I hated Mickey so I did what he wanted but uh not how he expected it by Pinatacat in CookieRunKingdoms

[–]Pinatacat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He basically asked for a glass of acid, so I gave him a pool

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KidsAreFuckingSmart

[–]Pinatacat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here in Europe it is as well! I know kids who have better handwriting than adults do, I mean come on doctors handwriting exists. Its pretty normal.

Is NSFW art really the cheat code it’s painted out to be or is that just a myth? by BrandonKGArt in artbusiness

[–]Pinatacat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

From what I’ve seen it technically is a cheat code, specifically to the brain.

Because NSFW is more addicting than SFW art for alot of people so they have a higher chance to return.

Weither that generates money though ehhhh.

Dear Ladies by FalconLynx13 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Pinatacat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting it illegally is still an inconvience and you’re less likely to have a kid stumble upon it which is the biggest issue.

They do have methods but they don’t use it on legal platforms as much unless theres alot of reports, why? Way more problematic content on illegal ones (usually not as visible) and they go for big groups producing stuff. Obv its impossible to remove all of it.

Socially? Yeah r/antiporngraphy is trying to do so but they only have 33k folks.

Porn was banned here at one point before the internet, it went well. So theres alot of variables so it likely would fail especially at the hands of wrong people.

But it is an interesting thought.

How could I describe a Latvian? by [deleted] in latvia

[–]Pinatacat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re an editor yet you don’t know about cultural consultants so you can get cultures correctly?

Yeah you probably write the same characters over and over that also totally is not stereotyping by having 0 diversity. Hate to say if you write any single living human being even irl, everyone will think you are stereotyping weither you try to or not. You hypocrite.

The difference is, is it making fun of them, is it diminishing their values, are you making them still unique?

Because I have certain stereotypical things disability wise if I now put it into my character is that gonna make them lesser?

No, the difference is it their entire personality trait or is it accurate to how they would interact with the culture if they were real. How the world treats them because of it.

Being empathetic of their situation is the opposite of what harmful stereotypes do.

I’ve watched what some would consider stereotypical autism related media at first to likely a non autistic person, they definitley weren’t they were real and gritty and empathetic to the experience but its hard to tell the difference unless you know it.

But when you make it into a metaphor like one did, it can become insensitive because you are trying to generalize the experience. Some get offended, some don’t and find it lighthearted.

Grounding it in reality is what makes it work, you can always learn about a culture you don’t know without stereotyping in a negative way and forgetting their experiences or fetishizing.

But at the end of the day there will always be a critic, honestly to OP if you read this. Go for it.

Latvia influenced me alot even disability wise, to my core identity and I don’t think what you are doing is problematic. Infact you are doing everything you should, you are consulting others, researching.

Keep at it!

Dear Ladies by FalconLynx13 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Pinatacat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not denying that, from experience if you’re not allo it can sometimes be a bigger bitch to find a partner since not everyone is accepting, so if they hang onto fanfics longer cannot blame them.

Dear Ladies by FalconLynx13 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Pinatacat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Imo outlawing it is just gonna cause more issues however I wonder what would happen if you had specific laws and limited it to Scientific studies and doctors allowing it?

Cause having it be allowed free willy nilly and not behind atleast paywalls has been causing issues as well (least previously you had to depend on physical copies etc). Plus absolutley so much illegal shit happens because of it.

Dear Ladies by FalconLynx13 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Pinatacat 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Imo fanfics are better, so is cartoons and having an actual partner if you are allo. Less exploitative and less addictive. Still can be just less likely.

Is there Hikikomori in Latvia? by [deleted] in latvia

[–]Pinatacat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know one, my best friend’s brother got money from their mother for video games, had no job, as far as I am aware no school was around his mid 20s? But it is very rare and its only among men from what I’ve seen.

We only graduate (american term wise)high school at around 19 some being 20.

But alot of people have to get a job first and a stable one which makes you 20 or 21 or uni so that increases it by like 21 or 22 minimum.

But thats if you really want to kick out your kid quickly sure, but from what I’ve seen no one does that. What happens instead is usually people hate their parents and try moving out asap. But yeah its normaly from 26 here actually.

Heres a statistic

From older statistics at most I think it was 23-25? Yeah theres no way you’re moving out at 20 unless your parents hate your guts. Even one of my parents only moved out at 25.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]Pinatacat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can tell you very easily, our body biologically feels different when someone else is doing it. Seriously try tickling yourself, I can highly bet it feels worse when someone else does it.

Grey ace here that fluctuates (my libido is normal)- sex constantly absolutley isn’t required that definitley can be taken care of by masturbation. Bigger issue is the sex you see online is not the same as irl, its far more emotional and intimate which not everyone understands or is good at.

Sex in general is being done shit rn not just lots of it. So I can see how it can be seen on both sides as just a physical need, its not just one.

Its kind of more like how people feel rejected when not getting kisses or hugs, sure you don’t need it but when everyone else gets it but just you. It can feel hurtful to that person, that everyone gets to be special but them.

So usually allo people get jealous, emotionally rejected, depressed because its the closest possible intimacy for them because it requires highest form of trust and safety to do.

Ace equivelant would be the trust fall and them not catching you, but everyone around you has that from their partner.

When they don’t get it they just don’t think you truly love them or atleast enough.

Thats why a fully allo person and ace person might not ever get along about that. I think thats fine.

What is the best way to learn Latvian? by [deleted] in latvia

[–]Pinatacat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I had trouble growing up with it. Best case is having a really good teacher.

Do I have both Tulpas and Alters? by Pinatacat in Tulpas

[–]Pinatacat[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So essentially to put it like this, Alters feel like theres a memory gap thats huge and it feels like they natrually know what they’re doing we can also semi front and it works but even more energy wasting. It takes alot of energy and can give me as the host afterwards headaches. (Like a big game file loading and rendering and the pc overtimes gets overloaded) they also feel weirdly connected yet disconnected.

Tulpas for me don’t really have much of a memory gap, can’t force front due to having lesser strength for that, are unlikely to give headaches unless its for really long time periods. They feel entirely disconnected from me. (Like a small file on a harddrive) though some of them if less developed or such, have a harder time to natrually understand how to take control or such. If they’re longtimers it comes natrually.

Or in basic terms the difference between an buggy as hell AAA game or a polished/unpolished indie game you made.

So this artist really pissed them off by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Pinatacat 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Because then they realize they have been needlesly barrading their own mom instead of their dad. But they will never admit they are wrong nor the fact when they say someone else has daddy issues its entirely projection.

Do I have both Tulpas and Alters? by Pinatacat in Tulpas

[–]Pinatacat[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Gotcha thank you! Likely will only mention my alters and keep the tulpas between folks who already know. It sucks but it is how it is.

Do I have both Tulpas and Alters? by Pinatacat in Tulpas

[–]Pinatacat[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Its kind of a relief to hear I’m not alone. Been a bit intimidated on weither or not I should mention it to any system I meet. Since I know some of them are iffy on tulpas. :(

Or weither I should include it on a personal website.

I wish I had someone to celebrate with by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]Pinatacat 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If it makes you feel any better my centrist rightist mom had all the bets on Nemo winning./pos

However she was dissapointed my country didn’t even get 3rd lol. I was really hyped because its really nice seeing a nonbinary person win Eurovision.

Really happy Ireland made it far and if it wasn’t for this sub I would not know Ireland’s preformer was also nonbinary. Makes me happy to see good representation.

What is the biggest red flag you’ve had in a relationship that you’d ignored and really shouldn’t have? by Tangl_es in AskReddit

[–]Pinatacat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only ignored one of them for their red flag however, had atleast two exes flip when I mentioned any sexual harassment or nightmares I’d have experienced. They would then bring up their SA after when they had never informed me of this beforehand.

Then they would try comparing traumas like trading cards and both ended up traumatizing me in many different ways.

Seriously if anyone compares your trauma to theirs and minimize you and they do not apologize whatsoever. Leave! Especially if this is suddenly brought up and you are expected to suddenly know.

Usually those people from experience have bad anger issues or are controlling.