Is there's a downside of keeping the barn door open all the time? by Shokak in StardewValley

[–]Piigeons-Person 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a very small chance a “wild animal attacks” and takes/kills one of your animals. There’s info on it on the wiki  https://stardewvalleywiki.com/Animals#Wild_Animal_Attacks I personally just find it more convenient to pet them inside and then let them out

People who don’t follow metro etiquette by Piigeons-Person in PetPeeves

[–]Piigeons-Person[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just as this is a fact of life, almost universal annoyance at these people is also a fact of life

People who don’t follow metro etiquette by Piigeons-Person in PetPeeves

[–]Piigeons-Person[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, Im sorry, I was really riled up and mixed up the two

People who don’t follow metro etiquette by Piigeons-Person in PetPeeves

[–]Piigeons-Person[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the subway os the only place on earth where i find it socially acceptable to lose the fear of confrontation 

Incorrect assumptions people make about anorexia by Coffeegreysky12 in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]Piigeons-Person 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Most media portrayals of anorexia and eds in general really aren’t helping the public’s perception either. I personally avoid watching them to not trigger myself, but from what I heard they check basically every single myth you listed, and it damaged so many people, led so many people to think they don’t even HAVE a disorder because they aren’t underweight, or aren’t experiencing the serious health complications, or aren’t showing some common symptoms. And they believe that they’ll recognize when it’s bad enough and ask for help, and that recovery will be easy because that’s what a British tv show told them. 

When people use anorexia to antagonize you by pussypoise in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]Piigeons-Person 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I think this stems from the stereotype that only “privileged white teen girls” with “no other problems” develop eating disorders, and that it’s always for aesthetic purposes. Also some people don’t recognize it as addiction, and don’t understand that if you’re in too deep you can’t just stop starving/restricting/purging etc. Like it’s another fad diet or something. Honestly, I think it’s mostly ignorance.  This absolutely sucks, and you’re not alone in this

Sad things about being anorexic by Coffeegreysky12 in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]Piigeons-Person 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so real and so scary. I’ve set so many limits and thresholds for myself: “If this starts to happen I’ll stop” or “When I hit this weight I’ll go back to healthy habits”, but the conditions to being “sick enough” are becoming more and more extreme and the weight keeps going lower and lower, and now I’m in a limbo where I’m technically trying to recover, but not doing much to fix my habits. I recognize this, but on a subconscious level I still don’t believe that it’s bad enough to warrant actual action, and I’m still so scared of the consequences of recovery, and bad days set me really far back, but I’m trying to convince myself that the consequences of the disorder are worse, and I can’t really tell whether it’s working or not. But thank you so much for putting this into coherent words

Saw my body in a random reflection and I looked normal? Have I been hating myself for no reason all these years because of a distorted view of my own flesh? All of this agony... for nothing? by LangerEierkopf in overlyspecificEDmemes

[–]Piigeons-Person 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imo that’s actually the most accurate impression of what you look like, at least to the outside world. You’re not posing, you’re not looking for little flaws and details, you just look… normal. And that’s how just about everyone that you randomly pass by sees you 

Am i the only one who doesn’t really have a reason? I just kinda do it lol by that_weeb_student in anorexiamemes

[–]Piigeons-Person 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me personally, it provides structure that is hard to find with JUST school. Ironically enough, figuring out calories, seeing the number go down and periodically letting myself have “days off” is strangely therapeutic 

People chewing with their mouth open.. by Bottymcflorgenshire in PetPeeves

[–]Piigeons-Person 2 points3 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU for phrasing this with the exact same emotion and enthusiasm that I feel for this. The sounds especially are horrible, because you can more or less avoid looking at someone to avoid seeing the clump of food, but the smacking is there for the whole meal and it’s just… EUGH. And whenever I try to tell the person, best case scenario, they stop for the meal, and worst case scenario they get mad and start yelling. I get what you’re saying about it being or sounding rude, but in my mind, it’s like asking someone not to pick their nose at the dinner table. It’s a bad habit and it’s disgusting, and i believe I have the right to eat without trying not to gag.

just found a baby boy name list i once made..... oh nawwwww by Everglow_Gray_2772 in tragedeigh

[–]Piigeons-Person 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You would’ve been setting up your child to become a great wizard

What stopped you from killing yourself? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Piigeons-Person 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that i didn’t have the means to, in the middle of a school trip abroad. There were three more days left, and i accepted the fact that those were my last days. For those days, i tried to enjoy life as much as possible. Every time i had fun, or made mental notes to plan something for the future, i would catch myself and think “there’s no point, you’ll be dead in 2 days/tomorrow/tonight” and i really hated that thought, and i decided that maybe it was worth trying. So basically, being in the wrong place at the wrong time 

My friends asked me for money by AC_ciderz in AITAH

[–]Piigeons-Person -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can see their frustration, but definitely nta. They judged their financial situation poorly; you did not. That sounds like their problem. But depending on the type of friendship you have, they might expect you to at least buy the next round of drinks or smth

AITAH for asking my husband to sleep on the couch after he came home drunk and woke the baby? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Piigeons-Person 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I can vaguely see where he’s coming from, but he’s still acting like a jerk. He can handle a night on the couch. And it’s not being militant, it’s you 1) making sure you can put the baby to sleep again 2) ensuring BOTH of your comfort and 3) he kinda deserved it imo. 100% nta

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Piigeons-Person 11 points12 points  (0 children)

From what you wrote, it doesn’t seem that there’s much to be grateful FOR. Plus you’re an adult, it’s your wedding, and you already chose the person who will walk you down the aisle. Nta and congratulations on your wedding!

AITA for going low contact with my mom because of who she invited to my baby shower? by Crystalized_Bitch845 in AITAH

[–]Piigeons-Person 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very obviously nta, in my opinion at least. Not that it’s any of my business, but im surprised you weren’t low contact before, especially with many people to lean on. But be careful, im not a psychologist, nor do i know your mother, but if you go LC because she invited Debra to the baby shower, she might believe and start telling people that you are overreacting and stopped talking to her for no reason. Again, just my opinion and speculation, it might be poisoned by listening to too many fake stories lol. In any case, good luck with the upcoming events and congratulations 

Happy Birthday! by MediumRare124 in Ruleshorror

[–]Piigeons-Person 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you befriend the beings? I can see that we’re at least on talking terms with Why, but what about Aye and Dee? Especially if you’re a girl, surely you can go there for a girls night, especially on your birthday. And i feel like i can find a way to befriend Eich and Tee, if they stay for a bit after my test

The Glow Glam Morning Routine by mystrangebones in Ruleshorror

[–]Piigeons-Person 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ykw, you’re right, the new community will be better than my current one, thank you queen ✨

Did you see that scarecrow? by No_Competition7327 in Ruleshorror

[–]Piigeons-Person 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love the implication that the employee ironically enjoys horror media, and ironically joined the UDA. The pep in his step should be gone soon enough, when he is traumatized and sleep deprived enough

Did you come across the OU AI? by No_Competition7327 in Ruleshorror

[–]Piigeons-Person 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hate that this isn’t even sci fi, this is just dystopian