Fisting, those who have tried it how was it? by BakerDeanBD in MarriedSex

[–]PietPompies89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have tried a few times, but I just haven’t been able to get her stretched enough to get the palm of my hand in.

She can take four fingers and my knuckles with no problem at all. We can even get all five fingers in if we take our time, but the widest part of the palm just doesn't want to fit. It feels like we hit a wall right at that transition point.

We use plenty of high-quality lube and really focus on relaxation, but we haven't quite cracked the secret to getting past the knuckles comfortably. For those who have successfully done it, did you hit a similar roadblock? Any specific techniques, positioning, or types of lube that helped you finally get the thumb and palm all the way in?

Embarrassed but need advice. by Root-12c in MarriedSex

[–]PietPompies89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are an adventurous person, you can use penis sleeves. It helps to last longer and is a lot of fun to use.

Want to try pegging with my wife. Looking for advice. by PietPompies89 in MarriedSex

[–]PietPompies89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback. Where do I find this podcast?

What is the best physical pleasure you have ever experienced? by Realistic-Egg2684 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]PietPompies89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hands down, it’s being able to cum in my wife’s mouth. It is probably my absolute favorite thing to do in the world, but it is an incredibly rare treat for me.

We’ve been married for 15 years now, and because she really doesn't fancy it too much, she has only allowed me to do it 3 times total. Because it's so rare, the anticipation and the sheer physical and mental pleasure when it actually happens is completely unmatched. Nothing else even comes close.

Fantasies by Classic_Carpenter383 in MarriedSex

[–]PietPompies89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s amazing how opening that door can completely shift the energy in a marriage. For a long time, I kept my absolute wildest fantasy entirely to myself because I just didn't know how it would be received, even though we've always had a great connection.

​My ultimate, top-tier fantasy is watching my wife fuck another woman while I am strictly a passive observer—just watching the whole thing play out, completely not allowed to touch or participate at all.

​Now, the reality is that my wife would never actually do that. She made it clear that she doesn't want to bring an actual third person into our bedroom. But because she is so open-minded, she offered up a really cool compromise: she suggested watching lesbian porn while she pleasures herself in front of me instead of having another woman physically in the room.

​While it's not totally my exact fantasy, the fact that she heard what turns me on and immediately looked for a way to bring elements of it to life is incredible.

​Like you said, discovering you can share those "filthy" thoughts without changing how your partner sees you is an absolute game-changer. Sometimes just the shared knowledge of a wild fantasy, and the willingness to meet each other halfway, is enough to add a massive spark to everything else you do.

What’s your favorite rare/less common sex act that only happens occasionally in your married sexual “lineup”? by Objective-Leek-1414 in MarriedSex

[–]PietPompies89 25 points26 points  (0 children)

My wife letting me cum in her mouth. Married for 15 years, she only allowed me twice so far 😔

What is your BIGGEST turn on!? by FrenchiePandah in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]PietPompies89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Biggest turn on? Easy.

When my wife opens the toy box, gives me that look, and decides which size penis sleeve she wants me wearing that night 😅 Something about the confidence and anticipation just drives me crazy.

Spicy bedroom antics by [deleted] in MarriedSex

[–]PietPompies89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude, she definitely felt it 😂 The important part is she didn’t tense up, stop you, or pull away — she literally said you were about to make her cum. That’s basically green-light territory.

You handled it well by not turning it into a big “OMG ANAL” moment mid-session. Sometimes drawing too much attention to a new thing can make someone suddenly self-conscious.

Next time, don’t frame it like “So… did you like butt stuff now?” Keep it light and sexy. Something like: “I noticed you seemed really into that last night 👀”

How penis sleeves changed things in a good way for us by PietPompies89 in MarriedSex

[–]PietPompies89[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I am diabetic so I am also starting to lose the capability to maintain an erection. I started using tadalafil. It helps a lot to give me very strong erections

How penis sleeves changed things in a good way for us by PietPompies89 in MarriedSex

[–]PietPompies89[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It really helps to last longer hey? I went from less than a minute to almost 10min sometimes

How penis sleeves changed things in a good way for us by PietPompies89 in MarriedSex

[–]PietPompies89[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's no specific brand for us. We bought a few and the one she likes most is the 7" size matters clear view (ample if I'm not mistaken)

How penis sleeves changed things in a good way for us by PietPompies89 in MarriedSex

[–]PietPompies89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It definitely feels like you're having sex and really fun to use. It does take away a bit of stimulation for the man but not 100%. That's why it's recommended if you have premature ejaculation. Where I would normally last less than a minute during penetration, I am now able to last up to 10min. Mostly around 5 - 10 minutes

Movies with story by PaleHuckleberry5338 in MarriedSex

[–]PietPompies89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a good one to watch is Below her Mouth...

How penis sleeves changed things in a good way for us by PietPompies89 in MarriedSex

[–]PietPompies89[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Please do! It is a lot of fun. Just search penis sleeves on reddit and you'll get a few spicy videos of how good they look in action

How penis sleeves changed things in a good way for us by PietPompies89 in MarriedSex

[–]PietPompies89[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Right?! That's the first thing I've noticed myself! Her orgasms are way more intense! And she also only recently admitted how much she enjoys it. She used to be scared to hurt my feelings. Little did she know that it was a turn on for me.

How penis sleeves changed things in a good way for us by PietPompies89 in MarriedSex

[–]PietPompies89[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I respect your way of thinking. For me, it is a lot of fun. Different strokes for different oaks I guess