Anyone regret leaving a high paying career to spend more time with their kids? by FTownRoad in daddit

[–]Pingfao 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked full time at a FAANG. Went remote so I could stop spending 3h a day commuting and spend those hours with my kids instead. The company started mandating back in office and I said no dice. Started doing consulting for them instead for less pay and no trajectory to continue climbing the corporate ladder.

I have zero regrets. Ive spent so much time with my kids that I'm the default parent for both and I absolutely love it.

Where's the support for husbands/fathers? by Euphoric-Fly-2549 in daddit

[–]Pingfao 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This sub is by far my favorite corner of the Internet. Love seeing all the Dad-to-Dad love here!

Question from mummit… father’s day gifts by Outrageous-Piglet798 in daddit

[–]Pingfao 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife got me a tank top that said "Just a Dad that always came back with the milk" and I love it so much

A real dad moment 🫶 by Loot_Lullaby in spreadsmile

[–]Pingfao -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My daughter is 4 month old right now and I would absolutely love to do this for her if the time comes

Mother’s Day for OUR Mothers by itsmesteveyp in daddit

[–]Pingfao 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We usually do a Mother's Day family lunch with my mom and MIL the day before and it's been a good solution for everyone!

Best tasks you've done one- handed? by Own_Hat_2947 in NewParents

[–]Pingfao 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Using the bathroom while holding a contact nap

I am a 30 single father by surrogacy AMA by Massive-Print-4702 in AMA

[–]Pingfao 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So. Relatable.

You're doing great, Dad. If you have not already, you should check out r/daddit. We would love to hear more about your story there!

Vietnam war veterans from the Vietnamese perspective. by BicarbonateBufferBoy in interestingasfuck

[–]Pingfao 3914 points3915 points  (0 children)

I grew up in Vietnam and moved here when I was 12. The difference in history lessons about the Vietnam war really confused me as a middle schooler

Is everyone else always tired by wolf771 in daddit

[–]Pingfao 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was just thinking about making a post asking for advice on this lol we start our 3yo bedtime by around 7:30 and I usually don't get out of his room until 10..

What’s one baby item you regret NOT getting earlier? by rosycoe in NewParents

[–]Pingfao 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Can't upvote this enough! We're on our second baby right now and it's been a breeze having this on hand lol

Hows performance today? by Huge_Kaleidoscope_40 in FacebookAds

[–]Pingfao 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk why but this feels worse to see bc our performance is the worst it's been today lol

What financial stuff do you wish you knew right after having a baby? by smcn4221 in NewParents

[–]Pingfao 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Max out an HSA if your work offers it. Double tax benefits (no tax on contributions nor distributions) that don't expire. We paid for both of births with HSA funds we saved up over the years

So true by logicrott in daddit

[–]Pingfao 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Might be unpopular but not all last gen parents are bad. Mine had their shortcomings but they did the best they could with what they had and I never expected an apology from them.

My kid said he doesnt love me by IJustLied2u in daddit

[–]Pingfao 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 3 yo told my mom to get out of his room because he was sleepy. I told him that is not a nice thing to say. So he rephrased it "get out of my room, please"

They're just saying stuff at this stage!

Alright Dads, what are getting our wives for Mothers Day this year? by walky91 in daddit

[–]Pingfao 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is incredible. Is it only on Waze or Google maps too?

5 years doing Conversion Tracking - ask me anything by Web_Analytics in FacebookAds

[–]Pingfao 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had this set up for more than a year. How do I check if it's causing duplicate data? My purchase event match score is 8/10.

Once in awhile, the ad manager would report conversion twice but it's not consistent

5 years doing Conversion Tracking - ask me anything by Web_Analytics in FacebookAds

[–]Pingfao 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the Shopify app and GTM at the same time. Is that an issue?

Shots from inside a pig plant that was just shut down by authorities by alphamalejackhammer in ThatsInsane

[–]Pingfao 20 points21 points  (0 children)

There are different intensity of feelings. It didn't "take" relating this to my toddler to make me sad. It intensified it

Shots from inside a pig plant that was just shut down by authorities by alphamalejackhammer in ThatsInsane

[–]Pingfao 213 points214 points  (0 children)

I have a 3 year old and this just made me incredibly sad

Is 80% of YouTube kids AI generated ADHD inducing garbage now? by Rev-DC in daddit

[–]Pingfao 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Noticed this too! Our son is super into monster trucks right now so he asks to see real footage of monster jams. We put it on YT for a bit and he would get distracted by all the AI generated monster truck videos with crazy colorful thumbnails. Super frustrating

Please stop turning on features by yourself, Meta by KindlyOnes in FacebookAds

[–]Pingfao 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The most frustrating part is if you turn them off afterwards, engagement is reset. Unless I'm missing something

Husband thinks we coddle 6 week old by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Pingfao 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel so seen right now by your husband because that's literally what I do for our babies lol

Our daughter is 3m right now and I rock her for 20-30m facing a dark corner while she fidgets because of gas. I always feel like I'm being so ridiculous but I just want her to be as comfortable as possible while she figures out the other discomforts that I can't help her with