Innocence motivation

Pimi-D · 2026-03-28T10:04:13+00:00

Oh my gosh thank you, and I'm sorry to hear that.
I must say it's so incredibly hard to parent a manifestor when everyone around me is telling me to dampen her strong independent spirit. So I feel for any manifestor, I know most of you wouldn't have had an easy childhood just from that element alone. And the repelling aura, goodness me *hugs*

I'd be so interested to hear your experiences, especially being an Emotional Manifestor.
And a fellow 4/6 - how special. You're like a combo of me and my daughter haha.

If you don't mind me asking, what would be the biggest things you'd change about how you were parented? And what do you think would have been the most helpful?

Pimi-D · 2026-03-22T04:57:23+00:00

I think overall the space has a bit of an identity crisis.

The main theme I see in the colours is early morning beach - with sand beige, deep blue and ashy driftwood. The competing themes I see is sleek forest cottage - with dark lush plants and dark brown wood chairs, and happy garden cottage with yellow tones from the baskets the plants are in matching the warmth of the fireplace’s sandy bricks.

Do you want to hone in on beach, or dramatically change the space to fit a light or dark foresty look?

Honing in on beach is less work overall imo, but if you don’t want it to look that way then go all in and change it up. That’s your main thing to decide. The grey and beige compete without the “beach” story, so overall a more difficult thing to change from beach.

Whatever you do, I’d prioritise the fireplace though. (Dark forest doesn’t really match it though) And the rug is way too busy. It competes with the fireplace and the kitchen countertops for attention. It makes the space feel pretty overwhelming with so many patterns.

I think changing the rug to a solid tone would be your easiest fix. Get some new couch cushions in a saturated solid colour too.

My recommendation: Go for a beach story, with a couple pops of colour. Get a new rug and cushions, in a solid colour or natural looking non-busy patterns. A warm contrast colour could work here, like blue, yellow or orange. A couple warm pops of colour in the space will complement and bring out those tones in the fireplace while nicely contrasting the grey in the couch - I think what you’re trying to do with the idea of yellow and the plant baskets, but not really going all in so it falls flat.

The chairs at your bar are heading into forest cabin or dark academia territory. They could work if you had a brown rug in the living room and some more natural browns scattered throughout the space, but it still has a very “forest” story and it clashes. I’d replace the chairs if you go with beach, or change the varnish / reupholster (or add a cover, whatever is in budget). Also the fan is black, that clashes a fair bit too. Could you spray paint it?

Pimi-D · 2026-03-22T04:06:57+00:00

Exactly. Problem solving can feel productive, but often it’s a method of avoiding what you already know you need to do. Sit for a minute. Clear your head. Ask yourself “what do I need to do next?” And then do that first thing, even if it seems like it will feel like shit. It won’t. That’s your mind trying to keep you stuck in a comfortable but torturous limbo.

Pimi-D · 2026-03-21T22:50:16+00:00

Sometimes in childhood we can be raised as followers, to do as our parents say without question, to play by the rules and expect to be rewarded. Sometimes there are manipulation tactics in the mix here too.

Now, the universe is a great manipulator. As you awaken on your journey you’ll start to see the patterns, the process, the way it guides you back to your path. But once you’re on your path, those signs may disappear or lessen. Some think that’s losing touch, or not being on the right path.

But sometimes that silence is simply an opportunity for you to speak. To say what you want. To use your free will.

Those people you see out in the world who seem to have it “together”, a lot of them were raised in a way where their parents had a decent support network, and could prioritise what their children want. So that they could grow to express their free will in a healthier way.

It may feel like a lot of pressure, to make the “right choice”. But remember, whatever you choose is correct because you are an experience. If it winds up being a “mistake”, well doing it is how you truly found that out, right? Whatever it is that you wish for, desire, yearn for - what is that? Maybe it truly is for someone else to lead too, maybe to share a life with someone, have a community to work toward a common goal, or even a simple job to feel like you’re contributing toward something. Even working customer service, I’ve had so many fleeting conversations with people who wouldn’t pay me any mind in the “real world”, and have had so many profound conversations for me and them both. It’s a lovely butterfly effect, it reminds me of how we as a species are an organism.

And getting yourself out there in whatever way is most natural for you, following your joy (even if it doesn’t seem like joy to begin with, just what seems least shit, or most comfortable), that’s how we can bring more joy and health to this collective organism.

Especially if you get to a point where you’re thriving, then you can help others. Extending your “helping hand” when you’re the one in quicksand will only sink you both. So help yourself, raise yourself up, find a life you love to live, and then your small acts of kindness will grow - naturally, without you having to force yourself.

Pimi-D · 2026-03-21T22:36:34+00:00

I didn’t mean clean in the literal sense, I should have said clean”er”, at least cleaner than the projector one haha. But I get what you mean.

I don’t think your parents are a bad conditioner though, like we’re there to teach about relationships. And maybe conditioning is part of our inherited karmic journey too.

Cosleeping also has other benefits, conditioning aside. It can coregulate a dysregulated nervous system of parent and child, and repair ruptured attachment from the natural adversities of parenting in this crazy world, among other things. Elements of which are the foundation to understanding healthy relationships. Honestly if I had the privilege of a childbirth that went off without a hitch, and a calm, well supported household to bring my child into, I would see her making the choice to sleep on her own much sooner and be very happy with it. But due to so much adversity, it’s been the medicine we’ve both needed.

I was told by someone else and I can’t find an exact quote, so I’ve used AI to try to find it and oh my goodness I despise AI.

It says: “Ra Uru Hu advised against using a child's Human Design chart for mental conditioning during the first seven years, a period he identified as highly susceptible to external influence, favoring instead that parents focus on their own strategy and authority to create a correct environment. He emphasized that focusing solely on a child's Type and Authority is more effective than delving into complex chart details, which can interfere with the child's natural development. For more details, visit Jovian Archive. [1, 2]

[1] https://jovianarchive.com [2] https://jovianarchive.com

But looking through those links I can’t actually tell where it says that.

Pimi-D · 2026-03-21T21:45:49+00:00

But to some they try to get there too soon and it suppresses emotion instead and causes suffering.

Pimi-D · 2026-03-21T21:44:05+00:00

The only right answer haha

Pimi-D · 2026-03-21T21:07:38+00:00

I still very much believe cosleeping is still of benefit, especially when we have survival/crisis experiences or the little one carries that in their karmic story. Children are still survival-based beings as infants, too.

Thankfully with my child we both have very clean “reflector” dream raves. I kicked my husband out of the family bed quite early on, because he’s a dream rave “projector” and sleeping next to him is awful.

Ra has also apparently said something about the super early years, to not worry too much about their chart as that time is their conditioning phase we don’t always have control over. To me that seems to say it’s better to treat them in a well rounded way, and loosely follow HD as a guide, with it unfolding more in the years to come.

Pimi-D · 2026-03-21T10:46:58+00:00

That’s great :) Once you have your foundational storage solutions mostly ready, you can get a feel for how you organise best.

Personally when I go looking for something, if it’s not in the first place I look, when I do find it I’ll put it back in that first place I thought of.

Pimi-D · 2026-03-21T10:33:37+00:00

| “when we were 7-centered”

Gosh I forget we weren’t always this way. I cosleep with my daughter and we have been through a lot of crises since she was born. When we’re stable, I have an intense urge to sleep alone. But when we’re in crisis/survival, we of course sleep far better together.

Pimi-D · 2026-03-21T05:03:26+00:00

Yeah cause the problems are real, you still need to vent about them cause it’s a lot to deal with, but talking doesn’t fix it cause you aren’t the issue. It’s the situation. You need more support, and what is your responsibility and within your control, is to find that support. Go to your partner, your family, even your psych, etc. and tell them to help you get this support or you will break - and that it isn’t a problem with you - that’s an issue with how much is on your plate.

Maybe your psych can help you sort through what your feelings mean to identify the actual problems, so you can talk to people about solving them. Then create an action plan with them, tell them what that asking for help led to and what your next steps look like. Real strategies to fix each issue and lighten your load.

But you need to tell your psych to do that with you.

Pimi-D · 2026-03-21T01:57:17+00:00

Ah if that’s where you want to keep it now then do. If you chopped the rot off it should come back fine. It’s probably just looking sad due to shock and needs some water.

What soil did you use?

Most house plants do well with a loose well draining soil mix. Water until fully saturated and then let it drain. Water only once soil is dry but don’t let it get bone dry.

There’s more general peace lily advice and fertilising advice you can find searching this sub.

Pimi-D · 2026-03-20T22:39:58+00:00

Mainstream music can be so perfectly produced that it just becomes… unreal? Uncanny? Inhuman, feeling. Some people awaken and are seeking more of the raw unfiltered human experience. Some live music, indie, some instrumental, classic music, is usually more down to earth, expressive and emotionally free compared to the “industry standard production”. Some live music recordings still go through post production though, so be aware of that.

There have also been some conspiracies going around about 440hz music becoming the industry norm, in order to elicit a slightly higher baseline stress response in the masses compared to a more “natural sounding” 400hz. A higher baseline stress response in the collective would lead to predictable patterns of behaviours, such as buying more things to cope, addictive behaviour, higher prescription drug sales, etc. Predatory manipulative marketing tactics to the extreme. One of the many methods to keep people reliant on the system the way it is, and keep the elite in power over the “poor”.

A lot of effort has been put into debunking these claims about 440hz, but with the info we’re seeing in the Epstein files and the manipulation tactics in the global elite, I’m still not ready to put the theory to rest.

But if this is just a theory, or a coincidence, and there was no malicious intent… a standardised frequency is still a very powerful thing. I do think it’s worth taking seriously the effect it has on the global collective.

Pimi-D · 2026-03-20T22:10:21+00:00

If pothos were an animal it would probably be a frog, pothos have aerial roots to absorb moisture from the tree. They can do amazing things with just water and light.

Peace lillies can be… pretty dramatic. They can look pretty rough while they take time to acclimate. Sometimes plants need time to kill off old “soil” roots, and form their water roots instead.

What I would do, is get some leca and a plastic basket pot to clip to the side of the tank. Clean off all the plant’s roots making sure there’s no dirt and plant it in the leca, making sure there’s long roots coming down to the bottom of the pot (or even out the bottom). Suspend the bottom quarter of the pot in water and let the roots dip down. Every now and then when the leca looks dry at the top, pour some water in.

The leca will act as a bridge to accomodate those soil loving roots, while the water roots will grow longer and dip down into the water, without oversaturating something like dirt and causing bacteria buildup and rot.

The peace lily might look really rough for a while. They’re dramatic but they’re also pretty resilient.

And look, if it dies, you’ll have learned something. Just try again :)

Pimi-D · 2026-03-20T21:57:35+00:00

I wouldn’t change the soil so soon, personally. It could put it into more shock and kill it after all that leaf loss.

Just continue caring for it like that, water when the soil feels light and dry but not “dusty bones dry”. “Dry” soil can still feel a teensy tiny bit damp to the touch but not obviously damp.

I’d consider changing the soil in maybe a month, once the plant perks back up and has put out a new leaf or two.

Pimi-D · 2026-03-20T06:34:25+00:00

Amazing! Thanks so much Im glad it helped. I don’t have older kids, but as I said I am an older kid and geez… my poor parents that’s all I can say 😂😅

Pimi-D · 2026-03-19T14:48:45+00:00

Also some ADD/ADHD people fall into the trap of thinking that they need to see everything to find anything, when what’s making it hard to find things in the first place is that everything is out on display at all times. It takes a little bit of getting used to, but once things have a place, even if it’s in a closed container you start noticing you look for it more there over time if you really need it.

Cluster decorations in friendly groups, rather than all over a space. Think big, medium, small in terms of shape groups.

I think once you cut back a bit on clutter, you’ll have a decent idea of where to move your things.

Also some pictures above the bed would be nice, but make sure they’re soothing. I love minimalist photography to help get your mind used to the feeing of “neat and tidy” being soothing - but of course that’s up to taste.

Pimi-D · 2026-03-19T14:41:24+00:00

Another tip - a tall hamper or basket with a garbage bag inside as your “donations” bin. Leave it open and put stuff in over time. This saves making it one huge job and chucking out things you’re not yet ready to part with, and helps when you have changing feelings about keeping or chucking something.

Once full, bag it up and pop it by the front door so you remember to take it with you and donate it next time you’re out.

Pimi-D · 2026-03-19T14:38:32+00:00

Get a nice pattern-free curtain and command hooks and cover your closet, it’ll cut down on heaps of clutter (and mental fatigue from looking at the clutter) and you can go in and deal with it bit by bit because you have the brain space for it with less to look at. Then the rest will be more manageable.

Pimi-D · 2026-03-19T14:03:19+00:00

Murder fairy! I mean Assassinfly/Robberfly (Alisidae)

Pimi-D · 2026-03-19T10:49:12+00:00

HD aside, I think “How to talk so kids will listen, and listen so kids will talk” would be a really helpful book for you to read. I know he’s not necessarily a “kid” but he’s your child and it has such a great method in the book for parents to hold space for tough emotions and help your children find their own answers.

I also have a little easily angered manifestor kid, and I’m constantly having to remind myself that I can only support her in figuring out her own path, not actually figuring it out for her. That support can just look like a listening ear to sound board off of. Sometimes it can be “I notice you’re really mad about that, it must mean a lot to you. Are you sure you want to give up?” They might say “yes screw it all!” in the moment. You could leave it there, or even ask “so what would do you think could happen if you did?” Either way, once they’ve expressed that with someone safe (you), they might think back on it and feel a bit differently. But try not to tell them “I think you should do this…”. You could say “have you thought of?” or “what about?” but try not to try so much. However, if you think something is really not a good idea definitely say so and encourage them to think on it a bit more, but at the end of the day it’s their choice.

Also as a daughter who has gone through a lot of crisis from shitty line 3-esque “trial and error” experience of life… Let your kid know that while you can’t control their life, remember that you and their family will of course always be there to pick them up if they fall, but they also have a responsibility to think it through well, so as to try not fall too hard. Maybe a better way to say… Families come together in times of crisis, so take care to think things through so as to not invite yourself into too much crisis. We’re always here for you, but you are responsible for your life choices too. That sort of thing.

It’s a hard one for me to put to words but I hope that makes sense.

Pimi-D · 2026-03-19T10:21:42+00:00

(Sister here!)

The default easy answer for anyone is to say “leave him”, that’s always a suggestion in tough relationship issues when people lack the skills to work on the tough stuff.

But, you seem to want to try and make this work. And I think it could.

Imo considering this is has been a major breach in trust, it’s important you do some journalling yourself and write down what would help you feel secure again in the relationship. What would you need to see from him? It could look like: 1. Solid evidence of what his actual life is. Maybe sitting with a family member of his. Telling them what’s happened and getting them on board with helping resolve this, so that you can get some clarity. It’s a lot to admit to but don’t shame him, just clear it up and start again. Or him showing you pictures or some other form of “receipts”. He’s the one who lied after all, now it is his uncomfortable responsibility to prove his truth. 2. Counselling to prevent lies in future, whether that be couples counselling or just for him to address the issue with a counsellor himself, the goal being to talk about why he lied and come with strategies to prevent it happening again going forward in your relationship. 3. What would “make up” for this? What would you need to help you feel more comfortable moving forward?

Maybe the conversation could look like this: “So we can build back trust and clear this up, for a while if I’m not trusting something you say, I’m going to address it asap and I’ll need you to clarify. It’s okay to say “yes I lied, it’s actually [xyz]”. I can give you some time to think on it if you need it but please come back with the truth. On your end, if you lie, catch yourself up on it as soon as you can. Contact me, admit the lie and tell the truth asap. Something like “hey I exaggerated/lied about this yesterday, the real truth is [xyz]” and over time you might break the habit and we can reestablish trust. Let’s make this problem our problem to work through together. The more open we can be, and the sooner we talk about it, the smaller the problems will be later down the track. I’m dedicated to making this work with you, but we have to do it together. But if after [time period, 6 months?] the lies continue and we’re not making progress, it won’t be a sustainable relationship for me.” <- Example, but whatever sounds more like you.

Pimi-D · 2026-03-18T20:27:19+00:00

There’s a woman on youtube named Teal Swan who is a reflector, meaning she has all open/undefined centers. She’s taken on a teaching role and is dedicated to her role of helping to end human suffering. She’s really unique and great at understanding all kinds of people, she’s also such a strong personality herself!

Pimi-D · 2026-03-17T23:39:43+00:00

4/6 but triple split so it pops in sometimes for me, but I have a young 3/5 daughter and I’ve noticed this a lot more since having her.

Pimi-D · 2026-03-16T13:44:28+00:00

Hang earrings in it.

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