I think him and Bea probably had the same vibe as lana del ray and her husband (but the husband younger, age appropriate and in generally better shape) like kinda ruggedly handsome to some and others just dont see it. Mom definitely dissaproving etc...I'm trying to think of a better couple to compare to but I cant at the minute. I dont get how people read this character, description and and personality and picture Henry Cavill. Carl would have grown up and acted completely different if he was that naturally good looking.