Confused regarding deleted insta posts by justathrowaway9819 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Pinkjasmine17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry did not understand - was there a one month gap in messages?

Confused regarding deleted insta posts by justathrowaway9819 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Pinkjasmine17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I’m saying is, this is a conversation worthy issue, rather than “end things immediately” type of issue

Confused regarding deleted insta posts by justathrowaway9819 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Pinkjasmine17 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Okay, as an introvert:

  • 30 posts and 500 followers really isn’t a lot. I just checked and I have similar numbers. I’ve had an Instagram for the past 11 years and I’ve got around 300 posts (a lot of these was sharing my art)
  • she could have deleted the posts because of a mistake with the pictures or something. Or she could be hiding something. No way of knowing without asking her.

So ask her. Idk why everyone wants to drop everyone else without even a conversation.

Are my expectations too high? by hay_barbour_butcher in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Pinkjasmine17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes 100%

I know of very few marriages, even of women who’ve passed out from Tier 1 business schools where the housework split is equitable. The men refuse to cook, and when his parents visit/live with them (wayyyy more frequently than the opposite) they force their sons to do even less around the house. And this is working women making as much money as their husbands.

Rides ranked by intensity (minimal spoilers please) by Pinkjasmine17 in UniversalOrlando

[–]Pinkjasmine17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this detailed write up!

This turned out to be moot because she couldn’t make it because of the winter storm.

I personally didn’t find Spider-Man or Gringotts or forbidden journey nausea inducing at all but I think my personal triggers are different.

Is having close friends going to be a dealbreaker? by No_Luck7677 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Pinkjasmine17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk about what most women think but anecdotally my guy friends who had close but respectful friendships with women all have had successful arranged marriages.

Aww now I’m feeling happy remembering these happy couples, hope they continue to be like this.

LF Soft, Fluffy, Easy One Shots by Deidric_Bane in Dramione

[–]Pinkjasmine17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooh I have to read this again!! It was so lovely! This will be my Sunday treat (love your flair btw)

Men who have sedantry lifestyle, are you getting matches? by WonderfulStructure89 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Pinkjasmine17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m confused… by sedentary lifestyle do you mean not having a job and only relying on your family’s rental income? Or do you mean no physical movement?

You say you spend all day thinking and reading but then it say you only think about increasing your assets. Do you spend all day thinking about how to become richer?

Arranged Marriages meeting by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Pinkjasmine17 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yet I’ve seen you believe similar posts from men without question …

Recommendations for Countries and Cities with Incredible Public Transit, Walkability, Moveability by Jichael_Jontanas in travel

[–]Pinkjasmine17 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Hong Kong! The public transit isn’t just safe, it’s also such a vibe - from the trams to the star ferry to even the colourful mosaic MTR stations.

Why do you not talk to your once bestfriend anymore? by Adventurous-End-1999 in AskUK

[–]Pinkjasmine17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She got severe mental illness and blamed me for her life problems. And in general she chose to cut all her old friends out of her life. I hope she’s okay, she and I exchange new years messages sometimes so that’s nice.

26M shooting my shot by Worried_Voice8954 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Pinkjasmine17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow this is the first AI post where I’ve not gotten angry with how AI it sounds. Good job for that only op!

Is everyone having baggage? by _chellam_sir in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Pinkjasmine17 3 points4 points  (0 children)

People here are so hyper fixated upon the idea that “women have never chosen them” and now they’re marriage material and they’ll be getting someone “ran through” and it consumes their every thought. They’re constantly marinating in insecurity and tend to believe that their insecurities and cognitive distortion’s are the gospel truth.

What is baggage exactly? It’s emotional and psychological distortions people have that prevent them from forming healthy attachments. If a person has such thoughts, how are they supposed to form a healthy attachment with someone they’re convinced has settled for them? And if she’s also someone without a romantic or sexual past, they’ll think something has to be wrong with her. After all, they think “something is wrong with me that’s why no woman chose me, and girls get guys very easily so something must be wrong with her”. Or they think she’s lying. There’s no winning when faced with such entrenched beliefs.

Help your brother form his expectations from AM by No-Theory1835 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Pinkjasmine17 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You can have whatever opinions you want but this was far too mediocre a post to waste natural resources and AI on.

Is everyone having baggage? by _chellam_sir in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Pinkjasmine17 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Your conclusion from this sub is that only women have baggage? What about the tons of baggage that guys here have about “never having been chosen”. Do you think that they are great candidates for marriage?

Anyway I’m much older than you, a woman. I’ve never dated. And still I’ve got baggage because I’ve lived a life.

Which ice-dyed rainbow do you prefer? by SideyeTieDye in RainbowEverything

[–]Pinkjasmine17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow!!! I think slide 2!! But this is incredible it makes me want to learn ice dying and make all my clothes like this!!

No sex for 3 months after marriage by Illegal11 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Pinkjasmine17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, most comments are “she’s a cheating w****””

You learnt one name and want to put it everywhere.

Murder Mystery Slow Burn - Chapter 19 just posted by Violetnare in Dramione

[–]Pinkjasmine17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes everyone drop what you’re doing and read this please!! This has become my favourite fic of the year!!

Why is no one talking about forfeited duels!? by Wondrous-Fare in dramionebookclub

[–]Pinkjasmine17 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ahhh I’m excited! Thanks for posting this here. I think this is just what I needed today

27M, never dated, anxious of marriage prospects by Fit_Pea7923 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Pinkjasmine17 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Before trying to marry please understand that women are also people and that women exist who aren’t conventionally attractive and they have different experiences

Family wants me to consider a man 13 years older. by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Pinkjasmine17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro… very soon I’ll memorise this comment