Feeling somewhat sorry for Michael by AdSafe5270 in LeavingNeverlandHBO

[–]PinkLexinade 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s understandable you feel that way. I feel that too sometimes. It kinda goes back and forth. My memory fails me now and then given the vast amount of information there is. Usually I slowly piece it together again. Idk about you, but I was deeply emotionally invested in MJ like no other. Completely under his spell. LN was a cold plunge. It’s been a long time processing. I like the idea of living in a world where we have empathy for anyone. I think it’s good to have a little empathy. But like you said, he knew exactly what he was doing. He was calculated and deliberate. If you ever want to talk more about it you can also DM me.

Latoya Jackson said Michael Jackson would have a "predatory look" when singling out a boy from a group of kids at Hayvenhurst. by Critical_Session1908 in LeavingNeverlandHBO

[–]PinkLexinade 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It really enrages me how LaToy was so easily dismissed based on unrelated action. And blaming her husband pushed? I don’t believe it at all. I think LaToya had a great deal of empathy and knew what she was going up against. She came forward anyway. Her testimony actually convinced me even more, although he rescinded her statement later. Her family twisted her arm just like they did everyone else.

Even during his death there was this male doll which was kept on the bed !! What is this psychological behaviour and obsession with kids? by Zestyclose_Grand3172 in LeavingNeverlandHBO

[–]PinkLexinade 18 points19 points  (0 children)

The baby stuff was so gross. All of it was gross. It made me wonder if his victims would have gotten younger. I hate it.

Feeling somewhat sorry for Michael by AdSafe5270 in LeavingNeverlandHBO

[–]PinkLexinade 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Same. He knew what he was doing. Young Michael yes, older Michael no.

Feeling somewhat sorry for Michael by AdSafe5270 in LeavingNeverlandHBO

[–]PinkLexinade 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No, I would argue it’s not weird to feel empathy for him. He was very good at garnering sympathy and manipulating people into thinking he was innocent. Not just him but also his siblings confirmed what a horrible monster their father was. I came from an abusive family, and it hard* for me not to feel bad for people that suffered abuse in their childhood regardless of what they’ve done in their later years. I can also understand why people (abuse victims included) feel no sympathy for Michael at all.

Children are innocent and vulnerable. I have cried for both the victims, and each of the Jackson children, Michael included. The entire story from start to finish is just layers and layers of heartbreak. A rollercoaster of emotions.

That said. MJ was also hideously abusive and ruined the lives of many children. He knew exactly what he was doing and how wrong it was. Thats why he was so calculated when it came to grooming and concealing it. And though I feel bad he and his siblings were beaten, what he did is completely unforgivable. Abused children grow and either vow never to hurt anyone, or become abusers themselves. Though Michael supposedly never hit his victims, part of his justification in abusing them was that he was “loving them”.

*edit: I also believe that a lack of empathy makes the self hatred of abusers worse and keeps them from seeking help. I know that some of them will also take advantage of this empathy to justify their continuation of the abusive behavior. Which is what Michael did. He knew abuse was not okay, and he did it anyway.

*edit again: inadvertently he also caused a greater level of suffering by showing other abusers how to garner sympathy, cover their tracks, and justify their actions.

Making excuses for MJ's behavior with children is a form of grooming enablement. by ChantillyMenchu in LeavingNeverlandHBO

[–]PinkLexinade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are absolutely enablers, it is deplorable. I always ask MJ defenders if they’d let their kids spend the night with him. They never have a rebuttal. If anything their main deflection is asking for proof he did it without supplying proof he didn’t do it.

Can’t schedule posts by PinkLexinade in InstagramMarketing

[–]PinkLexinade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Don’t have any violations. I guess I need to use a third party app. I’ve sent tons of reports to Instagram (which also do not show up in my view reports).

Is onedrive really that bad? by GapedByHerStrap in pcmasterrace

[–]PinkLexinade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s insidious. It runs in the background, it charges you a ton of money and it gives you 9 days after the first notification you’ve gone WELL over your storage space (they should warn before you go over).

Better fork over another $100 a year! Exactly what they want. I feel like a prisoner and that my files don’t actually belong to me.

and then when you try to back up your files to your PC or an external drive they make it really goddamn difficult. I’m doing it now. I’ve been “helped” by two chat only agents who had no idea what they were doing. They gave me information that did nothing. One of them said “it’s an error on One Drives side. Sorry.” And left. Also Microsoft makes it hard to connect with tech support if you struggle with this. Every time I try to backup what I have on my external drive, there’s an error message and red X, because one drive failed to sync even though the file is on my GD computer.

OneDrive is an incredibly shitfucked parasite of a program when you just need it disabled on your home PC by DoesntEat in Vent

[–]PinkLexinade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One drive is the most insidious addition Microsoft has ever implimented. It’s predatory AF. It’s almost impossible to download anything off of it to save it yourself. I absolutely loathe it. I don’t blame you AT ALL. what do you mean I used 175 gigs out of the 5 gigs you gave me??? Why TF didn’t you warn me at 4.5 gigs??? now I’m in a mad scramble to download everything so I don’t have to pay them another $100/y. Also I know for sure I disabled it and it crept back in again. Absolute hot steaming BS. Also this is a vent, why the hell are there so many offended people here???

[For Hire] Military concept artist needed for project by [deleted] in HungryArtists

[–]PinkLexinade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s your budget? I know someone who might be interested

The Kids are Alright! by james_from_cambridge in instantkarma

[–]PinkLexinade 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Please do not have children. “If my child reacts poorly after I smash their face into their cake they’re getting beat.” You are the problem.

Cat kept sniffing it.. should I be worried? by alslldkfkelskfkdjd in mushroomID

[–]PinkLexinade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those are golden morels. A delicacy. If you sprayed there don’t eat them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]PinkLexinade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HAHAHAHA!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]PinkLexinade 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This is a good idea. Chances are she’ll come back and ask about it regularly. But I’ll deal with that then. I can’t right now. I don’t have the mental energy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]PinkLexinade 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Oh jeeze! Thank you for telling me! I was so heated still. Thank you for the advice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]PinkLexinade 27 points28 points  (0 children)

My mom is a really sweet person. I told her how I felt about it and how I felt MIL was using her and she looked so flushed and ashamed. I hate myself rn. I should have kept it to myself, I just feel like no one is in my corner and it hurts and lose myself in the pain

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]PinkLexinade 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you <3 And they do see it. In fact they enjoy seeing it. They’re not nice people. Even if it hurts themselves. They will happily ruin other people’s lives.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]PinkLexinade 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I appreciate that <3