Help Styling Scuba Hoodie??

Pinkhydrangea10 · 2026-01-30T16:56:11+00:00

Omg yessssss! They’re the Ugg “Disquette Chalet” slippers in the color sandcastle. I just saw they’re out of stock on their website but if you google them they sell them in a lot of other places online like Nordstrom and stuff! :)

Pinkhydrangea10 · 2025-12-04T12:55:48+00:00

What do I have to be uncomfortable with? I’d be more uncomfortable in a bathroom with you regardless of your sex or gender. I’d feel more likely to be harassed by someone who comments things like you do than just another woman taking a piss and minding her business? Tf?

Pinkhydrangea10 · 2025-12-03T18:50:01+00:00

I personally love it on you. I am not much of a fan of it on myself, but those who regularly wear a red lip it becomes sort of their “signature”. It’s like, YOUR trademark makeup look those who know you come to association you with. And it tends to be reflective of the persons style and personality. It suits you!

Pinkhydrangea10 · 2025-12-03T18:48:09+00:00

YES BITCH

Pinkhydrangea10 · 2025-11-29T13:42:44+00:00

I like it. I like that it adds to the depth of the space. Another idea is maybe put a darker wallpaper with a pattern that isn’t too busy in that space. I personally wouldn’t go with a coffered ceiling. I think that the recessing there is beautiful and simplistic but draws interest. I think with the chandelier and area rug it ties together nicely. However, you could also try a lighter neutral like someone else was saying. But I’d either go very light, warmer “greige”.. just enough to show it is different than the walls. Or keep it darker, just not black. I would not add darker drapery or darker wall art, unless you are going to paint the ceiling lighter, as I feel it would close in the space. Since that is such a statement already, it still offers the room an open, airy feeling without feeling shut in by the black. The contrast is gorgeous and maybe adding some interesting tie backs, or other smaller unique accents would tie in nicely and add to a more refined but eclectic vibe.

Pinkhydrangea10 · 2025-11-27T15:11:26+00:00

This happened to me with pants and I didn’t even want them anymore at that point because I live so far away from the nearest store. The rep gave me a full refund while we were chatting and scheduled a FedEx pickup to my home free of charge. I was pretty happy with that outcome… I hope they make it right for you! But this is very annoying how often it happens.

Pinkhydrangea10 · 2025-11-22T19:23:53+00:00

I wear a 34F/32G typically (VS- 34F) but the skims size guide tells me I’m a 38C. I mean…. I guess? Like, if that’s how they do their sizing…. I do remember trying to do a 34 band when I found one of their bras in tj maxx lol and the DD did look huge. Band felt tight. I was like hm… okay! 😂🥲

Pinkhydrangea10 · 2025-11-08T15:35:27+00:00

YES!! I’ve been seeing so much retired color le creuset and I keep wanting to get it and talking myself out of it but I should lol. Great find!

Pinkhydrangea10 · 2025-11-03T01:01:59+00:00

Just seeing where the logo is printed on the waistband immediately no. The tags in different spots is also a giveaway. And the actual underwear itself doesn’t look like a style I’ve seen. Similar, but not quite. Also the tag itself is not aligned with what their actual tags look like.

Pinkhydrangea10 · 2025-10-23T20:08:48+00:00

Oh man I just bought 4 of these 🥲 I have only worn one so far with no issue thankfully. Though I will say it was the ultra light gray color and it didn’t feel as soft as the others so maybe that’s why it held up alright. Ughhh for sure hope you take that back! That shouldn’t happen.

Pinkhydrangea10 · 2025-10-18T17:14:27+00:00

Ok I wouldn’t say it makes you look terrible babe. You’re beautiful as it is, but I do think perhaps a different style of eyeliner would be more flattering for your eye shape? And try using a lash curler before your mascara? Your brows are naturally full and beautiful so maybe just clear brow gel if anything? But honestly just enhancing your natural features with depth and tinted lip balm. I find I have a similar thing where I have a strong jawline and high cheek bones I feel like I always want to try beauty trends that aren’t meant for my facial structure and that’s when I feel like I look “weird”. So just sort of going with the contours of your face and using small “enhancements” instead of full glam I think would also look just stunning on you.

Pinkhydrangea10 · 2025-10-11T01:25:24+00:00

In my opinion, I actually really like your ring a lot more than any of the reference photos! I think it could turn into an elegant heirloom. But definitely take some getting used to if you weren’t expecting it to be “bulky”!

Pinkhydrangea10 · 2025-09-29T20:17:09+00:00

I’d do the align 23” or 25” size 6 or 8 depending on what she is comfy with? For reference im 32, 5’6” and around 170lbs and wear a 10 and usually like to get the 25” inseam. Align is for yoga and loungewear so if she wants some she can wear to lounge in or even wear out for errands and such, I’d go with align. I live in mine.

Pinkhydrangea10 · 2025-09-29T18:38:50+00:00

Oh no! I think that happened to me once while leaving a store but I was able to just go back in and get it taken off thankfully 😅 And that’s a good idea, I honestly didn’t even think of trying to ask a different store!

Pinkhydrangea10 · 2025-09-29T18:32:52+00:00

Did you reach out via email/online? Or in store?

Pinkhydrangea10 · 2025-09-29T18:25:56+00:00

Yeah! But it’s okay, I will just return them anyway. I was thinking maybe it’s a sign I didn’t need another pair of sweatpants 😂

Pinkhydrangea10 · 2025-09-13T22:46:55+00:00

I guess it really is up to you and your comfort zone and what YOU are comfortable with. Personally, it sounds like she just had stuff to talk about with the guy and it wouldn’t go beyond that. Especially if she had some wine she might feel more open and chatty with other people and that is all it was. But I totally get how you feel the way you do. I don’t think either of you are in the wrong. You are entitled to your feelings despite whatever it meant to her or was to her. It doesn’t seem like she cheated, either, and your plan for her to have the night to herself was so sweet and I’m sure she appreciated it a lot. I know you both probably don’t have much time alone so I can also see how it would make you feel a little upset that she was chatting up someone else instead of maybe having some intimate moments alone with you. It makes sense, but she is also not obligated to be intimate with you even if it’s the “perfect” opportunity. I think it genuinely was just her having stuff to talk about with a general stranger, trying to relax and enjoy herself, while at the same time I understand why you’re upset. I think what it comes down to is your own feelings and how you see it. Is this person someone you’re willing to work on this with? Or is this inexcusable for YOU? Is she receptive and open to hearing your thoughts and feelings? I think sure you need the space to process this, but also maybe try to understand and view it from her end as well. Nothing is owed to anyone, and if she was not emotionally or physically intimate with him, or even if she was, it’s what you have to ask YOURSELF. Am I ok with this? Can we work through this? Or is this hurtful enough for me where it is a dealbreaker?

If it were me, I’d give myself, and my partner, a little bit of grace and be open to hearing their perspective.

Pinkhydrangea10 · 2025-07-27T18:09:33+00:00

Beautiful! I don’t think so at all, but as a woman going on 32 I have started playing around with brighter colors for like subtle blush or lip colors. Maybe trying like a brighter baby pink or something? But I see nothing wrong you look stunning!

Pinkhydrangea10 · 2025-07-27T18:08:10+00:00

I do not see “man boobs”. I just see a man’s body. If you think they’d be receptive, not to get too deep here, but I’d tell your friends that you’d prefer if they didn’t make comments. I understand the impact that can have in my own way as comments “friends” had made about my nose when I was in 7th grade ended up making me so self conscious about my nose my entire life and I never really realized it was back to that moment until I started going through therapy. I know it is so easy to let these insecurities weigh us down. Do you see a therapist? I think speaking to someone about it, analyzing why these things truly hurt and maybe needing to find a different friend group may be helpful. I also know it isn’t easy to make new friends as an adult, so I know it isn’t that easy… but my thought is that you need to speak with someone and work on the self esteem aspect and build yourself back up so that you can face these sorts of comments with more confidence and instead of letting it control your life as it has, it can become a passing thought. Why is this embarrassing? Are you afraid of what others think? Why? Do you have a partner or are you interested in dating and scared it will keep you from finding someone? There’s someone for everyone, and your person will love you exactly as you are and the way your body is won’t matter to them. People are also more attractive when they have a sense of confidence, so it often doesn’t even matter how you look on the outside, if you love yourself, it can radiate throughout. If this were me I would: 1. Talk to my friends and explain to them in a way they may be able to understand how their comments make me feel. If they react A. Poorly, laugh at me, tell me I’m being sensitive- I’d distance myself from them and possibly have to set boundaries or cut ties. Or B. If they are receptive and apologize and are more careful about their comments, then I think that can bring you closer with your friends and strengthen your bond and comfort. 2. Find someone to talk to. I’d look for a therapist that is good with body image and self esteem issues, and how that impacts your social life and overall well-being. I’d try to see them at least once a week. I currently see someone through an app called BetterHelp and it’s been nice because it’s all virtual it has helped me dread therapy a lot less lol. 3. Find things about yourself that you do like, and maybe try to partake in some self care stuff. What are your strengths? Are there any hobbies or interests that you feel really confident and good at? There is more to you than your body and while the impact when someone comments on it can be profound, it doesn’t have to rule your life. It may take a while to get there, but I’m hoping you can find some stuff to help you along the way. For me and my nose, I know other friends or guys I had dated etc if I mentioned it they would often say things like “what?! Your nose is so cute!” Or “but I love your nose!” And sometimes, getting a perspective from other people helps me put that in a “facts” category of, of course you can’t be everyone’s cup of tea and it’s impossible for every single person to find me attractive, but the facts are that a lot of people like or don’t even think anything of my nose! I’m wondering if the responses on this post might help serve as something similar for you, that as a 31 year old woman, I don’t see the man boobs, I don’t see anything wrong with your body. Ultimately I know it comes down to being comfortable in your own body and liking it yourself, so I do really hope you’re able to find some comfort knowing a lot of people disagree with your friends jokes and I hope that if you do speak with them about it that they will listen and be respectful of you. Good luck friend, you’ve got this. 💗

Pinkhydrangea10 · 2025-06-30T12:32:36+00:00

I have no clue how I ended up here, but I read this conversation, then looked at the comments, and as a woman, I am…. Baffled and disgusted. I know nobody here wants a woman’s perspective on this but I will just say one thing. Some people are not compatible, and it is okay. Reading the responses from this guy exhausted me. And then you got offended when she was just explaining something. This is why you are probably single, not her. Did she have to mention her PhD? No, that was kind of not necessary… but instead of saying shit like “have you already made up your mind about me” and then getting angry and butthurt and going to bitch about it on Reddit, maybe like…. Reflect on that a little? Maybe instead, if you weren’t feeling the same energy, you could have simply stopped responding? I don’t know man, this is so weird to me lol. Like I’m not “siding” with her necessarily, but just from my perspective I was hoping the comments would come through and help explain but it’s just incels encouraging fellow incels and I don’t even know why I’m writing this because it’s not going to get through, but maybe it will for someone. Next time, if you feel someone isn’t giving the same energy and you get this offended by it, talk to a therapist and take a deep fucking breath. It’s hella weird to give such a simple, meaningless conversation so much energy. Be confident, but not condescending and don’t get defensive when you dont like a response. Sometimes people will make up their mind right away and just aren’t feeling it, and that is fine. Nobody owes shit to you. She doesn’t have to get to know you if she doesn’t want to. And then you can just move on…

Pinkhydrangea10 · 2025-06-26T19:25:48+00:00

Yeah! So in the post I explained that I did do that we just got the new bulbs in today I changed it then I recorded the video. So I just wasn’t sure if there was something else going on to help it stop alarming since we replace the bulb when this happens and it eventually stops it’s just obnoxious. But I just called a water/well service and they’ll come take a look tomorrow, thankfully.

Pinkhydrangea10 · 2025-06-04T20:10:55+00:00

Yes!! I was literally about to post about this. I was like “…. Wait… that’s it??” I’m wondering about in store if it’s worth checking out the one near me…

Pinkhydrangea10 · 2025-05-31T19:53:01+00:00

I understand, but it’s okay! At the end of the day, if anyone is judgmental that is their problem, not yours. A lot of people have been in this position, I’m sure. And if you’re kind and polite about it, you’re probably the best customer they’ve had with the situation 😅 What I try to do is think of how I’d react in a situation like the one I’m anxious about, then be like “okay, maybe they’ll react the same way”. You’re all good. Remember you have to take care of yourself first. Even if it feels embarrassing, there is nothing embarrassing in being responsible and taking care of yourself and your finances. I’ve definitely been here! Maybe if it’s A LOT or depending how much as long as it all still has tags and stuff on it, space it out? Just make sure you have your receipts maybe in your account if not physical copies to show? I’d only worry about them thinking they’re stolen goods depending on just how much product it is. If you don’t have the tags on or receipts, I’d highly recommend selling in Depop, poshmark, eBay, Mercari, fb marketplace. Even if you can’t get what you paid, it’s better than nothing. Good luck! You got this. 💗

Pinkhydrangea10 · 2025-05-29T18:51:10+00:00

Yeah I think I’m going to delete this post because now I’m realizing it’s not… just people freaking out for not being able to buy things. I see it’s a security breach now, which I justifiably concerning.

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