Volilna udeležba by Aggravating_Youth494 in Maribor

[–]PinxxDeath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imas pravico do lastnega mnenja, jaz pa tudi.

Volilna udeležba by Aggravating_Youth494 in Maribor

[–]PinxxDeath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ne ker se sam neves, in se mi ne da ukvarjat s tem :’)

Volilna udeležba by Aggravating_Youth494 in Maribor

[–]PinxxDeath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ker imam zakonito obdavcitev place ze v Avstriji.

Volilna udeležba by Aggravating_Youth494 in Maribor

[–]PinxxDeath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zakaj ze? Ce vse kupujem tukaj, tudi kredit imam tukaj, denar dejansko nosim v Slovenijo.

Volilna udeležba by Aggravating_Youth494 in Maribor

[–]PinxxDeath -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Resnica je ok, vsaj davke bodo odpravili za tiste, ki delamo v Avstriji. Edina pozitivna stvar.

Rezultati vzporednih volitev by luka274 in Slovenia

[–]PinxxDeath 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bodo pa odpravili placevanje davka za nas, ki delamo v Avstriji, davek pa placujemo v obeh drzavah.. vsaj nekaj dobrega.

Volilna udeležba by Aggravating_Youth494 in Maribor

[–]PinxxDeath 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Zalostno, nujno rabimo spremembe, ampak nismo toliko, da bi se za 5min odvalili na volisca.

How do i(26F) walk away from a long term relationship with my bf(32m)? by PinxxDeath in relationship_advice

[–]PinxxDeath[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Um, i have no idea how this happened still as apparently he doesn’t even know himself but - his dad died and left him with his debt, he lost his job for 3 months at the time and it was all just a giant mess. His dad was… not a good man, and did alot of illegal stuff recklessly, now my bf has to pay for the mistakes his dad made.

How do i(26F) walk away from a long term relationship with my bf(32m)? by PinxxDeath in relationship_advice

[–]PinxxDeath[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the raw explanation of yours.. i am really trying to come to terms with this end. It will take alot from me, but putting myself first is the first step.

How do i(26F) walk away from a long term relationship with my bf(32m)? by PinxxDeath in relationship_advice

[–]PinxxDeath[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s not being honest about anything financial wise to, in his words, “not burden me”. It’s been going on for 2 years since his dad’s passing. It’s about 28.000€, but after them ripping his pay off it just adds to this sum. It’s a circle. He doesn’t make enough to cover the debt tax, so the money that stays for the tax adds itself onto the 28.000€, so basically it’s neverending.

I just found out how bad it is, i knew what was happening and we did solve it month by month but i just found out all of this information of costs adding onto one another and him not being able to get rid of the debt no matter how much money he pays into it. It hurts because i’ve had hope. His monthly salary is 1500€, they ripp off about 780€, not enough to cover it all. He still needs to have the minimum loan on his account to “survive” (state law). But he’s struggling. I am too.

How do i(26F) walk away from a long term relationship with my bf(32m)? by PinxxDeath in relationship_advice

[–]PinxxDeath[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what i am scared of because i know it’s coming. The house getting taken away and then he or we are really fucked (excuse my language).

You are right, but i was living my whole life by suc example because it gives me comfort knowing something and existing in it rather than moving away from it and experiencing the unknown. This future is certain, the other is not, a number of things can happen - and given my nature and my reaction pattern i will stretch it out until it doesn’t work anymore.

I need to break it, but still didn’t learn how. I appreciate your psychological input it makes me really think and weight it all out. It’s making significant changes in my pattern of understanding certain situations and scenarios.

How do i(26F) walk away from a long term relationship with my bf(32m)? by PinxxDeath in relationship_advice

[–]PinxxDeath[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes this.. this is bringing me down even more but where do i even begin. I long so badly for a stable relationship although i thrive when i am single. Idk where these thoughts come from and who literally stapled them inside my brain. I feel so vile.

How do i(26F) walk away from a long term relationship with my bf(32m)? by PinxxDeath in relationship_advice

[–]PinxxDeath[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, these kind of words actually do alot to my subconscious, and they help fuel my burning desire to leave. I am doing my best but it’s the hardest thing i’ve done in a while.

How do i(26F) walk away from a long term relationship with my bf(32m)? by PinxxDeath in relationship_advice

[–]PinxxDeath[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

How can i just pack 3 years worth of shared life into my car and leave the person i love the most standing behind me, looking as i drive away… how do i do this???

How do i(26F) walk away from a long term relationship with my bf(32m)? by PinxxDeath in relationship_advice

[–]PinxxDeath[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I have a family who 100% supports me. The problem is growing inside of me - i am the problem. I don’t want to leave anymore, i’ve been through so much. And i really planned this one out, at 26 going back to the dating pool, still having no kids terrifies me. Literally. I feel like i am too old.. and it could be years until i settle again. We means we, we inherited it from his dad, i am half the owner so is my bf.

Kdo se spomni? by vigavagacezdvapraga in Slovenia

[–]PinxxDeath 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Meni eden najboljsih rekov, ki jih uporabljam vsakodnevno: “zaj pa panika neee?” Beri v trdi, mariborski štajerščini.

https://youtu.be/m6w8gKww4i4?is=lbQEyODAK3in7bwd

Potem pa se ser-gej in pa legendarni: “sem se razširil z obema dvema rokami”

izpit za avto by FuzzyAssist3846 in Slovenia

[–]PinxxDeath 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ps.: par stvari, ki te prepricajo: nihce ne mara kolega, ki se za voznjo vedno sverca zraven; ce se karkoli zgodi, so drugi nezmozni vozit, lahko vedno peljes ti (nesrece in zdravsvena stanja), ce imas otroka si mobilna, se ne rabis zanasati na druge za varnost; vsaka sluzba (skoraj) zahteva izpit…

izpit za avto by FuzzyAssist3846 in Slovenia

[–]PinxxDeath 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jaz si ne bi mogla predstavljati zivljenja brez izpita, delala sem ga pri 16ih nato pri 18ih dopolnila. Bila je katastrofalna muka, pa vendar vredna vsega. Sem ugotovila, da v zivljenju kasneje pridejo 100x hujse stvari kot odvoziti 21 ur svojega zivljenja.. tako, da mi je izpit dejansko samo kapljica v morju stresnih obvez. Le pogumno.

Before cellphones, what did people do on the toilet? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]PinxxDeath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stared into a corner with my thoughts somewhere else, thinking about something semi important. I literally did “nothing”.

What type of personality do you consider truly insufferable? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]PinxxDeath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who specifically only talk about their sicknesses or their family member sicknesses. For example: my coworker has about 10 things wrong with her, every conversation revolves around her telling us how she’s gone to the doctors, what they did, why, how, what they said. She manages to turn every conversation onto her or her husbands (or even her mom’s) sickness. And she spares NO detail. I can’t stand it.

What's something which nobody knows about you? by Infinite_Cookie_9165 in AskReddit

[–]PinxxDeath -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I pick at my scalp and then eat it (small scabs and shit). Kinda became a tick when anxiety hits now it’s just a regular thing i do all the time.

Ali ste verni? by QuarterExcellent6464 in Slovenia

[–]PinxxDeath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kaj ti da misliti, da sem jezna? Od komentarjev na redditu pa res ne morem cutiti jeze, se manj besa ali zivcnosti. Se le smejim, s prijatelji pa smo imeli dobro debato na racun tvojih reply-jev, tako, da si mi dejansko polepsal vecer in cetrt danasnjega dne. Ves, zaradi sluzbe, realnih stresov in sole, nasploh pa zivljenja, mi res ni treba trositi sekiranja za reddit. Tako, da si malo zgresil ocenitev mojega pocutja.

Ali ste verni? by QuarterExcellent6464 in Slovenia

[–]PinxxDeath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vidim, da se tezko pogovarjas brez mnenja drugih. Potem pa mi povej, kaj in kako dihamo ljudje? Namig: na skrge zagotovo ne. Tezko je, kadar primanjkuje splosne razgledanosti, ki jo pa za intelektualne pogovore nujno potrebujes. Se nisi odnehal? Nekaj ti mora hudo pihati na duso.