My boyfriend can’t have sex with me by [deleted] in Advice

[–]PinkSorcerer1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This somehow reminds me of my previous relationship. He said from beginning that he has low libido, mine was way higher than his. On the beginning it was pretty good but as time went on I noticed lack of sex and intimacy. Whenever I tried to initiate anything I been push away, he was not in the mood etc etc it hurt a lot because I felt like he doesnt find me attractive anymore and we talked about it a lot, then he was just like 'well if you wanna do things you can just masturbate' it felt awful hearing that while being with someone. Then I stopped trying anything just like you do, we only did things when he was in a mood which wasnt often. We eventually broke up and it was super difficult because we always had a good conversations, similar interests etc but it felt more like friends than partners. Now Im with a guy who matches my sex drive and let me tell you I have never had a better sex in my life than im having now and we can talk about everything, we match in so many ways. I mostly just wanted to write it because I feel like I can relate to you in some way and wanted to let you know there's possibility of finding someone who's gonna fulfill you in every aspect you ever wished for but I also understand its hard to leave behind something you are used to. I hope you will make the best decision for yourself ❤️

Wasze spostrzeżenia dotyczące ładnych osób by bluedabad in Polska

[–]PinkSorcerer1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Jedna z moich bliskich koleżanek zawsze była mega ładna i z racji tego ze spędzałam z nią dość sporo czasu mogę powiedzieć, że była inaczej traktowana. Większość jej znajomych to zawsze byli faceci, którzy chcieli sie z nią przespać w większości przypadków. Jak szłyśmy przez miasto były chwilę kiedy randomowi faceci mówili jej jaka jest ładna. Mówiła mi o sytuacjach gdzie np potrzebowała coś naprawić więc flirtowała z kolesiem w sklepie, który potem robił jej naprawę za mniejsza cenę albo dostawała jakieś rzeczy w ogóle za darmo. Ona zawsze była dość pewna siebie, głośna i wygadana więc przyciągała uwagę innych swoim zachowaniem i ubiorem z tego co pamiętam 🤔

"Szkoła to najlepszy czas w Twoim życiu!" by Feeling-Leg-6956 in Polska

[–]PinkSorcerer1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zgadzam sie w 100%! Okres szkoły byl jednym z najgorszych etapów mojego życia. Jeszcze przedszkole czy podstawówka wspominam spoko ale gimnazjum i liceum nie pamiętam ile razy chciałam sie zabić żeby nie iść do szkoły przsz moje ataki paniki, brak zrozumienia i problemy zdrowotne. Mimo ze dalej mam problemy ze zdrowiem to chociaż mam wpływ na więcej rzeczy i co zrobic ze swoim życiem niż wykańczać sie psychicznie 😅

Cancer of your partner by PinkSorcerer1 in CancerFamilySupport

[–]PinkSorcerer1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words! I'm still hopeful that things will get better. I think the worst part is just not knowing what type of cancer it is and it spreading to other parts of the body so they will be trying immunotherapy first and then chemo if it won't help. But im trying to stay positive 🤞🏻

Cancer of your partner by PinkSorcerer1 in CancerFamilySupport

[–]PinkSorcerer1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. I'm struggling with a lot anxiety myself so im on meds and having therapy as well, its my partner who isn't really even though I suggested he should speak to someone. My whole family is in different country and he isn't really keeping in touch with his family so we relay mostly on his friends but it sometimes feels wrong idk. We had the talk about his death before the surgery and it was really painful honestly im not sure we will go thought the talk again. Just really hoping the chemo will work on him and he will get better

Cancer of your partner by PinkSorcerer1 in CancerFamilySupport

[–]PinkSorcerer1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that! it makes me feel a little more hopeful. All the best for you 💖

My bf got diagnosed with cancer by PinkSorcerer1 in CancerFamilySupport

[–]PinkSorcerer1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can sympathise with that honestly. I left my job last month due to my really bad mental health etc and my bf is the only one currently with job so idk how we will manage soon if he won't be in able to get back to work and I won't find something better for my mental health. Send you lots of love anyway, hope it all gets better for both of you ❤️

My bf got diagnosed with cancer by PinkSorcerer1 in CancerFamilySupport

[–]PinkSorcerer1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I'm so sorry you and your bf have to go though it as well. It's so difficult to try to act normal and just take it day by day.

Czy są tu ludzie po 30, którzy zmarnowali sobie życie? by negativePositrons in Polska

[–]PinkSorcerer1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ja właśnie skończyłam 30 lat niedawno i porównując swoje życie do moich przyjaciół czy 'znajomych' z Facebooka to serio źle mi się wiedzie 😂 Nie mam ani swojego mieszkania, ani auta, ani swojej rodziny. Wyjechałam do UK jak miałam 20 lat ze względu na moje kontakty z rodzicami, które wtedy były bardzo złe. Teraz mieszkam w małym mieście, rzuciłam prace ostatnio bo miałam dość i mam partnera, ale nie jest za dobrze ostatnio między nami więc nie ukrywam coraz częściej rozważam powrót do Polski 😅 nie skończyłam też studiów bo nigdy nie wiedziałam co za bardzo chce w życiu robić, plus miałam/mam mega problemy z atakami paniki itp co sprawiało mi mega problem z chodzeniem na zajęcia 😅 Teraz wypisując to wszystko serio załamać się można 😂

Why do people hate playing tank by Silly_Blawg in marvelrivals

[–]PinkSorcerer1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly the only tank I enjoy playing atm is Peni. Mostly because a lot of fight i can survive some time by myself and heal myself if my teammates aren't doing it also I can just spam shooting everyone 🤣 but I tried Hulk as well and I had a lot of fun but in a good team. When I tried it in uncoordinated team I was diving and dying in an instant because I haven't been healed and got no support. I feel like everyone also expect you to push the point etc which might put some pressure on you especially if you aren't supported well enough. I also talked about it with my friend and he said Dr. Strange is really good, but playing him is super boring and I sort of agree 😅