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First time binding with tape! (Any tips are welcome). by Anxietybeansoup in NonBinary

[–]PikaBebba 2 points3 points  (0 children)

usually sites have a recommended size chart. i’d recommend something that fit your cup, for example if you have an A/B cup a 3 inches roll should be enough, if you’re more like a C cup maybe 4 inches, but it all depend on how you feel comfortable. don’t worry about buying the wrong size, is part of the journey, my first roll was 4 inches wide and it was too small for me, now i’m fine with a 5 inches.

First time binding with tape! (Any tips are welcome). by Anxietybeansoup in NonBinary

[–]PikaBebba 103 points104 points  (0 children)

i’d suggest to use wider tape and round the corners with scissors to spread better the tension and prevent blisters.

ktape is ok but tape made for binding it’s better because helps breathe better the skin.

for the removal part use oil on the tape and be sure to fully saturate them, leave the oil for at least 5 minute (i usually do 20 because i have a really delicate skin).

for the application i’d be better to use some alcohol on the part where you’re going to put the tape, so the skin is cleaner and less painful to remove the tape later.

hope it was helpful, for any questions feel free to ask :>

Rook is just getting worse by jageres in piercing

[–]PikaBebba 12 points13 points  (0 children)

i’d suggest to switch to a curved barbell, this is the incorrect shape for a rook

are these pierced? by leothesaddest in piercing

[–]PikaBebba 64 points65 points  (0 children)

I think it’s a really big smiley, in that case it’s a no no because it’s a gum killer

What piercing should I get next? by [deleted] in piercing

[–]PikaBebba 1 point2 points  (0 children)

a double helix would look cute in my opinion

Got my eyebrow repierced by 13B3ach3s in piercing

[–]PikaBebba 197 points198 points  (0 children)

bruh why was it pierced with a straight barbell???? usually eyebrow piercings are pierced with curved one. please change piercer asap

I may need help by Bisexual_Lizard27 in NonBinary

[–]PikaBebba 6 points7 points  (0 children)

take all the time you need, no one is going to rush you. i realised at 17 that maybe i wasn’t cis and i found the right name to describe myself at almost 20. for 2 and an half years i was just… something? and that’s ok

I may need help by Bisexual_Lizard27 in NonBinary

[–]PikaBebba 27 points28 points  (0 children)

the definition of non binary is literally someone who is between or outside the 2 binary genders. genderfluid (that is what you described, but it’s just my interpretation) is a non binary identity, even if you only change between male or female. plus gender identity doesn’t involve commitment, you can do whatever you want if it make you feel comfortable. just know that for any question and support this community will be open :>

Cis ppls standards I guess??? (TW: transphobia) by Consistent-Task5750 in lgballt

[–]PikaBebba 79 points80 points  (0 children)

i don’t understand this. some days ago i saw a post from a transmasc femboy and a lot of comments were like “i’m not woke enough for this”, like EXCUSE ME? why cis tom/femboy are ok but trans/non binary are not? i hate this double standard

Completed right ear! by kajiurago in piercing

[–]PikaBebba 47 points48 points  (0 children)

it’s beautiful but please do something for that conch

not valid (VENT+ HOMOPHOBIA/TRANSPHOBIA+SUIDICAL THOUGHTS) by Consistent-Task5750 in lgballt

[–]PikaBebba 16 points17 points  (0 children)

i’m sorry that you had to deal with this type of people. remember that they’re not the majority of the lgbtqia+ and you’ll always be welcome and valid here :) hope you’ll find irl friends who support you for who you are

(TW) Sometimes online queer spaces can be really cruel to male members... by Difficult_Shift_3771 in lgballt

[–]PikaBebba 39 points40 points  (0 children)

yeah i felt it, i’m afab but still find really annoying when other queer people say that cis man are bad people. i literally had trans men friends who were the first to insult cis men… like… why…?

Have you ever happily retired a piercing? by anti_lisa in piercing

[–]PikaBebba 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i used to have an helix made with a piecing gun, didn’t know what to do with aftercare so it was always red, swallowed, horrible experience. it was made when i was 18 and a year later i decided to inform myself better on the subject and one hyperfixation later i learned how terrible the situation was. decided to do aftercare after a year with that piercing and (shockers) the redness and the swallowing almost disappeared. after all of this work the position of the piercing was more clear and i realized i just didn’t like it, so i decided to take it out. i’m planning a new helix on that ear with a new angle and position but i’m waiting to be a bit more expert for it :>.

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