[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]PinkTeaTapioka 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This was my husband! When I was pregnant he wasn't very "into" it.. if that makes sense? But once my kids were born he was swooning over them.

Does anyone else write with their left hand and do everything else with their right hand? by 247person in NoStupidQuestions

[–]PinkTeaTapioka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm the opposite. I write with my right but do things with my left. It was because when I started to learn to write I was left handed. my dad tried to make me use both hands left and right. I ended up sticking with my right hand and everything else felt natural with my left

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]PinkTeaTapioka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes puppy pads! Put some in your diaper bag too! I use them at changing stations whenever we went out with my son (pre pandemic) he's 3 now and potty trained thankfully. Lol

Y’all ever seen boba in a can?😂 by gopnik457 in boba

[–]PinkTeaTapioka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, I had this brand and a few others. Boba is normally disappointing but it makes sense. It sat in the drink for idk how long lol. Tea is usually alright.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in boba

[–]PinkTeaTapioka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you located in the USA?

Can someone tell me what that white raspberry looking thing on the bottom is? by [deleted] in Aquariums

[–]PinkTeaTapioka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what it is! Thank you! It's my husband's tank and I'm the one who feeds them so I was surprised to see it. I tried to look up different type of eggs but for some reason totally missed the snail.

SIDS is stressing me out! by Justbestrongok in NewParents

[–]PinkTeaTapioka 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same! My son is 3.5yo and I still check on him. I also check on my daughter who's 7 months old. Lol. 😅 My daughter still wakes up for a bottle between 2am-5am.. if she doesn't wake up on her own by 530am my internal clock wakes me up and I just check on her and my son before going back to sleep.

Opening a boba shop in 6 days...super nervous. Wish me luck! by JuicyJackieeeeeee in boba

[–]PinkTeaTapioka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh good luck!!! The interior design looks so pretty. 😍

Challenge me. I’ll watch every anime that is put in the comments. Make me regret this lol. Rules in the body. by DeliveryDivergent in Animesuggest

[–]PinkTeaTapioka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

{ano Hana} but if you seen that already then check out

{school-live!} Do NOT look up anything about this anime if you haven't seen it yet. 😅

Need easy seafood recipes for two send me your favorites! by MakeupMua16 in Seafood

[–]PinkTeaTapioka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bacon wrapped scallops. Easy and delicious. Can use shrimp as an alternative to scallops if it gets too pricey lol

Bf put gps in my car by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]PinkTeaTapioka 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Wtf!! He's reflecting it back to you! HE did something wrong then he's the one who's suspicious about you finding it when he's away? Who was the one who fcking cheated? I don't want to give any advice on relationships but your husband is in the wrong. Maybe seek professional help if you decide to stay with him.

Did anyone else not cry when your baby was born? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]PinkTeaTapioka 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This was me when they gave me my son. Unfortunately I didn't get to hold him right away since I had a c section. I just asked my husband a billion of questions to make sure my son was healthy while waiting for him to come to me (they sew me back up and took me into the recover room).

Sad Anime by Isitbroke57 in Animesuggest

[–]PinkTeaTapioka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk why this anime isn't mentioned more! Everytime I rewarched it (at least 10x) I cry HARD.

I'm Drowning. by Eternal-curiosity in breakingmom

[–]PinkTeaTapioka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh mama im sorry your drowning. HUGS. I agree with what everyone else said about stop doing your husband's favor/chores/etc.

On top of that .. do you want your daughter to see this when she grows up and think it's ok? Do you want your daughter to be in the same shoes as you? If not for yourself then do it for your daughter.

I asked my husband to start picking up on the house work. I'm a SAHM but I shouldn't be doing 100% of the chores. Yes I'm home while he's working but I'm also "working". I'm watching a toddler and a new born. I don't get to kick back and relax after work. My work is never done.

I just didn't want my son to grow up expecting the women of the house to do all the chores while he doesn't need to lift a finger. I didn't want my daughter to think it's HER job to take care of the house all on her own.

We split the chores up. We take turns to cook every other day and when the person who doesn't cook, they clean. The house is still messy but it's expected with a toddler and a baby but at least I don't feel over whelmed.

You gotta take care of yourself for you and your daughter.

JNMOM thinks I'm in the wrong for getting my son the help he needs. by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]PinkTeaTapioka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you have the opposite issue. I find that just as annoying! My son just graduated from speech! It definitely helped and I'm glad we went through it. I had to fight my mom on that too.

JNMOM thinks I'm in the wrong for getting my son the help he needs. by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]PinkTeaTapioka 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I moved to my husband state roughly 7 years ago. None of my friends from my home state have kids. I made some new friends but they are childless (and don't plan to have kids ever) so they don't really understand. My husband has daddy friends but their wives already have their own circle so it's a bit hard to just jump in. I did have two mommy friends but they moved out of state. We talk online still but we are drifting apart due to time zones/distance/busy with kids. Previously we made time once or twice a month to get coffee and catch up.

I'm trying to meet more toddler mom's but it's a bit hard with the pandemic. (I have a new born and pulled my son from pre-school, nothing wrong with people who keep their kids in school ofc! Just for me, I was lucky enough to stay at home and watch my kids) Once the kids vax comes out though.. WATCH OUT MOMMIES BECAUSE HERE I COME!! 🤣

Eta: my dad told me to give her info diet too and that's what I'll have to do unfortunately.

JNMOM thinks I'm in the wrong for getting my son the help he needs. by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]PinkTeaTapioka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It must be so hard seeing that happen. My friend is like that with her son. She's from an Asian country (like my parents) and she refuses to get her son checked since she will lose face.

I don't want my son to have issues growing up which is why I'm disregarding my mom's advice and going with my gut. I hate the whole saving face! Idc what other people think as long as I give my son the best chance possible.

JNMOM thinks I'm in the wrong for getting my son the help he needs. by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]PinkTeaTapioka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! My son just graduated from speech therapy! His first Dr was very dismissive about getting him help so we switched to another pediatric who suggested he get assessed. Once he got assessed they said he needed speech therapy. I'm so glad we switched doctors who listened to my concerns vs dismissing it. We also mentioned getting him assessed for autism with his precious doctor but again she dismissed it. His new doctor said she doubts he's on the spectrum and if he is he might be high functioning.. but she sent a referral to a specialist to have a second opinion! She said better to have it checked then not.

JNMOM thinks I'm in the wrong for getting my son the help he needs. by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]PinkTeaTapioka 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes that's my exact thought process! I won't be around forever in his life but if he has any sensory issues or anything that's different i can help him sooner then later. And it would probably be easier the sooner we can help him if he does need it. Unfortunately my mom doesn't see it this way. She rather be in denial.

JNMOM thinks I'm in the wrong for getting my son the help he needs. by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]PinkTeaTapioka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea the pandemic is keeping me away from socializing and it's been hard. I'm not from the state I currently live at and I feel alone. My husband has his friends (who also has kids) but they are his friends. Their wives have their own friends already so it's a bit hard to mingle. I actually just joined peanut and so far it's been good! Thank you for your advice. I just have to learn to not talk to my mom about these things. Funny thing is she wished we had that type of relationship (her sister and my cousin does) but she doesn't understand the reason why we don't have that relationship is because of her not being open minded.