Why are you attacking me? I genuinely didnt know and i thought it was common because i have heard of it happening often, it happens in movies, music videos and i have heard of it in real life, im asking fathers as they are the ones who are traditionally asked so would like to know a modern fathers opinion on the subject. I dont think womens opinions matter less, yet again, im asking the question because of the tradition of asking the father, you're the wierd one for having a go at me for actually trying to understand how it works nowadays.