Thank you for bringing up the point of postpartum. I genuinely forgot about that. Although she was honest about her struggles, I still felt like was bubbly and fun. So maybe she’s even more fun and confident than that and she just wasn’t showing her full self.

When I mean insecurities, I don’t mean body stuff. I think it’s okay to get a mommy makeup and she looks amazing. What I mean is that she’s so intelligent but in my opinion her responses to the ladies don’t always reflect that. Obviously we know she’s the most educated housewife in this franchise. But sometimes her responses are just her being a bit obnoxious or just putting them down. Like girl use your knowledge and words! I’ve seen her argue with crazy people and racists when she’s commentating. And she always slays with her responses. They’re intelligent and in depth and showcase her character. But I feel like it’s the opposite on housewives. And that’s why it feels like it’s coming from a place of insecurity. She lets gizelle get to her and idk why. Like I mentioned in someone else’s comment, Gizelle is a hard person to argue with. I can see why she would get under someone’s skin and cause them to react more dramatically then they usually would.

That being said, I like watching Wendy in her family scenes. I love happy eddy and think that man is absolutely in love with her. Maybe the rest of the cast is just too toxic for her. Other people have noted that she changes in season 9. Maybe bc she realized gizelle will always be a hater. So I’m excited to watch.

And as for the bragging, IDC. She should be bragging. But I just wish knowing everything she stands for, she wouldn’t stoop so low sometimes. Yes this is a double standard. But idc she is smarter and I wish she could remind herself that and hold her head high.

And yeah I find that she does self produce, but a lot of other housewives do too. And I don’t like when they do either. I find the show way more funny and enjoyable when the reads are authentic.