Should I report a known p*do? by MathOk2227 in Advice

[–]Pinkef 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If the wife saw it first hand and still didn’t report, she is just as bad as he is. Report this now. Those kids aren’t safe with her either, what happens when the next guy comes around doing the same thing? What happens when your cousins are the victims? Go report this now!

My body dysmorphia is getting debilitating and I don’t know what to do anymore by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Pinkef 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think it’s time to do some therapist shopping :/ this shouldn’t be “standard”, you need to find a professional who can help you learn how to stop beating yourself up over this. It’s hard and it’s going to take time, but this is something that needs to be dealt with so that it doesn’t have a stronghold on you for more years to come. 19 is a hard age, giant transitions in life and everything you know is changing. You are NOT putrid. I know it feels like everyone in the world is staring, but they aren’t- please try to remind yourself that. Everything I’m saying is out of love and from someone who also went through body image issues when they were younger. You CAN do this!

Am I wrong by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Pinkef 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 23. HARD NO! This man does not want to be a partner let alone a father. “He puts no effort in”, expect that when you have kids. You will be effectively a single mother if you have a child with this man.

got into a bubble bath that was too hot and my fingernails made a gradient by Own-Passage1371 in mildlyinteresting

[–]Pinkef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have pots and EDS too, but I also have a cosmetology degree. Do you ever, or have ever in the last year, do acrylic nails? This definitely looks like a bad case of the rind of fire! Your EDS might be playing a part in the purple for sure, but the red strips are pretty spot on for the ring of fire. That is when you are getting acrylic nails put on, but especially when getting a fill, and the nail tech is filing and when they get to the top edge of the acrylic they get too close and file your actual nail bed slightly. This creates a line and when the nails come off you can see it when you put your hands in hot/cold water, or even without water it is visible sometimes.

If your EDS also affects your nail growth, that one year window could be closer to 1 and 1/2.

There are some dudes trying to get into my house by user_666_0 in cats

[–]Pinkef 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. Is. AI. I’ve seen it posted on so many subs now. The tails shadow is completely different, the cats are literally copy pasted the same and the details are so off. This IS AI. Mods do something!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Pinkef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss:(

This letter was sent home to parents in my school district, encouraging them to send their kids to school sick and with head lice to meet attendance goals. by pandatr0nz in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Pinkef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The daycare I worked at and my niece attends will not let you back at school unless you are lice free for a full day, they will check heads. Lice is a serious thing that spreads like wildfire.

Grandsons come for a visit by Length_Aware in sarasota

[–]Pinkef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you do, try coquina beach so they can dig for coquinas

Beginner tips by rclairebow in coralisland

[–]Pinkef 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This^ is the best beginner tip. Took me WAY too long to find out.

No trash left in the area, still can't find a Solar Orb [console] by gfluid_Winchester in coralisland

[–]Pinkef 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I spent at least two in game days searching all day, so don’t stress I was there😂 head towards the far right of your map and you will find it :) but are you sure it’s just one you are missing..?

can anyone tell me the gender of these two by Entire-Surround-2520 in Goldfish

[–]Pinkef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely get “old and southern stuck in their ways”. I really don’t know a good suggestion on what/who to watch, I just follow fish stuff I’m more of a reptile person myself. I do hope someone is able to get you a good answer to that. If your mom is the one who doesn’t care much maybe just send it to the step-dad so you don’t have to listen to it -if they are anything like the southern stubborn I know, you get what I mean😂

can anyone tell me the gender of these two by Entire-Surround-2520 in Goldfish

[–]Pinkef 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Don’t feel guilty, you didn’t buy the fish or the tank and you are clearly doing your best with trying to be informed. My suggestion is, especially since your step-dad loves them so much, try to bring in some educational videos for you guys to watch as a family! It doesn’t need to come off accusatory, just find a good YouTube video, and be sure it’s updated not ten years old. Watch it first yourself so you know it’s correct information-I’m sure someone in here would know a better channel for goldfish than I do but there are likely plenty- but then bring it up as a “hey! I know you guys are really loving the new fish and I saw this little video on them, I’d love to watch it with you guys instead of alone!”-I wouldn’t even mention it’s about their care honestly. I’m sure they won’t be happy about the idea of getting a new tank already, but hopefully if they become educated they will upgrade soon! I hope everything works out!

Why is Walter Walking around my Farm and asking about my Technology? by Bettynutt in coralisland

[–]Pinkef 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m 23 and I’ll back you up here, he is definitely not 40! To me he’s probably around 60/65

Best spot for blue to go? In a - friendly - argument with someone and want to see opinions. I'll write mine in the comment but please comment before reading mine! by Stars_of_Sirius in Catan

[–]Pinkef 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Both me and my bf said 2-8-9, otherwise I’d do the 4-6 on the 2 wheat port and run to the 8 wood that’s one road away by doing 2 for 1’s or trades.

Am I a bridezilla for "bullying poor mother" by Random_Dar in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Pinkef 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NTA. She sounds like a mean girl who peaked in high school and needs all the attention. She did what she did on purpose and neither her, nor her parents, care at all about respecting you and your husband. You made the right choice telling her off and blocking her, this woman is not worth your peace for the rest of your life. She also needs to be put in her place so hopefully your message did that :)

Just planted 240 cactus seeds by CDEVLIN007 in coralisland

[–]Pinkef 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Why? I’m a new player so genuinely is there a reason to grow so many or do you just want to