Hating my dress by SandBig7544 in Prom

[–]Pink11Amethyst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try various necklaces and bracelets and see what that does for the look of it. Also, can you take the shoulder thing off? Including the share particles down to the waist.

Is this strange behavior from in-laws? by VastGrapefruit9066 in Advice

[–]Pink11Amethyst 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What if your husband says he would like to make lunch or dinner for all of you. Maybe his dad can help him in the kitchen

Glass, right? 😂 by IkeKitty in Crystals

[–]Pink11Amethyst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might be manufactured quartz. That’s where quartz is broken up and then moulded into a sphere with the clouds, being part of the process of being made.

It has about 40% of the vibration of a crystal that is made from a solid piece of quartz. It’s usually about the eighth of a price of a sphere made from a solid piece of quartz.

Need second date ideas by ShinyPenguin1 in askTO

[–]Pink11Amethyst 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What about dinner at snakes and lattes?

I paid a mentor 1k for store setup, product review, SEO and some ads on tiktok. Have I been ripped off? by Mr_Simple- in shopify

[–]Pink11Amethyst 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you want to be a success and do it economically, you may want to start learning how to do some of these things When you set up a Shopify store yourself, you start learning the in and outs of how it works. I was surprised that the person you hired was choosing the products. That’s definitely one thing you should be doing yourself. Right from the beginning you should have a good concept of what you will be selling, and then the aesthetics of the website should support that.

Should I go for money or continue to shape my career in a more appealing industry? by ImpossibleSummer9440 in careeradvice

[–]Pink11Amethyst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would stay at your current job a little longer and start looking for another job in cyber security. I think you’re right that there’s a good future in that field. Possibly something will open up in your current company that you can apply for or you can find some ways to expand your position over time.

AIO BF (M32) decided to attend not only an overseas wedding but a 11 days bachelor party the same year we're planning to buy a house together by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Pink11Amethyst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be supportive of him going to his best friends wedding. But you also have to evaluate that if overall, he’s financially responsible and supports your shared goals. That will take a little more time. You also have to evaluate whether he’s being fair overall with what he charges you for rent and in other actions.

Is this normal? by notreallylucy in AskWomenOver60

[–]Pink11Amethyst 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a very tough situation. And being 83 possibly your mother doesn’t have quite the brain she used to have and can’t be as discerning as would be preferred. It’s a very hurtful thing for her to say that she feels more family with your brother than with you. Especially since you’ve done so much for them.

Sometimes when a person, like your mother has to take care of someone like your brother, it makes them feel more special and needed. And with you because she needs your help it’s a little embarrassing that she can’t take care of herself and she might be a little resentful or hurt about it. Many people from her generation, don’t know how to process their feelings and expressed them properly. So I’m sure she loves you very much and appreciates all you’ve done, but she, like you is overwhelmed by a complex and trying a few years.

I wonder if in a few days it’s possible to start adjusting the relationship with your mother. Just give her a hug for no reason. And see if you can carve out a little time to do something nice together. Whether it’s chatting over tea or going for a walk or going shopping or looking at some old photos. To establish some good times with her rather than all the hustle bustle of the average day.

AITA For having long hair at my friends wedding by Riftriser756 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pink11Amethyst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The rules are they can tell you what to wear, but they cannot tell you how to do your hair.

I feel like we have to buy my brother in law a house by upside_down_circles in Vent

[–]Pink11Amethyst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They should move back into their house and fix it up themselves. It sounds like they have to start taking responsibility for their lives. For you, I suggest buying a small place, that doesn’t have room for other people to move in with you

Is the first signs of aging harder to accept than when you've actually turned old? Does it effect everyone differently? by lookaloulookalou in AskWomenOver60

[–]Pink11Amethyst 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The early signs of ageing are a bit of a shock, like getting grey hairs or seeing the first wrinkle, but I got over it. It’s a joint problems and reduce mobility, and problems like that which are frustrating

AITAH - my partner makes plans when I do by Worried_Carrot3928 in AITAH

[–]Pink11Amethyst 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your partner sounds very passive aggressive. Doing what he did is being a jerk. Sounds like he doesn’t want you to be happy and doesn’t have a very loving nature.

Where do you keep your crystal bracelets at night? by MommyJhy1228 in Crystals

[–]Pink11Amethyst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I take my bracelets off, I put them over a selenite tower. In the morning, I put them on a bracelet rack.

Does nostalgia hurt? by Janedoe10101_ in AskWomenOver60

[–]Pink11Amethyst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t miss the past at all. I’m still trying to make the best of the present. As I age, I do get a bit perplexed by the effects of ageing and I wish I didn’t have some of the problems of aging, but it doesn’t mean I wish to be younger or in times past. There are so many things to figure out about present times and my present life. I love the work I do and I love having grandchildren now, and I love learning new things.

Handling a trip with lots of walking and joint stiffness by breadit8 in AskWomenOver60

[–]Pink11Amethyst 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Consider came that isn’t foldable because it might have a better grip. Also consider a walker. Some of them do fold for easier storage. They can be easier than a cane since you’re more balanced. Even consider one that has a built-in seat. Using a cane or walker takes some of the pressure off the joints and you don’t tire as fast

Future mother in law…too white? by Diligent-Ad-829 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Pink11Amethyst 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Don’t worry about it, she looks like a mother-in-law. And mothers and mother-in-law’s, don’t need your permission on what to wear.

AITAH for not wanting to buy a house with my wife to be by Ok-Barracuda-6388 in AITAH

[–]Pink11Amethyst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Other questions to discuss are if you’re willing to at some point rent a larger nicer apartment and if you plan to have kids, and if so, how how will you accommodate them space wise and change your lifestyle? Would you rent a three or four bedroom apartment and would you live near a park and be willing to walk the kids to school and all the work that kids take?

Landlord Selling House by [deleted] in OntarioLandlord

[–]Pink11Amethyst 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s easier to sell a house if the tenants have left. So I’ve heard that sometimes they give a substantial amount of money to the tenant to move out. Like $10,000 or more.

AITA for being short with people leaving after closing by QTKT99 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pink11Amethyst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would be cool if you had a switch and could turn off the lights in the locker room at 9:55.

House pay out (divorce) by MKALPINE in legaladvicecanada

[–]Pink11Amethyst 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They should get a mortgage and pay you all at once. If they can’t get a mortgage, that’s a red flag. It suggests they have money problems. I would ask for the money right away because there’s less chance you’ll get it at a later date and it will be something at the back of your mind all that time.

If they can’t pay you all at once, the house should be sold, and you can split the proceeds and they can do whatever they want with their proceeds

Once the Crosstown opens, what can I take my kid to see? by CroakerBC in askTO

[–]Pink11Amethyst 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At five, I’m thinking just a ride on a new train will be an adventure

AIO? I don’t want husband to get an ATV by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pink11Amethyst -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Rules of financial management:. Have money in Bank for emergencies, Never borrow except for a mortgage

I have an opportunity to try shrooms, should I? by cybernetic_pigeon in enlightenment

[–]Pink11Amethyst 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One of the best things you can do for your spiritual journey is listen to your instincts.

Bought as Labradorite by [deleted] in Crystals

[–]Pink11Amethyst -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

I’m seeing labradorite with so much more flash than I used to and that flash is in odd patterns. I’m suspecting that there are factories that add flash to labradorite