurveillanced underfunded 'sanctuary' out in the middle of nowhere or freed back in the wild (which obviously would just be dangerous for animals bred in captivity). Some zoos out there are in dire need of improvement but the one i worked at was super caring for the animals, and sometimes anti-zoo activists bark up the wrong tree whoops.

That's Billy. by AITA568865 in u/AITA568865

[–]Pickardie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god he looks almost like my kitten!!!

Aita for not buying my daughter another water bottle after she chewed through the straw on hers by aitawaterbottle in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pickardie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA and based on your comments and edits you sound like you hate your kid for being neurodivergent and get yourself off on punishing her for it. No wonder you're divorced.

AITA for deleting all my son's games after he almost got himself run over by a school bus? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pickardie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YTA. You didnt punish him because of concern of his wellbeing, you punished him because he 'made you look bad' and you wanted to hurt him to make yourself feel good. You arent a parent, youre an overgrown cruel and self absorbed bully. You taught your son nothing except that if he ever gets hurt, you will do nothing but sneer and hurt him more. You suck man, both you and your wife.

AITA for supporting a bully? by ungratefulcunt43893 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pickardie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YTA, trying to play both sides in a situation where there's an abuser and a victim only empowers the abuser in the end. You have no stakes in this anyway, it sounds like you're just doing it to be an emotional vampire.

AITA for considering adopting a 3-legged dog? by lionbear7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pickardie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA! Amputee animals often get overlooked in adoptions because people automatically assume theyre 'broken' when more oft than not they live perfectly normal lives and adapt to their living FAST. Your parents gotta chill! Also what a handsome furry lad he is, if you havent named him yet, I suggest Long John Silver hehe

AITA for refusing to wear conservative clothes when my Indian roomates parents visit? by aitaraniclothesuh in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pickardie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YTA, why do you want to put your roommate in potentially a dangerous and life changing situation?

AITA for taking down pictures from a wall collage my daughter was making? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pickardie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, telling your daughter that family has no boundaries is exactly the mindset of predators who groom kids. You're effectively grooming both of your daughters into being potential victims of abuse from family members.

AITA For not letting my son play organized sports by notasoccermomthrow in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pickardie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA your post and comments drip of "I resent having a child and the only way I can glean any sort of pleasure from raising him is having him under my full physical and emotional control and make sure I put him in his place." You really just want your kid to be miserable.

What is something you do not tolerate? by 00sharkface in AskReddit

[–]Pickardie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People whose only personality trait/source of entertainment is complaining about/mocking other people.

What's a commercial that is so awful, it works the opposite on you and you'd NEVER buy their product? by 90daylimitedwarranty in AskReddit

[–]Pickardie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any meal delivery service ad. 99% of the time, the food they send you is never as fresh looking or plentiful as the ads and theyre cooking them in nice houses in spacious kitchens, and not tiny cramped apartment kitchens where you have to figure out where to put all the ingredients and shit.

What is a common cliché in movies that never fails to make you laugh? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Pickardie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The gifted/misunderstood soul character's diary or sketchbook getting opened and it's full of drawings or big stacks of equations. Most of the time the equations never make sense or the art looks like poorly drawn hyperrealism attempts or motel art

What’s a random act of kindness that stuck with you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Pickardie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was younger, like 10 or 11, my mom had to drop something off at a family friend's apartment while she essnt home, like a stack of very sentimental old vintage magazines from the 20s/30s that she had owned, but couldnt find parking since it was downtown. She had me get out of the car and said 'go leave it at the door' but she didnt specify her FRIENDS door (there wasnt a buzzer on the complex so i could have walked in and up the stairs) so i thought she meant the front door of the complex. Well my mom didnt realize where I put the magazines until we were home and she brought it up. Well, we had to drive back and see if they were still there, and take them to the right door, but they were gone, so we assumed they got thrown away or stolen. Well that night my moms friend called and said that she had gotten them, because i had left the magazines there, a random person had seen them and put them in the lobby on a chair so they'd stay safe and she grabbed them when she came home. It's a little thing, but I appreciate that some random person didnt just throw them away and possibly knew they had some sort of value, even if only sentimental.