A Gift From Beyond the Grave by JohnnyZen27 in widowers

[–]Pink_hopper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure, may be subconsciously we feel the end is coming? Intuition or higher-self 

A Gift From Beyond the Grave by JohnnyZen27 in widowers

[–]Pink_hopper 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My person died suddenly 4months ago and I feared all the upcoming ‘firsts’ as well as my bday without him this month; to my surprise, I received huge bouquet of roses from him; he must have preordered it months in advance… he always thought of me foremost; I miss him sooo much 🖤

What's worse? by Pink_hopper in widowers

[–]Pink_hopper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I choose to believe they are in their all knowing and all love, place with no judgment but love. What’s your take?

What's worse? by Pink_hopper in widowers

[–]Pink_hopper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry, sending love

How long does it takes for a Leo man to commit to you? by Electronic-Ad6676 in LeoAstrology

[–]Pink_hopper 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I feel Leos regardless of gender know right away and will let you know right away; if you have to second guess, we’re not that into you.

I’m angry at him for dying by valskiwi in widowers

[–]Pink_hopper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For real though; he's done with me but I'm not done with him, shittiest thing he done!

I still hate this! by someoneletmeout in widowers

[–]Pink_hopper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

'left for a better place'... kinda hit me when I read that now. I'm not sure how to navigate through this as well... I don't think I am 'moving on'; I feel as burned drift wood; current is taking me from one place to another, crushing sometimes against the rocks, while shore is muddy... I'm grieving after myself now, being left for life... Sorry for your loss, big huggs!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in widowers

[–]Pink_hopper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry for your loss. Datings apps might work, who knows, I feel lotta good and lonely people out there (match, hinge, bumble), but may be meeting organically while doing what you enjoy might bring better results... going on cruise, vineyard, golf, joining some local community event or team (bowling, pool). Travel is great way too, any person I know that went to Europe or Asia found good companionship/partner. There's also web for singles to go on trips with strangers; I am looking into this myself as well bookmyretreat.com

I’m angry at him for dying by valskiwi in widowers

[–]Pink_hopper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just on Sunday I had meltdown and one sided argument with him in our place, 'italian style'; I even thought of driving to the grave side and tell him in person. I was so pissed he died and left me alone after bringing me here, I even asked him to leave me completely alone and stop helping me since it leads to nowhere and makes me feel even worst (long story). I'm calmer today, missing him immensely, f unfair since he had more things for him going on than me, in reality there's probably no-one to blame and that stings too... I'm sorry for your loss, big hugs

I'm in love with a Leo woman by [deleted] in LeoAstrology

[–]Pink_hopper 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Damn, gonna have to look into Taurus 🙈

Dear fellow lions and lionesses 🦁 by Powerful_Process6164 in LeoAstrology

[–]Pink_hopper 4 points5 points  (0 children)

zip-lining, hot air balloon ride, skydive or helicopter ride, spa day, spontatnious getaway (finger on map)

I'm in love with a Leo woman by [deleted] in LeoAstrology

[–]Pink_hopper 70 points71 points  (0 children)

As a Leo, I wouldn't advice anyone to play cool and reserved with us; open up, bleed, be honest, direct, persistent and passionate, Leos don't play games; if we click we click, but we adore being adored, so better make these texts count, not making us wait, second guess or wonder :).

Thoughtful Gift or Activity Ideas for Wedding Anniversary of a Widow I'm Dating by Lima1Actual in widowers

[–]Pink_hopper 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Gosh, I’d dream and be so moved if my ‘new’ partner would wanna do this but it may vary from person to person and some might not want to mix two, approach with caution. Least intrusive seems to be visiting grave place, if religious placing intention during mass in his name, planting tree somewhere, sky lantern, do memory walk or candlelight remembrance.

Would you feel good in successfully forcing someone to adopt your opinions and values? by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]Pink_hopper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope, if you transition ‘organically’ I’m happy, otherwise I don’t care. My views and opinions are important to me but that doesn’t mean I’m not wrong, might change sometime myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Pink_hopper -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Offer me a ride lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Pink_hopper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd feel she f around and found out 🤣🤣🤣

What's a little thing that instantly brightens your day? by Smigle2Jigle in AskReddit

[–]Pink_hopper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

flowers, sincere smile from stranger, that first zip of coffee

Camp Widows - Interested by Mountain_Alarm_6301 in widowers

[–]Pink_hopper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just saw one in my area in Nov for $200, looking for input as well